SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 17: I dont see you in my kal - Page 94

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

catcher this is the type of people he talks about! You cannot hurt him as he is upset with you to annoy him! Not when it’s just not a narazgi, he spoke about breaking up and she wants him back, but you want him back by hurting him more? 🙄

Hasn’t she done that many times in the past too?

In the bedroom she clearly said to him tell me why do u not want to talk to me...tell me and I’ll leave u alone....that was his opportunity to do so... Sana is this sana is that blah blah but tell her naa and go ur separate ways...but he’s not even willing to do that....so she’s like right well I’ll continue to annoy u...u do what u have to do.

How can she understand the depth of his hurt if he won’t speak up..she ain’t a mind reader ....n when he did eventually do it...it wasn’t directly to her...but infront of everyone &kartik Sara.... y what was the purpose of that?!

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

can give benefit of doubt, but again you don’t want Paras to feel bad post WKV but Sid tells lot of things and you don’t realise that he is hurt? 🙄

Anyways it’s never ending

For me as well priority is Sid’s strength! I want to see him smiling

Paras ka hurt i don't think she was worried about... She was more focused on k uske father ki waja se kisi ki game kharab na ho..

Sid's hurt to this extent is a new thing for her.. she does not realize the gravity of the situation

Originally posted by: jazzy27

No no I totally agree I myself was born in Canada and I consider myself Punjabi, as my parents are both from there. But he doesn’t have any cultural connection and he can’t speak the language not even a little bit. I personally would feel more “apnapan” with asim because he can actually speak really good Punjabi which I’ve seen in a USUD. Regardless of whether Asim is Punjabi or not. I’m just saying her reasoning for apnapan with Paras is flawed and she may not even realize it

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Jazzy... where he was brought up is not the thing. It’s a matter of identity and if his dad’s Punjabi, that makes him one by earth and blood... if he calls himself Punjabi than a Delhi boy, that is his projected self that people see.

Completely agree! He definitely has the right to identify as a Punjabi!

But my point is that it doesn’t matter if one is Punjabi or not, I myself as a Punjabi myself would feel more “apnapan” with someone would is more connected to Punjabi language and culture. Asim and Mahira both speak almost fluent Punjabi, and they aren’t even Punjabi. I’m saying it would make more sense if Sana felt more apnapan with them, because naam aur khoon ka Punjabi means nothing when it comes to “apnapan”

Originally posted by: iram510

ash the whole fault does not lie at her door....it would be crazy to even think so.

In the bedroom she clearly said to him tell me why do u not want to talk to me...tell me and I’ll leave u alone....that was his opportunity to do so... Sana is this sana is that blah blah but tell her naa and go ur separate ways...but he’s not even willing to do that....so she’s like right well I’ll continue to annoy u...u do what u have to do.

How can she understand the depth of his hurt if he won’t speak up..she ain’t a mind reader ....n when he did eventually do it...it wasn’t directly to her...but infront of everyone &kartik Sara.... y what was the purpose of that?!

iram, you seriously think he had to explain? As he has told many times what bothers him? Anyways I m sorry but I don’t agree this time

This time her act during WKV wasn’t acceptable

Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

He also slept in garden once

Originally posted by: iram510

ok but I’m born and raised in the uk...my cultural connection would lack in comparison to someone who is originally from Pakistan but that does not mean I won’t feel a connection with them when I come across them.

No iram you are misunderstanding my point. I’m saying it doesn’t matter where you are born or what your ethnicity or blood is. He might be ethnically Punjabi but he doesn’t know much about Punjabi culture or language. I as a Punjabi would feel more connected and feel more “apnapan” with someone who is more well versed in Punjabi culture even if they aren’t Punjabi. For example, I have a Gujarati friend that knows more about Punjabi music than me 😆

I was saying that Paras is not from Punjab because I saw a lot of posts claiming he was. He is a Punjabi however

Originally posted by: jazzy27

Completely agree! He definitely has the right to identify as a Punjabi!

But my point is that it doesn’t matter if one is Punjabi or not, I myself as a Punjabi myself would feel more “apnapan” with someone would is more connected to Punjabi language and culture. Asim and Mahira both speak almost fluent Punjabi, and they aren’t even Punjabi. I’m saying it would make more sense if Sana felt more apnapan with them, because naam aur khoon ka Punjabi means nothing when it comes to “apnapan”

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

iram, you seriously think he had to explain? As he has told many times what bothers him? Anyways I m sorry but I don’t agree this time

This time her act during WKV wasn’t acceptable

For eg if it’s paras....previously too she cut ties with him and sid was the one himself who told paras to go and speak to her and get it sorted...what for? For game purposes...I’m sorry but he himself can’t have it both ways.

these feelings are foreign whatever he is feeling and he can’t get a lid on them....so instead of opening his mind to them he’s reacting in a opposite manner which as a result he’s drowning in them....

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

iram, you seriously think he had to explain? As he has told many times what bothers him? Anyways I m sorry but I don’t agree this time

This time her act during WKV wasn’t acceptable

No ash he has never shared what bothers him directly. It's always been paras se shaadi kar le ,saath kisike hai chipakti kisi aur se hai kind of taunts. And sanaa can't get his jibes. Not many can. Even a experienced rashmi can't. He comes across so strong.

My only point is let's not put blame on anyone. It's the circumstances they are in. Let's wait and see.

They have both been there for each other in their own ways. BOTH.

This breakdown has many reasons. Sana is not the type of people he keeps company with. Will she gel ??Will she accept him outside for what he is ,his numerous affairs ,will he be able to handle her Ott childish behaviour ,is her dumbness easy to handle,does she love him ,is she playing a game ,do I love her ????????Sid is facing a inner turmoil. That is this breakdown.

He can handle paras ,Sana ,or anyone. It's his own self he is fighting with.