Originally posted by: Samanalyse
This was one AMAZING analysis, Meera! 👏 Please keep 'em coming!
I think Kuhu is in that state where when you feel terrible about yourself, anyone saying or doing nice things for you only comes off as pity/disingenuity. It totally sucks that she isn't in a place to receive both Mishti's genuine praise and her frank questions and fears about entering her new home. These sisters are so rarely vulnerable with each other and it kills me when they miss genuine opportunities to bond because one or the other isn't in the right headspace.
When Mishti came back from London, Kuhu was ready to pick up from where they left off (and they were in a really good place before she left), but Mishti shut her out of the NishMish attack so Kuhu shut Mishti out of the divorce truth. Now Mishti is genuinely looking for that solidarity because she sees she could learn a thing or two from Kuhu about how to integrate into the RV household, but Kuhu is shutting her out because it kills her that Mishti is getting everything she is losing. They just keep getting their wires crossed, and the writers keep stretching that distance because god forbid we have two different but equally strong female characters have a healthy relationship!
In general, it's one of my major complaints with this show that they are never done pitting women against each other to further the plot. Mishti and Kuhu's rare moments of solidarity sparkle onscreen (not to mention how adorable Rhea and Kaveri are offscreen), but so often their tense relationship is over-exaggerated for drama instead. 😵 I have the same complaint about Meenu too -- a character who had so much potential to be a complex and compelling antagonist was reduced to the most pedestrian ITV plotting. It's a pity that this is the bread and butter of the genre 😔