VERY QUICK TO JUDGE HIMANSHI ?

HER BREAK UP

I have seen many who are ONLY blaming her for the break up !

I just want to put on 2 cents on her

Why do we feel that she is the ONLY reason for the break up and NOT CHOW ? Coz she is girl ?

Or some blame ASIM !

Let me very clear here ! None of us who chow is and what kind of person he is !

We don't know what kind of relation they shared ! He lives in Canada and they were in a long term relation...apart from this we have 0 idea about their relation !

If a guy is breaking up with a girl whom has been in a 9 year long relation with shows that there was 0 trust between the two!

Himanshi never crossed that line with Asim when she was inside the house!

If a girl is in a relation with a boy and there comes another BOY who professes his one sided love for him but the girl doesn't reciprocate but develops a bond with him! If on this basis his bf breaks up with her Then the bf can't be left off the hook!

MANY BLAME THAT SHE IS USING ASIM

I guess we all were very quick to judge her including me !

But then I tried to see from her perspective too !

She likes Asim but is unsure and doesn't want to commit right now and I don't think there is anything massively wrong here !

Her ways might have been a bit shady BUT how are we so sure about her intentions ?

She was adviced not to commit anything on national TV

This was adviced to her not only by her friends but by Umar as well

She INFRONT OF SALMAN CONFESSED THAT SHE LOVES ASIM

IN THE CAPTAINCY TASK SHE PLAYED SO WELL , wven Gupta got frustrated coz she did not listen to him

NOW WHEN SHE IS OUT OF THE HOUSE, SHE IS STILL SUPPPORTING ASIM !

RASHMI - HIMANSHI FIASCO

She shouldn't have spoken about Arhaan! BUT EVEN Rashmi asked her about Arhaan.. Also Himanshi clearly said that she had spoken about this on the very first day and the flip was shown later on !

Also what if Arhaan really said this to Himnanshi? WHY are we again so sure thst she is manipulative here !

What if Arhaan did tell Himanshi these things!

Just like we are talking Rashmi's word that she didn't know about the wedding and kid ....what if Himanshi also spoke the truth ?

No one is taking Arhaan's word BUT believing Rashmi that she didn't know about the wedding and child (though she earlier did say that she knew about the wedding)

None of us knew that Himanshi was handling things from outside for Rashmi (in touch with the creatives and all ) ....So, there are closer than we know !

Arhaan could have told Himanshi this and she simply informed Asim which Asim rightly said that she could have avoided

MANY Rashmi fans keep saying that why is a woman always blamed (in Rashmi's case) well Himanshi is also a woman ! The same question applies here as well !

It is Asim and Himanshi's personal life ! We As a society are very quick to judge women and pass our final judgement ! Who are we to decide that the girl is using Asim, or Asim should break up ?

.there is Salman who keeps blaming her ! Tells Asim that he is her REBOUND ! Saying that to a girl on national TV ! Wow !

Himanshi has said that she loves Asim, is supporting him from outside, did say that she wants to take things slow and explore their bond once Asim comes out of the show!

I feel we are WAY TOO HARSH WHEN IT COMES TO JUDGING HIMANSHI !

I'm with himanshi in this matter. And seeing various unseen videos of them,I can say Rashmi and Himanshi are close to each other and Arhaan too(even Kanika Mann is close to rashmi and Arhaan,she is also from Punjabi industry and himanshi might know her too). So Himanshi knows everything.

And Rashmi did accept in front of Salman that she knew about the marriage,then how can she suddenly change the statement. I can bet she already knew about the kid too,nahi toh itna sab Jaan me ke baad bhi usey propose karne na lag jaati.

The actual culprit of all this mess is not himanshi but the channel who just wants ratings at any cost. Salman himself mocks Rashmi regarding the keys thing every week. They get some pleasure by putting Rashmi's personal life on television.

And himanshi already told this thing to Rashmi then why was the need to show this clip to all?? Because channel wanted to make fun of Rashmi's personal life.

