Originally posted by: Onyourface
Today's episode seems to be an attempt by makers to calm down the atmosphere, especially after back to back cyclones of drama, I felt this was much needed , it's a calm after a storm or before a new storm or both , that time will tell 
But I am glad makers gave us enough hints in today's episode that relax everyone, mishbir are definitely getting married this time , so just enjoy 
1. "Reshan ko aag mein jhokha nahi jaata, aur aap vo resham hai mishti "
Perfectly put by BP, and understand and analysed by abir, I can sense those purane BP and abir the ones who rather than forcing any decisions used to prefer staying in the background, but only helped mishti when she was vulnerable... BP is not forcing mishti to obey him , he is just making her aware , and abir too is just asking her to think about living separately... both abir and BP are now on the same page, I really want abir and BP heart to heart convo but I think makers are saving it now , some raw material for the big drama day haha was actually surprised to see mishti who was all " mujhe koi farak nahi padta Meenakshi aunty ka karti hai " in the morning was all " abir Meenakshi aunty maan toh gayi, ab kya problem hai " at night 
Vo ITV bahu banne jaa rahi hai...thoda bohot gaay element aa jaata hai
2. Jas's anger and irritation is something I understand now , she didn't like mishti , she didnt want the marriage to happen , she warned BP and nannu, finally when she was ready to somewhat accept mishti ...then things flipped and now she is not only hurt because of nannu's heartbreak but also because mishti was the one who broke the rishta ( thoda ego issue bhi aa gaya ) #MahsKiBenba .... vo kya hai benba vacation pe hai ...toh koi hona chahie na mishti ki wajah se flag uthane wala....soon varsha and kuhu are going to follow .... abir not only knows how to impress a girl's mother ( BM ) , he also knows how to impress a boy's mother ( jas) Kya unconditional love hai abir ka nannu aur nannu ki mummy ke liye 
Anyways, see I understand mishbir apologising time and again , they just want everyone to happy around along with their own happiness, and if for that they wish to go a extra mile , that's okay...but sometimes too much sorry also irritates the other person...that's what is happening with jas ....both should have a time please for the moment ...
3. Kuhu's jealousy and insecurities are rising . It has more to do with kunals behaviour towards her which actually wasn't healthy from day 1 , as a son and as a brother he is in his best form ...in the process he is forgetting his relationship with kuhu ...especially at times when they are at loggerheads....kuhu feeling insecure is natural ...but her way to express it through hurting mishbir will be wrong.... she has problems with kunal, she should have a conversation with him about .... but that will be too mature and an escape from drama which makers don't like....so 
4. I can sense a level of maturity , awareness and increased level of understanding between mishbir now , all these tracks were practice sessions for mishbir But now both of them are aware about the strength of their love and that's why they are very confident that no matter what they will sail through now....m happy they have a back up plan now in advance ( bhaag ke shaadi ) ....high chances they are going to use It loved the video call conversation.. Glad after ages they decided to make a perfect use of that phone .... although o expected some heart to heart convo ...but I think its okay....they have gone through a painful trauma ...and now instead of discussing all this and rona dhona, they preferred to make each other comfortable by reliving those fun naughty moments ....and anyways...makers know our kamzor nas very well 
So instead of waiting till Friday , aag ki seriousness ko dekhte hue ....Wednesday ko hi paani daalna shuru kar diya Desperate times desperate measures you see ....view acha tha abir...next time thoda aur okay ....
5. Loved the BM mishti scene as well....especially her advice to mishti "relations utne hi complicated hote hai jitna hum unhe banate hai " #KeepItSimple , basically she wanted to tell that no matter what, basic element of any relationship ,which is the base of the relationship should remain intact , giving an example of mishnish friendship, it was simple had they not tried to complicate it by going for a shaadi ...in the same way, mishti's and kuhu's relationship ( if any ) has been about estranged sisters ...the basic element, but now with mishbir shaadi..they will share another relation of devrani jethani ...so keep it simple and stick to the basic element.... ( lekin pure UNIVERSE ko pata hai, yeh hone vala nahi hai ) vaise nishant ne letter main kya likha hai?
6. Benba genuine hai ya nahi I dont know Nidhi's dialogue to kuhu that benba wants a more lavish wedding than kuku's Keeps me doubting on benba .....she very well knows kuhu's weakness and she might be planning to play a divide and rule here again.... or she genuinely wants abir to stay back now no matter what ....so for the sake of abir , accept mishti....acha hai but then she will flip again if mishbir decide to live separately...she will be all like ....Maine itna kuch kiya mere bete ke liye....mishti ko bhi apna liye sache dil se , phir bhi mishti mere bete ko mujhse cheen ke le gayi lol ...mishti ki wajah se starts again
7. I would have been on my rant mode today ..had they shown abir believing benba easily....because that would have been a huge compromise on his neend mein bhi hoshiyar skills He knows now he cant take any chances .... ab karo ya maro vali situation hai .... toh phunk phunk ke kadam rakh raha hai .. .... I noticed something Vo ab baal analysis nahi ho rahe ...toh main abir ke shirt analysis kar leti hun ....in the break up phase ...he was giving so dark shirts , that defined his mood ....angry young man vala .... then full white kurta ...defines a sense of calm, peace , forgiveness ..and these subtle pastel colour shirts define a subtle layer of emotions, not too extreme , a calmness to be aware and smartly go with the flow........
I loved today's episode...I like when they are high on emotions but instead of doing all dramatic , they take a subtle route.... i hope they maintain the same layer throughout the track .... though I am still not happy the way nannu track was closed in a rush rush manner ...but its okay raat gayi baat gayi....
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Looking forward to future epis !!
14 th Feb is the date....not a typo error ...14 th Feb is the date 
PS: they are skipping GD it seems That's a huge sign ...shaadi will happen 
Udne Ki Aasha
