Pain begets Pain

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. If a woman can love with all her heart then she can hate with all her heart as well.

We are all just a product of out experiences - good and bad. All people in pain have one thing in common and that is that none will perceive pain in the same way. For example: 2 young boys come from a similar background - both have alcoholic fathers who beat their mothers and them when drunk. One grows up to never touch a drop of alcohol because he is determined to never turn into his father. He is in pain but he is determined live out of the shadow of his father and so he never wants to see himself dealing out that pain. While the other grows up an alcoholic mirroring the actions of his father because he is in pain and the only way he knows how to deal with the pain is to pass on the pain to someone else.

Currently we don't even know the depth of Maya's pain and hatred. We have only skimmed the tip of the iceberg of pain and hatred. I am betting there is a lot more that has not yet been revealed. This kind of hatred comes from doling out systematic and repeated pain, so much so that after sometime pain becomes a part of you. Pain becomes synonyms with you. And the only way you are able to deal with that pain is through channeling it into hatred.

You can get a glimpse of her hatred in the fact that she spent 8yrs I think planning this Revenge!

She has turned into someone who is ready to take everyone and herself out in the end. From the looks of it she has no plans of coming out of this unscathed.

You know what this reminds me of?? It reminds me of the kids in school who are bullied everyday - systematically and repeatedly, that all they feel is pain. Their pain turns to hatred. And in their suffering they decide to hurt the ones that hurt them and have shootouts in their schools. They too have no plans of coming out unscathed.

Pain begets Pain..

Tip of the Day:

I have this mantra I live by and would like to share it with you.

"Never hold a grudge over someone. As when you hold a grudge, the other person doesn't know about this said grudge and is living their life happily but it is you who is festering negativity inside you. It is you who are hurting yourself."