If Shehnaaz behaves like Shukla? - Page 5

Shehnaaz does flirt with asim sometimes but yes not like shukla.

@ KunwariDaayan . I dont think anyone has shamed Shehnaaz for flirting. Ive shamed her for degrading herself by getting felt up by Shukla..for acting like a raging idiot when shes actually intelligent..for being vulgar during her Sidnaaz moments (grinding ,straddling,dry humping purring ..all for an entire episode and theres that bdsm thing which id rather not get into)..for harassing Shukla and then playing the victim with her oh im hurt my hips are aching because u ignore me ' thing. ..and for being harassed by him.

You can always flirt without looking desperate or creepy and Shehnaaz is good at it where as Shukla is not.

Debolina flirted with Shukla and i dont think anyone sl u t shamed her. unless i missed it.

Originally posted by: Trisolaris

I wouldn’t justify those type of regressive comments at all. If Sidnaaz want to have a no strings attached consensual relationship as well, then thats their own prerogative. What I, and several others, criticize is it being shown soooo much on screen because we didn’t sign up to see a daily soap type roothna-manana-romance show.

And I agree that its a shame that several women make such statements against their own gender. Take Shehnaaz and her comment on women who smoke as an example. 🤢

I never agreed with the smoking statement. Never lauded her for it.

Smoking is an individual choice be it man or woman. And this day and age its not a taboo.

But that might have alot to do with Shehnaaz' background and the typical Punjabi upbringing she's had. Her school of thought is still a little gao-fied I suppose.Plus she's not as educated either. Not saying all gao/village folks have this school of thought, majority do.

But you've seen what she said about the hitting herself-she's seen her mum do it.So not shocked with a stament like that coming from her. But on the forum over here, I take it all are educated and progressive enough to not make such statements shaming fellow women. You get the gist?

And as for chipka chipka BB showmances-I've never been a fan of it any season. I do like SidNaaz when it's kept to fun, laughs and banter but not the touchy feely overdoses.

Yet they are single, and its perfectly fine to mingle as long as its consensual.

Plus they are not the only ones getting cozy under the kambal-there's PaHira too. And when Himanshi was there, Asim and her got quite close as well.

The thing is, anything in moderation is good/OK but in excess, everything becomes a killer. So yeah, totally get what you mean!

Originally posted by: Trisolaris

Since I was one of the people who made that comment, is it fair to assume that was meant for me (among other people)? Nevertheless, will respond to what I meant.

I have also seen several posts saying that Shehnaaz has lost her self respect and I agree with it as well. I feel Shukla treats her very poorly yet she is always running behind him and almost pleading for him to forgive her. He places restrictions on her behavior and she endeavours to follow those boundaries set by him. So I don’t agree that saying she has no self respect is the same as character shaming her.

Nope. Sorry.My comment wasn't really targeted at any particular person, believe it or not lol.

I've been irked by her constant trying to get Shukla attention as well.Like if he can hang out have a laugh with PaHira despite knowing they don't get on with Shezu, why can't she do the same and hang out with his enemies. I've always been irked by that. But with Shezu, she won't have him dictate anything to her either and does exactly as she pleases with whomever she pleases. And most of the time she gets her way with him. She has him dancing to her tunes more than he's got her to lol- So all these doormat chants for her either aren't really called for. Coz she's anything but a doormat. Shukla is more of a doormat to her than she is lol.

But no, don't think she's lost any self respect. She knows very well what she's doing, and when to cross what boundaries, and what will work for her. And If Shuklas not seen to lose any, then why should see?!

Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi

@ KunwariDaayan . I dont think anyone has shamed Shehnaaz for flirting. Ive shamed her for degrading herself by getting felt up by Shukla..for acting like a raging idiot when shes actually intelligent..for being vulgar during her Sidnaaz moments (grinding ,straddling,dry humping purring ..all for an entire episode and theres that bdsm thing which id rather not get into)..for harassing Shukla and then playing the victim with her oh im hurt my hips are aching because u ignore me ' thing. ..and for being harassed by him.

You can always flirt without looking desperate or creepy and Shehnaaz is good at it where as Shukla is not.

Debolina flirted with Shukla and i dont think anyone sl u t shamed her. unless i missed it.

Getting shamed for being felt up or flirting-Same thing, innit?

If the girl wants to get felt up and its consensual from both sides, what's the issue?

And its not like this is the medieval ages that a bit of kissing and getting intimate is gonna kill anyone. Even Zariwala having a lip-kiss with her hubby is like she's committed such a big sin.OMG!!How could she? Besharam woman! 😲For gawwds sake, it's only her own hubby. 😆

If anyone should be shamed and called out, then it should be hawasi, despo, tharki BB for airing all this kind of hawas inducing garma garam content, when the channel themselves claim to be a family show.

Originally posted by: KunwaariDaayan

I never agreed with the smoking statement. Never lauded her for it.

Smoking is an individual choice be it man or woman. And this day and age its not a taboo.

But that might have alot to do with Shehnaaz' background and the typical Punjabi upbringing she's had. Her school of thought is still a little gao-fied I suppose.Plus she's not as educated either. Not saying all gao/village folks have this school of thought, majority do.

But you've seen what she said about the hitting herself-she's seen her mum do it.So not shocked with a stament like that coming from her. But on the forum over here, I take it all are educated and progressive enough to not make such statements shaming fellow women. You get the gist?

And as for chipka chipka BB showmances-I've never been a fan of it any season. I do like SidNaaz when it's kept to fun, laughs and banter but not the touchy feely overdoses.

Yet they are single, and its perfectly fine to mingle as long as its consensual.

