Originally posted by: chinnu_7
I disagree on ur lines there was no ego but anger .
Marriage drama was not needed a simple separation would have been convincing to the drama of todays episode .
In anger akshat went overboard of opting to marrying antara even though u might cover it with fake wedding and real divorce .
Mocking wedding by akshat has been shown many times .
LOsing kid will make human's break but marrying a murderer in front of ur wife to put her down in anger is a murder of relationship .
i totally disagree its not ego /bhool that broke it its totally blind anger of akshat and his words that totally killed the bond they had.
In anger people kill people thats what he did he killed his love and bond he had with guddan .
what if akshat make antara pregnant in future in anger issues with guddan will u term it as choti si ego ?
today it was silly to show "u didn't stop me u left me"
if simple separation without marriage drama this episode would have been convincing
Hello Its your right to disagree with me, we both have a different perspective regarding the show, I am taking it positivity and while you are giving a critical view.
After watching the episode in full sense, I stand by my view and my interpretation of the episodes. I stand by that both Guddan and AJ were the equally the victim & the culprit and both were equally responsible for the situation they landed in because neither the husband and wife wanted to back out from their POV & listen to the other.
Preleap both husband and wife Mr Akshat Jindal and Mrs. Guddan Akshat Jindal had shown anger, stubbornness, ego for a mistake both of them committed indirectly or directly with the actions and words of 3rd party.
- Guddan Bhool: Despite Dadi, her two bahus, & her husband AKshat Jindal protesting she allowed and gave permission to stay in Jindal Bhavan for two days because she thinks from her Dil not her Dimaag.
- AJ State of Mind: after loosing Alisha & learning of his child existence he was vulnerable because he didnt have the option to mourn and talk to Guddan about their daughters death and let go of his pain and mourn her properly, because doctor informed him that his wife Guddan was expecting their child and she shouldnt be stress as her health critical. AJ was in dilemma whether to mourn or enjoy the arrival of his child.
- AJ Bhool was he believed in Antara's words and thought she had straighten her ways n became Positive character, he blind side her cunning & evil nature because like him she lost her child too and he didn't wanted to give stress or tension to Guddan. He some what believed in the evidence that Antara presented to him. Akshat jindal always made decision made on the Evidence that was presented to him his Dimaag over Dil.
I agree with you "anger people kill people" but it depends on the level of Anger a person has, what circumstances, actions led to fuming and building a person anger. People killing in anger is shown due to the built of events, someone action or something, loosing a person, that causes makes a sane person became insane loose their psychological balance.
According to psychologytoday "Anger is a protective emotion, activated by a dual perception of vulnerability and threat (to self or valued others). Of course, the more vulnerable we feel, the more threat we perceive. When anger is a problem – making us act against our long-term best interests – it’s only a symptom; perceived vulnerability is the usual cause. Most problem-anger originates with ego vulnerability, i.e., someone says or does something that offends your ego or makes you feel devalued."
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201501/anger-and-vulnerability
what if akshat make antara pregnant in future in anger issues with guddan will u term it as choti si ego ?
- Which is impossible to do because Guddan and Akshat Jindal still love each other and both are trying to understand the other situation by giving n voicing out their POV. Also this story is about Akshat Jindal who is ML and Guddan FL who are meant to be together, and how circustmances and time bring them together despite both of them equally ruining their marital life and both giving each other 2nd chances.
In the past four years, Akshat Jindal was already Angry at Guddan for leaving him n their relationship n giving up on it.
- In the past four years if Akshat Jindal wanted to fullfill his Hawas anytime he could have so by Antara extra money or hiring escort but he didn’t he chose to self destroy him self by drinking n becoming an Alcoholi.
Akshat Jindal could have paid Antara more money and have his so called Warris without him having physically impregnating Antara via IVF treatments , he can afford it. But Akshat Jindal isn’t interested in having a child that shares a same DNA with Antara because he knows she will take advantage of innocent child n use it for her own profit.
🙏Please note I don’t want to interact and argue with you Any further on this discussion because we both will keep arguing back and forth both trying to prove our POV correct. I dont want to further argue with you on this matter. I respect your Critical POV and opinion too.
At the end of the day this is just Fictional Show & Characters we both have our own individual rights to like(praise the characters n enjoy the show) and dislike ( criticize n bash the writers/characters/show)
Both of our POV regarding show and characters are different and we both interrupted it differently. ✌️
Edited by Piku_S - 5 years ago
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