SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 21:Mein tumse nafrat kabhi nahi karunga.. - Page 73

Originally posted by: greatsaleen

Okay first of all your handle, love it! :)

But seriously he is totally cool when he is interacting with Sana. have you seen the USUDs. They have so much fun. They look like cousins hanging out.

Yes he is totally cool that he decided to use Sid's vulnerability with regards to fight with Sana to his advantage.. he is totally cool that he told Sana Sid will use her push to his advantage.. he is totally cool that he put his arms around Sana to prove a point to Sid.. totally cool

Pahira for all they have done wrong have not tried to take advantage of this fight between Sid and Sana at all.. In fact Paras has tried to clear Sid's position in front of Sana multiple times

It all started after the cat mouse task. You could see a change in Sid's body language thereon. Unfortunately Sana realised she loves Sid after that. And started expressing when she realised she is losing him. But by this time Sid has seriously developed mistrust about her. But he stayed cordial and judged every move of her without showing that he loves her too. Sana kept on trying for month now, but sid didn't budge. He used to make remarks about her being disloyal and untrustworthy since that incident, but they were in lighter vein and sana used to laugh it off. Like the one he said "Sana hi bigg boss hai, usko entertainment chahiye, sar ke upar sabko ek room de degi when she said ki main tujhe apne sar pe baitha ke rakhna chahti hu". We might take it lightly but such things kept on building in Sana's head. They both understand clearly what the other is trying to say.(that's a diff story that the audience kept on finding other meanings and thought sana is a gadhi). Then She went all explicit with her love confessions and physical display of affection. Still Sid didn't budge. Reason- his serious trust issues on Sana. It went on loop for 4 weeks now. Sana kept on trying and he kept on judging every word/action of hers.

Then during nomination task when he saved arti. Sana felt "ki wo darwaza mere muh pe pada ek baar phir". She felt Paras used to say i like u but kept on saving mahira. I know there is a difference in both the scenarios and sana should understand the difference between sid and paras's intentions but the thing here is what sana 'felt'. The emotion of abandonment once again, which has been her problem since childhood.

Then came the garden convo when he said ki "gaanth band le ki bahar nahi milunga". It was a very strong statement and sana knew he is dead serious. It's not about guessing anymore if they love eachother or not (they know they both do). But the decisions has been made. Sid doesn't trust her and he made it clear on her face. "Ki tu maa baap ki sagi nahi toh kisi aur ki kya hogi". Past 2 days were deciding factor for Sana. She got all her answers why Sid was not reciprocating her love. So she lost it during yesterday's task.

I have followed their journey since the beginning and has read almost every page on Sidnaaz DT since the first day. People here has been so hopeful and happy. I have been in depression since 2 years coming out of a very intense rlsnhp myself and finally since last 3 months i was able to take my mind off all the things that were happening in my life coz of sidnaaz. They gave me immense happiness and a distraction which worked well for me. Seeing two complete opposite individuals falling in love on a show like this for the first time on tv, they were kind of restoring my faith in true love and destiny once again. But yesterday was heartbreaking. Love is all about trust and not giving up when going gets tough. Sadly that is the problem with today's generation. There will be one who will give up even when the other don't. And the one who don't give up will be broken beyond repair when reality finally slaps them. It kind of makes them question their belief system for life. I can see that happening with Sana.

I am sure Sid is in pain too and has been hurt in his past (that's why trust issues) but then the way he handled his equation with sana after all the experiences is immature on his part. Sana, on the other hand felt all things that she went through in her life being confirmed again. She will be abandoned again and again even after how hard she tries. My heart goes out to her. Sid has said "tere jaisi self centered ladki ko kya farak padega wild cards se" (in usud), "tera tere alawa aur kissey pyar hai". Sid always knew she keeps herself first and still fell for her. Then why the hell you are giving up now, you idiot. Please don't. It breaks my heart seeing someone giving up on the person they love knowing very well what they got themselves into. He instead should have hugged her and asked her why her "vyahvar" is like that. What all happened in your life, tell me. I will soothe your pain. Let me heal you and in return she could have healed him. Sid never shared anything about his life as sana said. So she doesn't know what all happened with him but still she embraced him knowing about his drug addiction (even when her ex was a drug addict and she had a disturbed rlsnhp with him). Imagine the girl again fell in love with a man with similar problems and still didn't judge and was ready to embrace him without knowing anything about him. On the other hand, sid knew many things about her life and he judged her on the basis of that. He knew she keeps herself above anyone else. He still fell for her, then keep upto that dude. This is what has hurt me personally. Doesn't matter what taunting and jealousy games they played. What nasty words they uttered. Both were equally hurt by the other. So scores get equal.

