SidNaaz Discussion Thread 31: Maine Title Jeeta & Tune Trophy🤪

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Gagori Chatterjee

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Posted: 5 years ago

This is SidNaaz Discussion thread 30...aa jao sab yaha smiley4 ..

Warning for all Shippers in Advance : Its not easy to ship this toxic jodi called SidNaaz if u hv a weak heart smiley4 ..Currently BB13 is rewriting history with SidNaaz and we r in for some real toxic mills & boons love-hate story where "Nafrat paas aane na de & Pyaar dur jaane na de " smiley15 ..So to ship such a jodi u need truck loads of patience along with strong will power & mazboot dil smiley36 ..

Current Status :

We all have different ways of looking at this particular episode as it was quite volatile one fr all SidNaaz fans with lots of ups and downs...For me it was quite a positive episode as I saw Sid getting quite restless about his feelings fr Sana which his mind wants to deny but heart desperately wants to own her and Sana got some harsh reality check from press media which right now might look bad fr her but in the long run she will remember what Sid told her about how its not necessary that in life 1 lakh people will like her , just 1 person liking her should b enough to mk her happy ..

Today I will not update scene by scene but will focus more on Sid's hidden feelings fr Sana which we feel r not highlighted enough in episode when the reality is his feelings were visible more than Sana today in the episode ..

Today I found Sid's acting very weird if u see the pattern after Sana's fake eviction drama..He fears that the time is near and he will loose her after going in outside world bec of age gap and so his mind wanted to friendzone her but his heart was craving to listen imaginary husband-wife stories about their future life from Sana's mouth just to feel good ..Its a dilemma between his heart and mind which is making us confused about his feelings ..

Here r few pointers below why I think the above for Sid ..

First in the morning Sid tells Sana about never do any self harm like beating yourself if anyone calls u jealous or flipper bec in life its not necessary that everyone will say nice about u ; I guess it was his intution before the press conference itself that today Sana might hv to face the real world which will give her bitter reality chk and I bet this talk of Sid here made Sana strong to answer the media later ; Sid then repeatedly tells her to call him whenever she needs him and while saying this he was continuously checking her reaction but Sana just silently said yes which disappointed Sid mayb bec he was expecting some other reply 😈..But Sana just silently agreed to whatever he said and so he too kept it limited to "call me whenever u need me in life and I will b there fr u " 😭..Here Sid friend zoned her but same time he looks at her and says be happy even if 1 person likes u and praises u , dont always expect 1 lakh people to like u or give u attention ..Here he was talking about himself as Sana keeps telling him that when u dont talk to me ,I goto Vishal or Asim as they give me attention ..These words in past did hurt Sid as he mayb wondering in real world if I get busy in work, she might just leave me and goto someone else fr attention and thats why his words about be happy even if 1 person likes and praises u ..That was his hurt and feelings speaking which was evident in his eyes as we can see in below pictures 😭...

https://twitter.com/cap_weirdo/status/1224748750259871745?s=19

Second In the evening we see Sana laying on Sid's lap and he tells her after 10 yrs how things will b for both as they mayb married by then and asks her about her husband and kids to know whats her idea of a happy family 😉 ..When she describes her husband similar to Sid who has habit of smoking early morning followed by asking her to mk tea fr him and then doing her tareef just to get head massage from her 😆and also says one of her kid belongs to Sid and how that kid is also team obsessed like her father 😆, Sid gets very happy and excited listening to all this and even teases her saying the kid is ziddi like his mom 😉..She even says how her husband won the BB trophy in shorts only 😆while she won the title 😉..She was indirectly hinting at Sid will win trophy while she will win him 😳 ..Sid does not run away from this convo and even teases her about how is her sasuma doing and then Sana too asks him did u meet your sasuma in punjab to which he blushes and caught off guard again 😆...In this entire convo he gives husband vibes that too right after he friend zoned her in the morning smiley5 smiley36 ..This is where I said his mind might want to friend zone her but his heart was craving to hear these future marriage talks fm Sana's mouth just to know if after 10 yrs fm now she will forget him and her answer that she imagines a life with Sid as her husband gave him happiness that moment 😳..

