Originally posted by: Ashhima3
kar- nan, I wouldn’t want someone in life who don’t respect their parents! Hope it makes things more clear? If you don’t respect your parents among outsiders then how will you respect other relationship will be the question lot of guys or girls talk about
Do you remember he was having a convo with Shefali and she said I need a guy who respects his parents and if he cannot respect his parents then what respect will he give me?
hope this makes it more better?
I know many people will not agree but I don't believe in the whole, respect your elders coz they're your elders thing. Respect is not demanded, it's earned and it should be earned in all relationships. Not saying this is the case with Sana but if someone's parents are toxic n treat them like dirt or money minting machine, which happens a lot in our society, then I don't see why the kid needs to respect their parents.
That said, respect too is a relative term. Just because she goes on National Tv to tell what's true.. that she saw her mum hitting herself n caught that habit from her or the fact that her father wasn't even around for the first 17-18 years of her life - that too me is her being too real for her own good.
Maybe that's her coping mechanism. Maybe she hates the fact that he wasn't there n is a bit bitter but doesn't wanna show that she's hurt n this is her way of accepting it or pretending to be okay with it, see I can openly speak about it without being embarrassed.
Nobody can judge her.
If he had such a problem, usko bithake bol deta ki aisa acha nahi lagta mujhe ki tu apne parents ki izzat nahi rakh rahi aisa bolke, so tone it down. Unke baare mein baat hi mat kar.
Anything.
At least make it known what your issue with the whole this is. Don't go on judging her about it and judging her enough to break all ties? wow. Smh.