But it was about not giving up on the other when the time came. And they gave up.

It's good for them, that it happened early on. But as a girl who has loved someone for 10 years without giving up and get abandoned in the end, I feel let down once again in my life.

To all the people here, whenever you fall in love, please don't give up when the going gets tough. Instead try healing the other.

P.S: sorry for my rant but i needed to get it out of my system. Like sid, I also invested my time and emotions in them

Originally posted by: greatsaleen

I have to agree with you. As much as I adore Sana, her no-filter verbal diarrhea can be a bit much for people who expect her to be there for them. She definitely needs social-skills training. But perhaps thats what the whole pure soul package is about!

Her biggest strength is her weakness.

Yes I absolutely agree. That is her strength. And sid likes that about her. She just k needs a bit of conditioning. And sid is doing exactly that.its like he is giving her classes of how to avoid certain things.

And she will understand as she loves him. That cannot be doubted. So she will respect sid after this is over. He needs to show her his intense persona. She has not seen it.

Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

U know y they r doing wat they r doing??? They need assurance. When Sana says Artinis this n this to u, she wants to hear from him that no baby u r my this n this and no one else. And when he says u love everyone, he wants to hear that no baby I oy and only love u!!!

Is loving someone so bad a crime????

And the thing is, they NEVER reply like that. When Sana cracked the Arti wife joke, imagine if Sid has set it straight and said it’s nothing like that instead of playing along. Or when Sid was taunting about which guys she likes better, imagine if she firmly said she doesn’t give a care about any guy besides him. They would be so much more at ease but instead they try to one-up each other every time, they can’t just ever give a clear answer. and they continue the taunts, and now look what it’s turn into.

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

No iram it's not over. They are trying to find that balance ,just like us.

The pendulum is swinging to the highest level ,soon it will settle down to to comfortable limit. They will find their solutions as sid is talking.

U still are so positive 😆

Chlo koi to hai hm mein se yahan

Jyoti ji bhi positive hi hongi vaise

Originally posted by: asmitasb

With all this chaos going on I just laughed hard actually smiled more after watching this. How on earth this girl managed to get the center of the exclusive jhalak and only she can make the crow so important, the main lead of the jhalak were these two and Rashami playing the role of supporting actor!!

https://twitter.com/BiggBos_Tak/status/1220568830503555072?s=19

No.. she has been talking to the crow since the first day.. they put it in the exclusive jhalak today because they do not want to reveal anything else

Originally posted by: CatcherInTheRye

m amazed meenakshi 😆

U still are so positive 😆

Chlo koi to hai hm mein se yahan

Jyoti ji bhi positive hi hongi vaise

I am nor positive or negative😆 just watching it all with a perplexed mind😆

Some solo stans are saying ki aarti fokat kaa sy worthy le rahi hai. That may be true but the word is very bad if u listen to what context it has been

This is really immature and band bajaa rahe hain khud ki wo.

I don know what trip solo stans are on. The hidden meaning behind fixed deposit is so dirty that i dont even want to say it ever.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I am nor positive or negative😆 just watching it all with a perplexed mind😆

Dun even know what the shit is happening and why is it happening, although i have many reasons to justify but well, too tired to analyze and explain things at the moment😆

Originally posted by: CatcherInTheRye

and m all blank😆

Dun even know what the shit is happening and why is it happening, although i have many reasons to justify but well, too tired to analyze and explain things at the moment😆