https://twitter.com/cap_weirdo/status/1224751447910371333?s=19

https://twitter.com/bababhatti7/status/1224750481089626118?s=19

Third At night Sid participates in the ghost prank where Arti scares Sana and we see Sana in fear starts crying when Sid consoles her like a little baby 😳...Again way both sleep in each other's arms or way he was consoling her after the prank by wiping her tears and carassing her back gives major husband goals which is not possible if u just friend zoned her in the morning 😳😆

https://twitter.com/TripsIsLove/status/1224591417659576321?s=19

Fourth next morning when Sana in garden area was teasing Sid about their joint photo frame in bb house and said we will click picture as husband wife ,Sid kept denying the husband tag till Rashmi was around..But as soon as Rashmi went , he told in sana's ears about that herbal lotus door where photo click was written😉..So he dint deny clicking pic with her as her husband and he hinted bathroom door which says a lot smiley15 smiley36 ..Also the way he holds Sana's face so passionately almost squeezing it while telling her about the herbal lotus door gives away the desire that he feels fr her when they r in private but when someone's around he becomes conscious ..Here I got a feel that only reason Sid dont want to accept his feelings fr Sana in public is bec somewhere he is insecure about Sana opting fr a younger guy once she goes outside and then he will look like a fool in front of all , so he plays the safe option of friend zoning her in public but in private he tries his best to give her that gandi aadat of his so that she never leaves him 😈..

https://twitter.com/bababhatti7/status/1224748752436637696?s=19

Fifth Sid ki ruh kaap jaati hai when Pahira fights 😆..We can see how desperately he wanted Pahira to patch up yesterday .. Its bec he still fears Sana going back to Paras if Mahira breaks up with Paras and thats one reason he sticks to Pahira despite knowing both r useless smiley36 ..Infact he ran to tell Sana that both r fighting , u can try your luck with Paras now just to chk Sana's reaction and when he saw she was indifferent about it , he gave her that love byte on her cheeks in excitement bec fr once he forgot there r cameras ..U dont give such bytes on cheek to your just friend, right ?? 😉😆..

https://twitter.com/Madyyy___/status/1224777846075293702?s=19

Sixth just before the press conference Sid teases Sana on eating table about Paras again ..Sana gets mad and tells Sid dont come near me now and sits elsewhere ..This is what Sid mayb telling in precap to media that she said dont come near me , so mayb she will goto Asim now after which Sana was crying ..Again his fear that after going outside Sana might opt fr a younger guy like Paras or Asim as her lifepartner over him bec of age gap is making him insecure and so he wants to drive her away but same time wants to chk if his taunts about other guys emotionally affects her which will mean she loves him in real and wont change even after going out..

Above pointers clearly brings out Sid's feelings as well as his hidden insecurities as time is coming near when show will end and he fears parting ways with her otherwise why will u hurt her like this if u friend zoned her ? ..So theres definitely something that Sid expects fm Sana ..Mayb he wants her to directly tell him I love u and only belong to u as age dont matter ...He is nonstop testing her bec he is mad about her and not able to let her go even if his mind says so ..The fear that once she steps out she might opt fr younger guy is his biggest fear and Paras Asim etc falls in Sana ka age bracket ..Media made it further mess by drilling it in Sid ka mind that Sana keeps going to Asim smiley18 ..

Now comes the much awaited Press Conference ...

Sana's replies in press conference..

Sana was grilled by media to extreme limits from being a flipper to her love angles with various men like Paras , Sid , Gautam , Kartik etc but she passed the test so far with flying colours as her replies were all spot on ⭐️...

