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Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I know there constant discussion about mishbir's situation post-break up.

But I wanted to share this thread here from twittr. Very nicely written in a neutral view from both Abir and Mishti's viewpoints.

Ultimately they are both equally wrong and right👍🏼👎🏼

click for entire thread

https://twitter.com/mavrickk1234/status/1216803008744513541

**plus now it is better to step back from over analysing and over thinking..to just detach and enjoy the drama as entertainment🥳👏

wow this thread i read just today morning nandu... thank you for sharing it here... 🤗 i loved her views its so beautiful, simple yet perfect.. ❤️👍🏼

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

I want MishBir🥺.. After seeing all the lovely posts by you guys.. I'm missing MishBir more

awww meri cool 🤗 atleast for you they will bring mishbir soon dear dont worry...

see this is for you.. ❤️

Originally posted by: Mimzy

For me they are the best pair......😆😆

Chodo yeh mishbir and mishnish....

They would have fought it out........😆😆how dare you .....???

Would have made it wrk in the end.😆

haye haye hifi mini... 🤣

mishkun ki aage koi nai them and their how dare you... you shut up 🤣

and anyway more than anyone he is the one who takes mishti's name 24/7 n keeps thinking of her 🤣🤣 sab mishti ki vaja se 🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Definitely diya ...absolutely correct yaar, at the end we should be happy about the decisions we make...and sometimes it's also necessary to take the charge of your life and go ahead 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

It's all about perspective at the end ...either do what you love or in case you are not able to do so then start loving what you do 😆😆 But try to go for first as much as you can 👍🏼 since I couldn't go for first , I made peace with 2nd option 😛😳....

yes words uru we should be able to find happiness at end whether its our choice or fate... 👍🏼

agreed totally agreed i have tried both the option 😆 but both has ended up giving me regret only but now learnt alot so as of now mixing both going with flow and trying to find something of my own choice.. twisted ways 😆

thats good uru whatever it is at end if it gives happiness everything is good 🤗👍🏼

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Yeah that's correct.But in case of NishMish both have same family😆So Mishti won't have much to explore as a married person.We know Jas will be controlled by Nannu,BP,BM.BP,BM are not exactly going to treat her like bahu.Kuhu is not going to treat her loke Bhabhi🤣.Even writing this is making me feel weird.I am just thinking writers ko thora dooor ka rishtedar bhejna tha na.NishMish k chakkar me Ye rishtey hain pyar k "Ye rishta kya kehlata hai"ban rha🤣🤣

haha i understand here in south thats why most of the youngster now deny marrying cousins even though its allowed... parents feel it safe for girls but they dont as most see them as sibling from childhood or they dont wanna be stuck in the same family n want to get into a new family or only family is good but not the guy.... 😆

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Read the discussion going on.Along with all the messages that CV wants to convey(if they are actually trying to),I also want them to convey that rushing into marriage or relationship in order to move on or forget someone is not a solution.

Also,if showcasing NishMish rishta is to convey that guy's family is also important then that's unfair.In real life we don't end up marrying such a close relative.She won't get to see how adjustments are made when we marry.

The show is only focusing on Mishti's struggle to find a right guy but it should also focus on her journey towards getting prepared for the same as well.

Also best friend need not to be an ideal choice for life partner.Friends and life partner share different kind of bond.An ideal life partner can be ideal friend but an ideal best friend need not to be an ideal partner.

If this post is for me , then I was talking in context of real life ( woh kya hai na ki gareeb prod house ka budget nahi tha 3rd angle ki family ke liye l 🤣 Toh ghar ke ladke ko hi pakad liya 🤣

In previous show mishti is even shown to call nannu bhaiya 🤣 and this whole MishNish shaadi itself is a big disaster on many levels 😆

Ignoring all that...my point was just simple that while going for a life partner, you should also have to keep in mind his family and their behaviour towards you

It's not about exploring the family, it's about how you will get along with the family after marriage... .if the family don't accept you then life becomes terrible after a point , even love flies out of the window

Last para I completely agree...its situational

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Bang on👍🏼

Abir and Nishant can't be compared. They are individuals in their own right and that too imperfectly perfect. The plus point Nishant has is his family who will support him in thick and thin....and family is an important aspect while getting married.

Also we are still yet to see all shades of Nishant. So we will not be able to judge whether he is right or wrong for her.

But my point is just because mishbir was in love ....it doesn't negate the fact that mishnish can also make it work.(solely based on how nish is characterised till now).

So I dnt like the fact they are showing ishaaras to prove mishnish is incompatible. It was not the signs that made me believe in mishbir.....it was their journey from strangers to friends to companions. They stood by each other during their trials and tribulations. I loved their equation even as friends when love was not even in the picture.

I agree mishbir is now lacking in understanding and trust.....but before they had that too before even love came along.

So by the same logic shouldn't mishnish also workout??

Its silly I am thinking abt this but I am confused on what they are trying to convey here. Ultimately it will be mishti's choice whom she wants to spend her life with. So proving mishnish incompatible is not required to prove mishbir is meant to be.😆

Your points are valid mini , in real life also not all love stories have a happy ending that doesn't mean you can't move on ...😆😆 You will never forget your first love and that's more psychological....you just cant but people do move on that's also a fact

That compatibility test was 🤣🤣 It was more of a choice test actually 🤣 like kunal and mishti had similar choices ...reading books , preferring healthy food etc so that means they are compatible? 😆 so someone has a different choice than yours that means they aren't compatible 😆

Compatibility has more to do with behavioural aspects and patterns

Anyways having said that I am waiting to see where the story is leading to...😆

At the end it could just be a track brought up for trp drama 🤣 And we are just over analysing it that's all 😆

Originally posted by: Mimzy

For me they are the best pair......😆😆

Chodo yeh mishbir and mishnish....

They would have fought it out........😆😆how dare you .....???

Would have made it wrk in the end.😆

Exactly 🤣🤣 Very tashanful couple they would have been 🤣

Originally posted by: Mimzy

😆😆

I am curious on whether the gaay Uru will agree to jhatpat shaadi😆😆

If the guy is abir then uru gaay wont waste time in doing courtship 😆

Seal the deal right away 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

perfect uru.. 👏👏🤗

you proved you are the guruji... this is the actual issue, both guys are poles apart cant even think of comparing they have their own ups n downs... and its still early to judge nannu as we have seen so much of abir but only this much about nannu... let the characters play out..

anyway i want to say onething i wanted to say this from this family talk came there is a saying general opinion here i dont know whether you guys have heard but over here they say if the family is good then the guy will be good its not the other way round.. family plays a very important role in marriage and this is really a very sensitive topic at this times i think what you said is true we should leave it to fate and go with flow but that doesnt mean we should do what mishti is doing but after sometimes this can be done... 👍🏼

Bang on !!

You understood the point that I wanted to make

As regards to show ...it could be just for trp drama 😆