Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus
Everyone please try to cool down🤗
I understand your frustrations and annoyances. Inserting Kuku between Mishbir is a bit of pain..but just hear me out.
Abir saying that he cannot afford to get married when Kuku's rishta is hanging on a thread, is not new. THAT is Abir. Don't jump to conclusions yaar. Just because he says he doesn't feel right celebrating mishbir shaadi, doesn't mean the marriage will stop. No! mishbir and the makers are giving us numerous moments to hint to us that mishbir will not back down this time. They will get married rain hail or shine.
Abir has always had a soft spot for Kunal. He's always felt guilty for pushing Kunal into the marriage, after coming to know the truth of their marriage on navratri day. He always left felt bad for Kuhu after what Meenu and Kunal did, and he supported her to learn to build self-respect and individuality.
Both mishti and abir are personalities who never celebrate their own happiness when they know and see their family/siblings are going through pain. It's just not in their dna. Which brother will be happy to celebrate his marriage when he knows his little brother's marriage is on the edge? Which sister can be wholly happy when she can clearly see something is wrong and constantly faces Kuhu's anger? (but I do agree, Mishti invading privacy is 100% wrong. Picking up Kuhu's calls or opening letters are obviously not going to help their already shaky relationship It just going to add more fuel😒)
Sure abir's choice of words today weren't the best, but his intentions are still right. He knows he cannot and will not afford to lose Mishti for Kunal this time. Like Abir 1.0 said to BP - ek rishta un do haaton me hein jo likhir hoti hai. If two people genuinely want to stay together nothing can stop them (mishbir). and if two people really don't want to stay, they will separate no matter what (Kuku)** but the twist now is that Kunal doesn't want the divorce, Kuhu too deep down wants to stay. But she's never got the attention from kunal. So she's given up. Now that Abir knows Kunal also doesn't want the divorce, he'll surely be the bigger brother and return the support and favour Nanko gave him a few days earlier when nishmish rishta was happening.
Please remember post-leap, both mishbir do not know that Kuku are still on the divorce path. Kuku had both covered up that they worked things out. Kuhu's 'keep it separate' theory has always been respected and applied by Abir. He only helps and guides Kuhu and Kunal when he personally observes or hears something directly.
hope I made sense. Didn't mean to hurt anyone. Just sharing my views🤗👍🏼🤗