She made it clear in every reply that Sid is her first priority and though she cannot name these feelings yet but she has feelings for Sid which she wont deny 👏..She also made it clear that she is just fan of Gautam and hv crush on Kartik, nothing more to it ..She even cleared her stand about Paras when she said she never loved him but had attachment with him in the beginning but she backed out the moment she saw his gf's tattoo on his wrist ..Good thing is she cleared it all right in front of Sid and so in a way its good that media did ask her these questions in open ..

Also when she was asked about compromising on her self respect fr Sid , fr once Sana dint give confusing reply and instead clearly said that being with Sid gives her khushi and she becomes sad when she dont talk to Sid , so it has nothing to do with her self respect but more like Sid is her khushi ..

Sid's replies in press conference..

Sid is not very good when it comes to answering the media and it was proved yesterday as he could not even defend well when questions were just asked about him or his aggression ..He tried giving all politically correct answers which shows how he is a private person and not very media savvy at all ..Here those expecting him to defend Sana , need to realise that he failed even defending himself properly when questions were about him 😆..

But having said that, I m still more than satisfied about whatever he told regarding Sana considering he never spoke about any girl before in media at all and this mayb first time he is accepting in front of media that he shares a close bond/friendship with a girl ....

Sid was asked about the cigarette addiction comment and here we can see both Sid and Sana looking at each other feeling embarassed 😆and Sid was like achha yeh bahar aaya hai 😆..It proves that what he shares with Sana is very private and he was shocked that this was shared outside..Here he defends it well saying he shares a close bond with Sana and yes they do fight too 😆..Sana was not fully happy with his short reply though but she need to reslise this is Sid fr u , he is a private person but he still accepted their bond 😳..

Sid was also asked about SidNaaz hashtag and how its looking fake now bec Sana always flips ..Here again I loved Sid's reply when he said SidNaaz hashtag is just made by social media which does not matter to him bec truth is he shares his closest bond/ friendship with Sana in this house and whether she flips or play games or whatever, he still spends max time with her bec he shares a close bond of friendship with her ..So not once he denied their bond here 👍🏼..Just because he dont loudly stress on his replies, so we tend to ignore what he says ..For a private person like Sid , saying so much about his bond with a girl is more thsn enough 🤔..

Also in today's Epi Sid will even defend the point about Salman warning him in one wkw to which he will say even after that no distance or difference hv come between us ..We saw this reply of his already in sneek peak and fr a private person like Sid , this is a huge thing to say that he dint bother what Salman said 👍🏼..

Only reason Sid kept quiet when Sana was repeatedly questioned about her flip nature or multiple guys in her life is bec fr once he want Sana to realise the importance of loyalty in life which comes with actions and not just words as it will help her in long run and he knew she will defend herself well ..

Press Conference is not over yet , so will wait to see how it affects SidNaaz relation but I feel all this is resulting in some climax which will b good fr SidNaaz bec both r in love ..Even the USUD that came today proves the same as its all about Sid and Sana sharing their personal lives with each other where fr once even Sid is opening up...

So Current Status is : Mind wants to friend zone her but heart wants to play husband-wife games with her 😛..

Edited by jyoti06 - 5 years ago

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Thankyou for new thread, Jyo. Sidnaaz for the win always 🥳

Catcher, this for you- carryover from the previous thread.

Originally posted by: CatcherInTheRye
i know his hurt never bothers her at first but her hurt always bothers him. And that hurts me.

Disclaimer: This is not a post against Siddharth. It is loud thinking and looking at the root cause of issues. Other Sid fans may kindly skip this post if you are very sensitive. Thanks.

