Hi everyone,
I am with cool and uru regarding the recent episodes... 🤗🤗
Abir today promised that he will keep mah’s happy as well because
Now that Mishbir were very close out in public on top the ambulance, as parents, they would want them to get married ASAP before they take any drastic step.
About rushing for marriage, i would like to share a real time story here. My school mate/ class mate / tuition mate (you can call her anything), when we were in 12 std, She fell for a Hindu boy being a Muslim. I know it is not in your control for whom you should fall in love with or when how where. But at least control what is in your hands, I advised her many times to not roam around with him because they might get caught. Nope she didn’t listen and When her parents came to know about it, they discontinued her studies then got her married and send her away to Dubai. I really felt very sad for when I met her during my second of engineering, I was carrying my drafts and all she was carrying baby. Oh god.😔 An ambitious who wanted to bring difference in architecture is now a home maker. I am not saying it is bad to be a home make actually I call all the home makers as ‘Domestic Engineers’.Also, girls should also learn to say ‘No’. One of my cousins parents got her married within a month because her first engagement broke for some reason. But her husband is such a rude person. Her life is spoiled.
Be it arranged or love marriage, think by mind but feel the love in your heart. That will be get you to Misbir wala pyaar.
See even in real life you’ll have highs and lows, after breakup it was Mishbir’s low phase in their life. Most of us are not excited simply because we can’t see the lows of Mishbir. As we’re attached too much to Misbir, we wanted only good for them. But every human has to face both highs and lows, trust me no one can escape out of it. There is a saying in my native language Tamil
‘Even fate can be defeated or overcome by mind’.
Mishti could have defeated the fate if she handled baba truth well and likewise abir could have defeated the breakup if he was thinking through his mind ( remember mishti said work on the facts).
Instead of having a debate that whether you should think by mind or conscience.
‘I would say think by mind that’s your brain’s job anyway) and feel (or follow) your conscience ( that’s your heart’s job).
Now Nannu not disclosing the drunk act to mishti... he won’t because in the fear of losing mishti’ s friendship and family’s love. That is the main reason he left them right from the middle of nowhere.
But he did expose himself of the accident because that would put abir in a good books of Mah’s. If he would have added the drama act infront of the family BB would have come out as well which wouldn’t go well withMah’s.Did’nt BM said to mishti that before leaving to airport Nannu gave this letter to her. So that means he came home to take his things before leaving to airport. I wish they could’ve shown at least just one more scene with family but alas they didn’t make they don’t want to because time and money is involved.
Coming to Nannu’s sacrifice part:
According to Mishti (bear in mind that she doesn’t know the drunken act), she said to nannu tat she will marry him if he still wants it. That question of Mishti throwback Abir ( if you have noticed his reaction) because he know what nannu is capable of. Nish just confessed what could bring him and abir in good books and shoot off from the place. so it is a sacrifice of Nish (because he was in love with mishti) she gave all hopes to him. Mishti repeat that she needs to happy and marry abir because now er BFF who is family is also on her side. Being a foster child, she doesn’t want to upset her foster family that is it.
Also Mishbir romance, are yaar they are unsure about the next min drama in the family. They are not in peace. Now all they want is get married then they could lifelong. Abir knows mishti is worried tat is why to lighten up the atmosphere he was little asanskari in yesterday episode ( like asking for hug and “ do you like what you see” and all).All I would say is sit back and enjoy. 😊
Wow wow Moni seriously hats off yaara such a beautiful post 👏👏👏🤗🤗🤗
you just answered all of the questions and worries i had which didnt let me enjoy episode now after watching episode again and reading your post actually makes alot of sense and i love it dear... thank you so much.. 🤗
i like your way of explaining things by relating it to a real life incident its really good you know it makes our show too realistic and makes me love our show more... now i understand this rushed shaadi concept even bp said in today episode that before another hindrances comes lets get done with it so its completely understandable yaar 👍🏼 and this also explains the nish mish shaadi concept and also gave out a message of fighting for your love n standing against wrong which failed in the real life incident you said even i have seen such marriage... one of my besite she loved someone and when her parents talked about her marriage she openly said to them about it but the guy needed time to settle before they can get married but parents were not ready they didnt wanna take risk if anyone saw the couple outside roaming around or any problems comes they wanted them to get married but they got time within 3 months they got married and now living happily...
and the tamil proverb "vithiyau mathiyal vella mudiyum" this one right... you explained it so well dear for mishbir... just hope this time they think properly and in nish mish end time they did do this and now today abir said lets do everything together and i hope they stick to the promise... uff exciting.. ❤️
Nishant letter ok i didnt much mind it as i found it little lousy in writing bit but you gave a perfect explanation now this makes alot of sense... 👍🏼
uff now i feel so light yaar and i'm actually liking the episode and show n understand everything now just gonna relax and enjoy like you said 🤗 once again thank you dear #MikkaNandri🤗
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