Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
Hey guyzz this is gonna be a longgggg post please bear with me.. 😆
Ok since we got 3 idiots reference in our shouw the bride in scooty lets also talk about the serious reference here...
Engineering vs photography... both the courses has its own advantage n disadvantage... madhavan character ad interested n wanted to take up photography but chose engineering bcoz his parents felt its better n felt that is good for him... amir made him understand n go behind his happiness... his parents too accepted his choice bcoz they understood his happiness lies in this not bcoz its better than engineering... 
Coming to our show.,... both Abir n nishant have their own ups n downs.... everyone had made mistake but as a person everyone deserve a life... mishti rejected kunal not bcoz someone is better than him but bcoz she knew her happiness, her need is not him... now coming to current situation..
1. Abir wanted mishti back not bcoz he felt he is better than nishant but bcoz he knew nishant is good n keep mishti happy but mishti loves him n her happiness lies in him... 
2. Mishti has finally chose abir and ready to fight for him bcoz she loves him n cant live without him not bcoz she knew nannu truth or felt abir is better than him... 
3. BM sent mishti away bcoz she understood her happiness lies in Abir... jahan Abir hai vahan mishti uski jaha Abir ki saath hai... she knew her grandson, she didnt accept mishbir bcoz abir is better but she understood them n their love... 
Now coming to family... If they accept mishbir after knowing nishant truth will it actually be acceptance...???? tomorrow again mishbir has a fight and they find someone who is better again they will go for shaadi???? where does mishti's happiness goes in all this.... the acceptance should be based on understanding on based on comparison on who is better... if they accept mishbir now knowing nish truth then that means they dont consider mishti's happiness.. they are not accepting mishbir bcoz they understood their happiness lies in each other or this is what they need... it means they dont respect kids choice but only accepting their choice bcoz their own choice went wrong... is it right??? will it last long... everyone does mistake be it abir, mishti, kunal, kuhu, nishant but accepting them should be based on their understanding on them as an individual... everyone was forgiven n given second chance to prove themselves why not for Abir as an individual he too deserves a second chance rather than finding him better than the other accept him for the person who he is.. nishant too can get a life of his own after all his issues are solved but using it to accept mishbir is not acceptable at all thats not gonna be justifiable.. before they accepted Abir n mishbir rishta seeing their love for one another not based on any other factor... now too i want that to happen... keep it separate... 
i dont even know if truth will be exposed or i dont care if nish or meenu will be exposed but the family should understand their mistake that forcefully keeping mish in an unwanted rishta is wrong, she is not a toy that without who nishant cant live without, they should understand this and accept mishbir for their own self not bcoz of nishants wrong doing... what if nishant actually did this n they knowing everything still wanted to go ahead in rishta will it be right... or rather he didnt do anything but they want mish to accept their choice dumping her own choice her own happiness is it right for the girl.. rather than showing one better than another show that you understand them n accept them n respect their choice.... 
and this fighting for your choice, happiness is a lesson you have to understand n find your happiness n need rather than accepting choice what other feel is right for you... this applies for both career n partner too... its difficult in real life but be the change that you want to see in others... 
PS: sorry for the long rant.. just took it out what i've been wanting from the start of this rishta track... they are going in somewhat right direction lets see what beholds at climax..