Sid’s hurt sure bothers her, Catcher. The difference is that when Sana is hurt, she cries and he comes to her to heal her at whatever point if he does and she immediately relents and forgives and moves on. However when he is hurt, it turns into anger and he says unsavory words and pushes her off. All the manaoing she has been doing through the entire length of these months- what was that? smiley22 Like seriously, Catcher? Tending to his hurt only right? Her way of healing him is saying she loves him from the rooftops and to make him feel secure aise. It’s not just a selfish exercise. She feels it helps coz if he told her it would help her too. We know how good he feels each time she reinforces that she loves him- shows on his face. Her way of helping him heal is also all these head massages and body massages- the tending touch, the hugs and kisses. Mamma Mia! Which girl does all this these days?! If we are talking of action, then give credit to that too, all of which is also action! Again, for her talking to him is venting and destressing. She said it so clearly yesterday that he is her khushi. We know it is the same for him. Her being around matters to him even if just lying down on the bed. But he doesn’t talk about his past for various reasons and that has confused her too several times and she has voiced it too. Sid smokes it out.

In life later, beyond the game, he will have to spell out and communicate that he is hurt and why in proper words like she does. It is easy to understand her coz she keeps saying why exactly she is hurt and that is one of the reasons he loves her- she is transparent and not that tough to figure out. He rarely says what exactly hurts coz of cameras perhaps or his reserved attitude or embarrassment at his own vulnerability (like when she mentions sweetheart, babe etc we understand her saying golu molu to others hurts him too perhaps. Similarly with the pappiyan jhappiyan conversation) and that has created this entire imbalanced scenario and then he worsens the situation via needless words and/or flirting or something else that hurts her and instead of addressing the issues straight on, the layers pile one upon the other.

Yes, he has mentioned sitting with Asim and Rashmi (and Vishal and Bagga and.... )hurts, but she has also had no other other way to survive in the game plus it is only now that Sid has begun keeping a certain distance from PaHira and Aarti and Zariwala etc. She can’t play the game like doormat Aarti who survives via nepotistic connections alone and not by skill. Sana has been a survivor on her own might, be it her skill sets or rawness or her crow talk or her socializing or her entertainment tactics or her professions of love.

I am talking of how it’s been in the past and not the present. Things are surely changing between them and it’s been tiny steps forward. Good steps relationship wise as unsavory they may be for viewers at time. The friction and fighting is essential to understand and move forward. But don’t compare a 26 year old with abandonment issues to a 39 year old with trust issues. One may be a child woman and the other a man child, but unless both of them communicate equally as they will learn to do over time, they will hit several roadblocks.

Sana is no Mother Teresa or Florence Nightingale. But given all circumstances, she has been one of the most adaptable and large hearted girls I have come across in modern times. Like Aarti said Sid is not easy to live with (Sana too may not be easy to live with, but I differ on that). Any other urban girl, and they’d have quit trying to break his walls and run the other end with the abusive language he flings when upset. But she gets the reasons for his hurt and hence doesn’t run and she’s in love and fans of Sana have learnt to love Siddharth through her eyes. If she hadn’t been there to soften his image and help us see the real him, it would have been everybody’s loss. He would have carried the khadoos image throughout.

So, let’s not make it sound like he is always the giver just coz you guys haven’t come across real men perhaps- I don’t know if that is the case. I live in a family where my late grandfathers were and my father, husband and son are among the most sensitive role models of men ever- so I have benchmarks for what male giving is all about. Just because we live in a patriarchal society doesn’t mean we see things only from the male point of view. Siddharth’s own mother mentioned the golden cage. Its several many implications should be adequate to lend you a sense of how different perspectives run.

And before people throw comments at me saying why am I even thinking of Sid for Sana if he is so bad etc, don’t get defensive. I am not even saying he is bad. He has major flaws just like Sana has. I am just going to the root of the issue at hand here, which is lack of proper communication amongst a couple. His hurt is just as equal as hers- no two ways about that and just coz Sana’s approach to everything is different doesn’t make her insensitive. Given the kind of mutual understanding and chemistry they have despite all odds and all personal inhibitions and limitations inside the house, the potential for Sidnaaz to succeed in life is huge and it’s lifelong learning for them too as for any couple.

You can still feel hurt since you stan Siddharth, Catcher, and take on his moods and worries upon yourself. But I had to say more than my two cents on this. Peace.

Edited by Uma2010 - 5 years ago