And salman ke baare mein main kya kahoon. He has some personal vengeance with himanshi. He treated her badly when she got evicted for the first time. And when she gave that statement that salman paison ke liye bartan maanjta hai,it didn't go well with him. Woh apni hi dushmani nikaal raha hai by unnecessarily targeting her and even Asim too.

Who gave right to salman to comment on someone's concern in a relationship. It was too low of salman to say such things to himanshi.

Pehle apne ghar ke masle sambhaal,Teri bhabhi 18 saal purani Shaadi todh Kar kisi aur ke saath Chali gayi jise Teri behan date Kar rahi thi.

And this person has the audacity to comment on others relationships.

All in all ,I just want to say that neither himanshi nor asim were at fault 👍🏼

Originally posted by: TC_FA

I'm with himanshi in this matter. And seeing various unseen videos of them,I can say Rashmi and Himanshi are close to each other and Arhaan too(even Kanika Mann is close to rashmi and Arhaan,she is also from Punjabi industry and himanshi might know her too). So Himanshi knows everything.

And Rashmi did accept in front of Salman that she knew about the marriage,then how can she suddenly change the statement. I can bet she already knew about the kid too,nahi toh itna sab Jaan me ke baad bhi usey propose karne na lag jaati.

The actual culprit of all this mess is not himanshi but the channel who just wants ratings at any cost. Salman himself mocks Rashmi regarding the keys thing every week. They get some pleasure by putting Rashmi's personal life on television.

And himanshi already told this thing to Rashmi then why was the need to show this clip to all?? Because channel wanted to make fun of Rashmi's personal life.

And salman ke baare mein main kya kahoon. He has some personal vengeance with himanshi. He treated her badly when she got evicted for the first time. And when she gave that statement that salman paison ke liye bartan maanjta hai,it didn't go well with him. Woh apni hi dushmani nikaal raha hai by unnecessarily targeting her and even Asim too.

Who gave right to salman to comment on someone's concern in a relationship. It was too low of salman to say such things to himanshi.

Pehle apne ghar ke masle sambhaal,Teri bhabhi 18 saal purani Shaadi todh Kar kisi aur ke saath Chali gayi jise Teri behan date Kar rahi thi.

And this person has the audacity to comment on others relationships.

All in all ,I just want to say that neither himanshi nor asim were at fault 👍🏼

Yes Rashmi again changed her statement !

BUT most of her fans are taking her word for it !

If they are take her word for it then why not take Hiamsnhi's words as well ! Why the hypocrisy?

Rules should be same for all !

I have my issues with Himanshi BUT I tried to see from her perspective cos very coin has 2 sides and as per me if she is not right then she isn't as wrong either as many are making her out to be

Himanshi should not have come here after speaking about sallu Ka bartan dhone wala fiasco

Itni akal to honi chahiye thi ki sallu band bajaayega and I don't complain about it

People are judging her because she is giving them chance to do so

First of all Paan Paraag paan masala k through message kyu bhijwaya she could have waited for the show to get over kaun sa Asim ko koi aur milne waali thi idhar

I have watched her exit interview she clearly said ki Rashmi k Saath mil k nhi khelna chahiye Asim ko

She is not fond of Rashmi clearly

She is making Asim look bad majnu lover boy who cat ditch anyone when in love 👎

The fact is bahar ja k madam se digest nhi hua ki Sana usse jyada popular ho gyi h and Uske breakup Ka to Kisi ko pata bhi nhi tha until usne Paraag k haatho msg bheja tha to she herself created situation jisko baad me aake clear kare

She wants FOOTAGE that's all baaki chow Asim sab jaaye bhaad me

If Arhaan could manipulate rashami for years now, it would have been very easy for him to sweet talk with Himanshi outside, and convince her that he really feels for rashami and wants to convey the message.

The problem with Himanshi is she is a poor talker.

She's sorted and clear in her head but not in her words.