Plus they are not the only ones getting cozy under the kambal-there's PaHira too. And when Himanshi was there, Asim and her got quite close as well.

The thing is, anything in moderation is good/OK but in excess, everything becomes a killer. So yeah, totally get what you mean!

KD ji Sana is actually very well educated and went to a top notch boarding school. Her dad’s a politician in Punjab and has a huge bungalow.

Btw if you think that her cig remark was because of her gaon type background/mentality then plz tell me in which gaon are men and women so liberal and progressive minded that sleep in the same bed and that too in a highly suggestive manner (nothing wrong in it as long as it’s consensual)?

My point was that this thinking that Sana’s backward cig remark was because of her gaon background is false because if she actually had that sort of conservative gaon type background then she wouldn’t sleep with Sid on the same bed.

So we can’t use the gaon excuse for Sana’s inappropriate comment on women who smoke.

Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9

KD ji Sana is actually very well educated and went to a top notch boarding school. Her dad’s a politician in Punjab and has a huge bungalow.

Btw if you think that her cig remark was because of her gaon type background/mentality then plz tell me in which gaon are men and women so liberal and progressive minded that sleep in the same bed and that too in a highly suggestive manner (nothing wrong in it as long as it’s consensual)?

My point was that this thinking that Sana’s backward cig remark was because of her gaon background is false because if she actually had that sort of conservative gaon type background then she wouldn’t sleep with Sid on the same bed.

So we can’t use the gaon excuse for Sana’s inappropriate comment on women who smoke.

Look King ji, I'm not such a die hard bhakt that I've done all this research on her 😆I may like or have faves, but never a die-hard kinda Stan hahahaa

Well her English doesn't seem to be too great. And she herself has said padna, likhna nahi aati toh I'm going by that.

And it wasn't an excuse-I said it could be-

I'm just saying since you hear that mostly down gaon-villages Smoking-sex is much more of a taboo to do, or talk about and discuss.

But I myself from my own experience know that there are girls/women back home who are from gaon/villages, who do indulge in smoking sex and Everything. Women from there aren't as innocent, shy, coy 50/60 BW heroine types like we all might think.

But with every place, whether that be from gaon/town/city sides or wherever, there will be some who are more ignorant then anything else, and maybe Sana is ignorant too.

Originally posted by: KunwaariDaayan

Look King ji, I'm not such a die hard bhakt that I've done all this research on her 😆I may like or have faves, but never a die-hard kinda Stan hahahaa

Well her English doesn't seem to be too great. And she herself has said padna, likhna nahi aati toh I'm going by that.

And it wasn't an excuse-I said it could be-

I'm just saying since you hear that mostly down gaon-villages Smoking-sex is much more of a taboo to do, or talk about and discuss.

But I myself from my own experience know that there are girls/women back home who are from gaon/villages, who do indulge in smoking sex and Everything. Women from there aren't as innocent, shy, coy 50/60 BW heroine types like we all might think.

But with every place, whether that be from gaon/town/city sides or wherever, there will be some who are more ignorant then anything else, and maybe Sana is ignorant too.

Waise toh I agree with most of your post but you should look up some of Sana’s vids before bb. She actually speaks english much better in those vids compared to her eng proficiency in bb lol

So I feel like her poor eng skills act is just that, an act to look cute in the show and tbh it’s working so good for her 😂😂

Btw do you have any idea on how to remove that green circle thingy on our dp? I find it really annoying 😂😂

Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9

Waise toh I agree with most of your post but you should look up some of Sana’s vids before bb. She actually speaks english much better in those vids compared to her eng proficiency in bb lol

So I feel like her poor eng skills act is just that, an act to look cute in the show and tbh it’s working so good for her 😂😂

Btw do you have any idea on how to remove that green circle thingy on our dp? I find it really annoying 😂😂

Maybe it is an act, who knows. Most on there do put on an act and are quite fake to an extent. There are cameras in there and they're being filmed round the clock, so playing to the gallery is expected especially on a show like BB.

The original Big Brother concept went out the window long ago with all outside feedback and tampering of contestants game, so nothing organic left about the show or personalities.

All we can do is just watch what we are shown, then form a judgment.

As for regressiive/shaming /demeaning comments being made, than Asim isn't left lagging behind in that either lol.

He's aurat comments-tu aurat jaise ladta hai, woh karta hai, blah blah(dont remember exact words) and so and so in initial days, you do remember too I'm sure? Woh bhi Kam demeaning nahi the towards women.

Originally posted by: KunwaariDaayan

Maybe it is an act, who knows. Most on there do put on an act and are quite fake to an extent. There are cameras in there and they're being filmed round the clock, so playing to the gallery is expected especially on a show like BB.

The original Big Brother concept went out the window long ago with all outside feedback and tampering of contestants game, so nothing organic left about the show or personalities.

All we can do is just watch what we are shown, then form a judgment.

As for regressiive/shaming /demeaning comments being made, than Asim isn't left lagging behind in that either lol.

He's aurat comments-tu aurat jaise ladta hai, woh karta hai, blah blah(dont remember exact words) and so and so in initial days, you do remember too I'm sure? Woh bhi Kam demeaning nahi the towards women.

True but as you yourself said he made those comments in the initial days.

Though there is a thing called growth. Once he was made aware of or once he realized that his comments were wrong and in poor taste he apologized and never repeated them.

Others like Sid and Paras to this day make such regressive comments which shows that they didn’t grow enough in the house.

Tbh everyone (including women) in the house made those comments like tu larki jaisa larta hai etc. I was especially disappointed by women underestimating themselves in the show by making such comments (against their own gender).