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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: iram510

well he can do it again...y should she leave the bed if he wants space.

that’s because she moved to his bed and he didn’t! When he took that bed, he had told he wants that corner one! So he asked her to move


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

iram, you seriously think he had to explain? As he has told many times what bothers him? Anyways I m sorry but I don’t agree this time

This time her act during WKV wasn’t acceptable


sorry can u pls explain what is actually bothering him because I never saw him to say something openly to sana what is bothering him.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: jazzy27

No iram you are misunderstanding my point. I’m saying it doesn’t matter where you are born or what your ethnicity or blood is. He might be ethnically Punjabi but he doesn’t know much about Punjabi culture or language. I as a Punjabi would feel more connected and feel more “apnapan” with someone who is more well versed in Punjabi culture even if they aren’t Punjabi. For example, I have a Gujarati friend that knows more about Punjabi music than me 😆

I was saying that Paras is not from Punjab because I saw a lot of posts claiming he was. He is a Punjabi however

naa I think roots trumps all....it always comes back to that.

I have white friends from various backgrounds and we have things in common....but our connection is nothing like someone from the same background as me.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

that’s because she moved to his bed and he didn’t! When he took that bed, he had told he wants that corner one! So he asked her to move


but it’s not ‘his’ bed anymore....it’s become ‘their’ bed and has been for a while now....n even if she did move he’d bring her right back...so what’s the point of it all.... whoever needs space should go and get it away from the bed clear his/her mind and come straight back.
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Posted: 5 years ago

I don’t agree with the whole feeling apnapan only when someone can speak punjabi well.

Chandigarh/Mohali culture is close to Delhi culture. A lot of new age kids won’t know Punjabi well but they’ll connect immediately. There’s a vibe, an emotion. Asim or Mahira may be speaking Punjabi better than Paras but they don’t exude that vibe at all. I’m from Delhi n I feel that vibe only in Sana n Paras. Bagga had a bit of it but she was trying to be too proper and always had her guard up.


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: CatcherInTheRye

i understand that Ashima, but this is what they do to each other. And dont worry bhai is going to be stronger than before, it happens naturally after breakdown. He will feel more relaxed and attentive. Cause he is not going to pay attention to what Sana does.

all this pent up emotions and frustration he had bottled up needs to come out...once it’s out which I’m hoping is tonight’s epi he will feel much better....after which he can get back on track.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: iram510

but it’s not ‘his’ bed anymore....it’s become ‘their’ bed and has been for a while now....n even if she did move he’d bring her right back...so what’s the point of it all.... whoever needs space should go and get it away from the bed clear his/her mind and come straight back.

yeah I know, so he gave up right and said topic ends, do what you want but don’t come close to me

He didn’t make a mistake by requesting her! She refused and he said ok


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

yeah I know, so he gave up right and said topic ends, do what you want but don’t come close to me

He didn’t make a mistake by requesting her! She refused and he said ok


but she’s refusing to move....so what is he going to do..push her out....?so it’s best if he wants it to get it else where.....but honestly I don’t think he does 😆 he’s only pushing her buttons....
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

yeah I know, so he gave up right and said topic ends, do what you want but don’t come close to me

He didn’t make a mistake by requesting her! She refused and he said ok


Sid is angry but this actually made me smile. Even in all that anger he is asking her to go. He could very well get up and go sleep on another bed. But nahi .

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

No ash he has never shared what bothers him directly. It's always been paras se shaadi kar le ,saath kisike hai chipakti kisi aur se hai kind of taunts. And sanaa can't get his jibes. Not many can. Even a experienced rashmi can't. He comes across so strong.

My only point is let's not put blame on anyone. It's the circumstances they are in. Let's wait and see.

They have both been there for each other in their own ways. BOTH.


This breakdown has many reasons. Sana is not the type of people he keeps company with. Will she gel ??Will she accept him outside for what he is ,his numerous affairs ,will he be able to handle her Ott childish behaviour ,is her dumbness easy to handle,does she love him ,is she playing a game ,do I love her ????????Sid is facing a inner turmoil. That is this breakdown.

He can handle paras ,Sana ,or anyone. It's his own self he is fighting with.

👏totally in an agreement.....he’s basically fighting with himself and the day he stops fighting and starts accepting is the day a new sid will be born! I hope it’s soon so we can see it unfold!
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