Originally posted by: Khai_R_Haagi
Without consulting how will she know that the boy is ready to accept the kid? Obviously pregnancy is terminated after discussion among the couple and only those two people should be bothered about what needs to be done with the pregnancy. Not you, not me or not anyone who has nothing to do with the boy,girl and the child.
Hence, no uterus, no opinion for men who have nothing to do with the child or the woman yet spreading shit about them and equalizing it with doomsday or pedos having sx. Sperm tumhara ho sakta hai but the whole child is born inside a mother's tummy. She is the one who goes through a whole lot of complications for 9 months even to the extent of risking her own life for the birth of the baby along with the contractions, change in bodily behaviour, post-natal complications that takes years to heal and that too among Indian woman where thyroid problems/PCOS is very common among Indian women and all of these have chances of complications later on during child birth. So sorry, a drop of semen can never ever be equal to the 9 months of bodily changes a woman goes through during pregnancy and she deserves to have all the reproductive rights to abort whenever she thinks she should. The man of father in question should definitely be consulted YET it's her body, her reproductive system, her wish what she does with it. Hence, yes, no uterus, no opinion! Since it's mostly men be it here or other social media platforms who have problem with the new abortion laws.
That is point, there have been many instances where girls abort without letting the guy know, because they don't want their figure to be destroyed and so on, and other such reasond which are purelt motived by their selfish motives. Hence the consulting part came.
And we are discussing in general, I am not talking about a certain couple or a certain woman. In that general terms, a man is eligible to have a say, because a birth of a child isn't just the doing of a woman. It needs a man. To say that men shouldn't have any say about abortion in general, I'd like saying women shouldn't have any say about what men do.
Also it is not men's fault, that nature has made such rules that only females can bore kids.That doesn't mean, men cannot have saying in the process of birth.
Also you are talking about post pregnancy complications and so on. which comes under medical issues, so the person whom you are indirectly pinching, Zeal, has said he has issues with that. If a physician tells a girl that pregnancy can harm her in long run, and it is okay. See I don't even have problem with abortion due to whatever reasons because I feel everytime a woman does it, it is mostly the failure of someone else, either the father of the kid, her family members, her society, her workplace or her own body, which cannot handle pregnancy.
But their are cases, where women for selfish reasons, abort especially after embryo is formed, so that is the cases, the likes of Zeal have problem with. So it is nothing wrong for them to discuss it, and if we know he is going wrong, we can tell him. But by shutting him, we are making him more aggressive. Dialogue is important, we cannot and shouldn't shut someone if their opinion differs from us, that is what facist do, not rational people.
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