That's also why Asim jumped into the conversation.

Originally posted by: Prernaaaa

Himanshi should not have come here after speaking about sallu Ka bartan dhone wala fiasco

Itni akal to honi chahiye thi ki sallu band bajaayega and I don't complain about it

People are judging her because she is giving them chance to do so

First of all Paan Paraag paan masala k through message kyu bhijwaya she could have waited for the show to get over kaun sa Asim ko koi aur milne waali thi idhar

I have watched her exit interview she clearly said ki Rashmi k Saath mil k nhi khelna chahiye Asim ko

She is not fond of Rashmi clearly

She is making Asim look bad majnu lover boy who cat ditch anyone when in love 👎

The fact is bahar ja k madam se digest nhi hua ki Sana usse jyada popular ho gyi h and Uske breakup Ka to Kisi ko pata bhi nhi tha until usne Paraag k haatho msg bheja tha to she herself created situation jisko baad me aake clear kare

She wants FOOTAGE that's all baaki chow Asim sab jaaye bhaad me

See every coin has 2 sides !

Himanshi might be bound by contract for all we know!

Liking or disliking Rashmi is her personal call !

It is Asim who needs to decide if he wants to stick to Rashmi or play alone !

Also like I said since many are looking at her flaws, I chose to see her plus points

Originally posted by: Adi_medico

If Arhaan could manipulate rashami for years now, it would have been very easy for him to sweet talk with Himanshi outside, and convince her that he really feels for rashami and wants to convey the message.

The problem with Himanshi is she is a poor talker.

She's sorted and clear in her head but not in her words.

That's also why Asim jumped into the conversation.

Very poor talker and she shouldn’t have talked about chow or her in laws in the house at all. Everyones blaming her for doing her ullu seedha only.

First of all the reason why we think Chow broke up with Himanshi is because she was happily engaged wearing a huge ring. She said from day 1 she was committed. She herself flipped in the house and developed feelings for Asim although she kept it very neutral but her actions with Asim gave bf gf vibes.

For any man especially a punjabi man their girl is their izzat. Now imagine someone get close with a man on TV when shes committed to u outside.

Obviously Chow broke up with Himanshi she humiliated him and Chows family. And I will blame Himanshi for this no matter what she was wrong. She could have ended with Chow in dignified manner.

If she did this to Chow she can easily do this to Asim mark my words.

Originally posted by: Prernaaaa

Himanshi should not have come here after speaking about sallu Ka bartan dhone wala fiasco

Itni akal to honi chahiye thi ki sallu band bajaayega and I don't complain about it

People are judging her because she is giving them chance to do so

First of all Paan Paraag paan masala k through message kyu bhijwaya she could have waited for the show to get over kaun sa Asim ko koi aur milne waali thi idhar

I have watched her exit interview she clearly said ki Rashmi k Saath mil k nhi khelna chahiye Asim ko

She is not fond of Rashmi clearly

She is making Asim look bad majnu lover boy who cat ditch anyone when in love 👎

The fact is bahar ja k madam se digest nhi hua ki Sana usse jyada popular ho gyi h and Uske breakup Ka to Kisi ko pata bhi nhi tha until usne Paraag k haatho msg bheja tha to she herself created situation jisko baad me aake clear kare

She wants FOOTAGE that's all baaki chow Asim sab jaaye bhaad me

Very good points

D issue is not HK repeating Arhaan gossip tho' I think she shouldn't have.

D issue is she was very quick to judge Rashmi hearing one sided talk. HK is d one who said if it was my guy I wouldn't have let him be humiliated n R being friendly with SS. Why shouldn't R be? After all SS n her have been colleagues. R's nephew n niece also asked them to be friends.

On BB also, both are colleagues working in d same show. If they decided to be mature n cordial, what's d problem?

HK involved Vishal n asim in badmouthing Rashmi. She clearly wanted to break Virasim, not realizing that V would be out soon.