Ek ghar mein do behne- my real experience

The story is moving on to a new issue of sisters getting married in the same family and the problems associated with it.

Generally it so happens that the sisters tend to fight within themselves causing a rift in the family and if things are fine within them, then the in-laws have problem with the sisters

My sister and I are married in the same family, with 2 real brothers and we have the 2nd problem in the family. my sister and I go along very well and this does not go well in the family.

My parents were also adviced by people around them not to do so, but they were confident there would be no problem. but they didnt know that if we 2 sisters dont have problem, then the world would have problem, and that exactly is happening even after so many years.

But I am waiting to see how Mishti and Kuhu deal with this (in case MishBir get married)!

DKP already produced show called BIDAI where 2 sisters married to real brothers in same family... sometimes i feel im seeing BIDAI in YRHPK... especially meenu's character...

It's a very good topic.But i don't have an answer.😆

It's not like if 2 sisters marry in the same family and become SILs will have problems. One of my cousin got married in a joint family and they are 3 SILs. They don't get along with each other at all and i have seen then bitching and back-stabbing each other all the time.😆Also one of my neighbour aunty and her sis got married in the same family and they are happy. Haan they are not living together. matlab dono ka ghar same apartments mei different floors mei hei. So i think it depends on the person and it's surroundings.

I think in a real life scenario, there will be more problems with rajvansh family type set up..bec kunal is not meenus son, and meenu is the daughter of the family..kuhu kunal mishti all r adopted 😆 Strange coincidence ..n abir who is the real and one and only son, he doesnt get along with his mother.. the irony of things😆

Otherwise too, there will be issues between devrani jethani, although a lot depends on them and the family atmosphere ...always there r comparisons and complaints..here kuhu and mishti never got along , so their getting along post mishti and abir marriage is next to impossible. Neither r they real sisters nor thy have any love or respect between them.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I think in a real life scenario, there will be more problems with rajvansh family type set up..bec kunal is not meenus son, and meenu is the daughter of the family..kuhu kunal mishti all r adopted 😆 Strange coincidence ..n abir who is the real and one and only son, he doesnt get along with his mother.. the irony of things😆

What a mess! 😆

Originally posted by: Jayati321

It's a very good topic.But i don't have an answer.😆

It's not like if 2 sisters marry in the same family and become SILs will have problems. One of my cousin got married in a joint family and they are 3 SILs. They don't get along with each other at all and i have seen then bitching and back-stabbing each other all the time.😆Also one of my neighbour aunty and her sis got married in the same family and they are happy. Haan they are not living together. matlab dono ka ghar same apartments mei different floors mei hei. So i think it depends on the person and it's surroundings.

its like how you maintain the relationship

there are always problems between two people but if these 2 people are sisters, then they are judged by people from different perspective

Originally posted by: _charu_

I think in a real life scenario, there will be more problems with rajvansh family type set up..bec kunal is not meenus son, and meenu is the daughter of the family..kuhu kunal mishti all r adopted 😆 Strange coincidence ..n abir who is the real and one and only son, he doesnt get along with his mother.. the irony of things😆

Otherwise too, there will be issues between devrani jethani, although a lot depends on them and the family atmosphere ...always there r comparisons and complaints..here kuhu and mishti never got along , so their getting along post mishti and abir marriage is next to impossible. Neither r they real sisters nor thy have any love or respect between them.

yes, kuhu and mishti never got along well. so the problems are going to be many fold

BUT here again I would like to reiterate that----------all this will happen "ONLY IF THIS MARRIAGE TAKES PLACE"

I still have doubt that this will ever happen

Nice post!

Managing a house is a different ballgame and two women will always have different approaches to doing it...

Eveyday chores to maintaining cleanliness to organizing kitchen....mother and daughter have differences on it...toh phir MIL aur bahu and two 'in-built rivals' devrani- jethani ka toh banega hi nahi....even if they are super rich and don't have to go to the kitchen or kitchen management..,.it's difficult to adjust with the opinions and rules of another woman!

Kuhu and mishti can't stay in the same house that's for sure.... Only if their relationship mends a little....you can expect it to work out

I think it depends on person to person and family too...

My mother and my masi both are devrani jethani and staying in a joint family from last 45 years....

I never saw any problem between them even due to that we also have a very good relation with our cousins like our real siblings

Nice Post!

I also feel that real sisters willing becoming co-sisters in real life.. much of it depends on sister's personality and bonding and the type of family they are getting married into..