We are responsible for men like Siddharth Shukla in our Society. - Page 8

Originally posted by: indraneelbb

Poor taste. This is only show. Sid is the best as he is real..original and strongest man with witty brain. Period.

So what if it's a show , its a reality show and yes he is real . Doesn't make him any less a MCP , any less an abuser , or a Gunda .

The way he behaves with women , demeaning them constantly and acting like no one else has any brains, is just 🤢

Does he even wash his own plate , iron his own clothes ?

There is only one thing that oozes out from him all the time ATTITUDE !🤢.

Originally posted by: Showbizz

So what if it's a show , its a reality show and yes he is real . Doesn't make him any less a MCP , any less an abuser , or a Gunda .

The way he behaves with women , demeaning them constantly and acting like no one else has any brains, is just 🤢

Does he even wash his own plate , iron his own clothes ?

There is only one thing that oozes out from him all the time ATTITUDE !🤢.

Lol..so a girl can catch his collar ..can slap him several times but he is expected to be like saint?

I think what is more problematic that Shukla's behaviour is the glorification of that behaviour.

People can have faults, some more than others. But what becomes an issue is actual glorification and infact cheering of this kind of behaviour. That IMO is the actual issue.

This is the problem I had in Shinde's season as well when her bullying VG in the first two weeks was termed as entertaining. Didn't matter if VG was a good guy or an ass, her bullying him was never entertainment.

Similarly, Shukla's "real" persona, no matter how crass or problematic is termed as hero/asli mard wali qualities in the show and by others. But at the end of the day it's Problematic and crass. Plain and simple.

Even if we agree that everybody in the house is wrong that doesn't make Shukla right now does it?

Their might be some people who might be his fans just for his looks or height or some other superficial quality which is absolutely fine. But that doesn't mean they have to be a fan of his actual personality as well but they've taken it upon themselves on SM to defend his every action even if they know it's not right just coz ego issues and that's what is problematic.

Also, I like how this has become a trend nowadays that if a person is aggressive, crass and foul-mouthed it means he's 'real'. Because real life mein polite ya tameez wale log kaha hote hain right?

Originally posted by: indraneelbb

Poor taste. This is only show. Sid is the best as he is real..original and strongest man with witty brain. Period.

Originally posted by: trouble_006

I think what is more problematic that Shukla's behaviour is the glorification of that behaviour.

People can have faults, some more than others. But what becomes an issue is actual glorification and infact cheering of this kind of behaviour. That IMO is the actual issue.

This is the problem I had in Shinde's season as well when her bullying VG in the first two weeks was termed as entertaining. Didn't matter if VG was a good guy or an ass, her bullying him was never entertainment.

Similarly, Shukla's "real" persona, no matter how crass or problematic is termed as hero/asli hard walk qualities in the show and by others. But at the end of the day it's Problematic and crass. Plain and simple.

Even if we agree that everybody in the house is wrong that doesn't make Shukla right now does it?

Also, I like how this has become a trend nowadays that if a person is aggressive, crass and foul-mouthed it means he's 'real'. Because real life mein polite ya tameez wale log kaha hote hain right?

Totally agree with you! More than his actions it’s the support system he is banking on the problem.

Originally posted by: trouble_006

I think what is more problematic that Shukla's behaviour is the glorification of that behaviour.

People can have faults, some more than others. But what becomes an issue is actual glorification and infact cheering of this kind of behaviour. That IMO is the actual issue.

This is the problem I had in Shinde's season as well when her bullying VG in the first two weeks was termed as entertaining. Didn't matter if VG was a good guy or an ass, her bullying him was never entertainment.

Similarly, Shukla's "real" persona, no matter how crass or problematic is termed as hero/asli mard wali qualities in the show and by others. But at the end of the day it's Problematic and crass. Plain and simple.

Even if we agree that everybody in the house is wrong that doesn't make Shukla right now does it?

Their might be some people who might be his fans just for his looks or height or some other superficial quality which is absolutely fine. But that doesn't mean they have to be a fan of his actual personality as well but they've taken it upon themselves on SM to defend his every action even if they know it's not right just coz ego issues and that's what is problematic.

Also, I like how this has become a trend nowadays that if a person is aggressive, crass and foul-mouthed it means he's 'real'. Because real life mein polite ya tameez wale log kaha hote hain right?

Very articulate you are dear

It mentally disturbs me when people behave in a crass manner

Almost all have said stuff ...but some of it is too crass and has Crossed that line

Toxic relationships are a no and I felt sidnaz is one

He crosses the line with her with push and pull .no respect. She is another level self harm behaviour.

When a man also says no it is a no. Physical touch when anyone says no it is a no despite any gender

Believe me it is as troubling for a man as it is for a woman . It is easier for women to find outets to speak when men do it sometimes they get to hear enjoy na Yaar. It is tough for any person and can leave scars

I am about 39 and I dislike being touched by either gender beyond a handshake unless they are a Part of my inner circle. Even if it is woman I sometimes do not like being hugged even if they are family.

I agree I may ship a couple of itv stars but it is mostly for their online chemistry and not anything else

Pls include Asim also he is no less

People are apparently portraying him as strong and real. He's not fake.

But if this is his reality our society is at risk.

Even if its scripted, n people are paid to praise him.. it's just not an acceptable behaviour.

There was a season in which prince used to be this way to the ladies who were not a part of his team.. that was when I stopped watching BB.

If a celebrity on BB can be physically abused , other people are just weaker comparatively.

Its etched in my mind when he threw mud on Rochelle s face with full force.

I cannot believe a bully like him went on to be successfull. It breaks my heart now to see the channel supporting the aggression of shukla when they have to actually throw him out.

Originally posted by: SiddJ

People are apparently portraying him as strong and real. He's not fake.

But if this is his reality our society is at risk.

Even if its scripted, n people are paid to praise him.. it's just not an acceptable behaviour.

There was a season in which prince used to be this way to the ladies who were not a part of his team.. that was when I stopped watching BB.

If a celebrity on BB can be physically abused , other people are just weaker comparatively.

Its etched in my mind when he threw mud on Rochelle s face with full force.

I cannot believe a bully like him went on to be successfull. It breaks my heart now to see the channel supporting the aggression of shukla when they have to actually throw him out.

Very well said.... Unfortunately that is how this industry & sick BB show works... It feeds on controversial content to get trp's by sucking the life out of the weak contestants.... Glorifying kabir singh types Ex, shukla.... Priyaank sharma was evicted for a push but shukla has the leverage to get violent n push numerous times...Shukla's poking is termed as entertainment, fun etc etc but when others retaliate then it's an offence... I fail to understand the format... How biased can this show & the host get??

same way we are responsible for women like shehnaaz in our society. She herself has no dignity. If you love some one you dont force yourself on that guy here shehnaz was doing the same thing. and falling over every random clelebrety coming in house. She herself admitted to rashmi that if there was third man in the house she was gone over him. Sidharth was very clear from day one. he stopped her many time but for sake of footage she was falling over and over him.