Originally posted by: jyoti06
These days people in general hv very less understanding of relationships ..
Fr many public acceptance is everything ..but what happened to the much hype public proposal of arhaan-rashmi and asim-himanshi ..both were public proposals and i would really love to see if any one of these couple survive outside ..
Sidnaaz is fake bec sid gave practical reply about how outside they cant b 24hrs together like we r in this house as both will b busy in work ...so immediately people will jump to conclusion ki its just fr show and its all fake bec practical answers digest karna is difficult ..everyone wants a fairytale ..
Ab Chalo bahar dekhte hai if fairytale jodis survive or the so called fake jodi survive 😳
Exactly....it is no big deal to say I love u... yesterday during their bed convo Sid said I hate u ka opposite coz Sana said please ek baar bol de mere liye. He did it coz he didn't want to let her down. But he also said aise I love u nahi bol sakta. People misinterpreted this scene. But I have huge respect for him. Sid is way too real and practical. He has feelings for her. He shows it through his actions and his one statement that "Meri attachment Jo tere sath Hui wo aaj Tak life mein kisi me sath nahi hui hai" .this shows it's too real for him and he will not decimate it by saying I love u on tv where there will be lots of talks and media articles on it. Sid knows all this. Saying I love u is very easy nowadays where it has lost its value actually. We say I love my dog, I love my friends. Love word is so overly used and w'out much thought. But Sid knows it's importance. He won't say if he can't keep it. Sana is a different person altogether. both are right in their places. Sid is quite spiritual and deep.
And His idea of relationship is not only saying I am in love or I love u..his idea of rlsnhp is to live that rlsnhp in the most real way. Once he said when arti asked ki dinner pe nahi jayega agar gf ko pasand hoga- he said aisa nahi hai ki Jana hi hai kyunki dinner pe Jana hota hai but jayenge usme Kya hai jab Mann karega... He is real and not typical romantic like giving flowers or uttering I love u daily. He lives it organically. And he lived this way with Sana in this house. Sleeping together ,eating together, seeing each other without makeup,with grown upper lips, no hair cut, looking ugly without any baths, with stinking bodies and mouths and still sleep beside eo., knowing the worst side of each other ,worst secrets of each other (Sana's controversy, Sid's drug addiction, his past) in the most toxic environment and still like/love each other. Never they bitched about the other behind their back. They shared their doubts but never wanted bad for the other. Even staying in a game they never made eachother a part of their game. Their rlsnhp have grown leaps and bound in these 4 months. Two complete strangers have come a long way. This must have taken a year or two if they had met outside. And now when they will date outside ,I don't see there will be any formalities or awkwardness between them,that they have to get ready to impress the other, look good ,behave in a certain way, or have to hide their flaws. Everything is out in open about their personalities. The only thing they will have to adjust to is their different lifestyle, busy schedulesand people in their lives. Which is very important for any rlnshp to grow and survive.
And now Sid wants to see if it can survive in the real world with real issues. Sana is little filmy and going with flow types. She is not thinking about it much considering her age and personality but Sid is so so right in his place. He is the mature one and is taking full responsibility of this rlsnhp, plus he is an overthinker too.he doesn't want it to go wrong coz Sana is precious to him. He said lifelong tere sath rishta rahega. He also said once to Sana - ki tu mujhe Meri family jaisi lagti hai. He will never exploit Sana's emotions. What more real and pure can get than this bond. He loves her. And I will never ever doubt that.
I don't care if they end up getting married or not (although I want them to get married soon) but still even if they don't end up for life together, their bond still is the purest of all. Some people are soulmates. And I see mutual respect and pure love between them.
But I pray they end up together. Make beautiful babies and love each other for life. I have never shipped any real life couple in my entire life or have wanted celebrities to get married. But this is the first one for me. Coz I so bloody can relate to them. they need each other in their lives. They will become better individuals with the other besides them. And what can be more beautiful than this.