SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 11:She is in Love with u & a bad one - Page 45

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

Sana is crazy 🤣🤣!

https://twitter.com/Invincible_me9/status/1216673503727906816?s=20

On several days when we are overworked and are running late, we at home discuss stuff when one’s playing Thinking man- you get what I mean 😆 and another’s in the showers. That’s how a regular relationship works- it’s not a romantic fairytale every day 😕 How many couples actually close doors in the washroom when they are living nuclear? 😕

It’s Arhaan Rashmi’s relationship that fell flat there coz Arhaan finds it unusual and it set me wondering if they were a couple at all or had ever lived together nuclear.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I don’t agree with you from my professional capacity nor do I need to spell out more about her in that direction since I will not be disrespectful to mental health here.

As for PTSD, several people with PTSD fall in love while going through it and recover with care and attention and therapy. PTSD is a very common issue for anybody who has has any sort of trauma- accidents, death in the family, bad breakups, anything. God! Sana is just a normal girl who had a crush on a guy which didn’t work out and who was lucky to fall in love with another. Period! Don’t fling nonsense at her.

She has no addiction to love either since she has held off advances from guys who were not into long term relationships or who weren’t pro marriage. Sana wants a man to settle down with. Period. She is 26 and can take that decision for herself. The problem is we are so used these days to snooty girls who reject love and marriage for ambition that when we see it hit our face, we think they are mentally imbalanced.

Yes, she needs therapy for self-love. In fact I personally think 75% of those who are Sidnaaz addicts need therapy for self- love or we wouldn’t be so obsessed with them. So, there.

the post isn't supposed to be funny and i agree, seriously...!

but @bold🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Bee93

I know some of you may disagree and not like what I am saying but since we all agree that Sana may have PTSD, I’m hoping this will be taken well.

From what I understand, I feel Sana is also a Love addict. Not sure how many of you know but it’s a legit addiction just like alcohol or sex, etc and people like that should take the right measures and seek help. When you’re addicted to alcohol or sex, it’s adviced you stay away from it and work on overcoming that addiction.
Similarly here, Sana before getting into any relationship should seek help. Work on self love and finding happiness within and not depending on an external factor for validation.
Right now, getting in a relationship will not only be toxic for her but also her partner in the long term no matter how well he handles her.

It’s best if she’s adviced to get a grip on her emotions and not encouraged to continue with SidNaaz. Be there for Sid but don’t go expecting a future immediately after you’re out.

I think she understands it to an extent as well but she wants all the love she can get while she can get it. Bahar jaake kuch bhi ho sakta hai, she knows it too. It’s still unhealthy n I hope she realises it.

@bold ... trust me I have studied psychology and a medical student... sana is no where a love addict yes she likes attention but not an addict ... she shows no signs of that.... about post trauma thing it isn't as simply people convey it to be ... she has lately shown some signs (not of an addict) ... but they are very minimal ... if you carefully observe you will realise that her zoning out frequently is a big sign of it ... she has her share of humility... I won't like to discuss it here further as it has been discussed again and again

But I would request you to not label it as love addiction or whatever because she is not one ... love addict latch themself on everyone and everything they can whether the other person wants or not .. shehnaaz where as chooses the guy for her ... she even said main in sab manlo main soch samajh kar padhti hoon .. you can say she is quite moody in a relationship but not a love addict for sure ...

Speaking strictly professionally.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

This came up for discussion once on MF a month back and I said Sana was the most practical and grounded girl I had seen on screen to date.

On several days when we are overworked and are running late, we at home discuss stuff when one’s playing Thinking man- you get what I mean 😆 and another’s in the showers. That’s how a regular relationship works- it’s not a romantic fairytale every day 😕 How many couples actually close doors in the washroom when they are living nuclear? 😕

It’s Arhaan Rashmi’s relationship that fell flat there coz Arhaan finds it unusual and it set me wondering if they were a couple at all or had ever lived together nuclear.

yeah she is real no doubt and in nuclear family not every couple locks bathroom 🤣! But asking Arhan about it was funny and the way she put it across was funny! I never felt Arhan and Rashami had it in them

He wasn’t even half caring as Sid ( actually I shouldn’t compare at all). Sana stands by Sid like a rock, have you seen Rashami doing it? 🙄

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I don’t agree with you from my professional capacity nor do I need to spell out more about her in that direction since I will not be disrespectful to mental health here.

As for PTSD, several people with PTSD fall in love while going through it and recover with care and attention and therapy. PTSD is a very common issue for anybody who has has any sort of trauma- accidents, death in the family, bad breakups, anything. God! Sana is just a normal girl who had a crush on a guy which didn’t work out and who was lucky to fall in love with another. Period! Don’t fling nonsense at her.

She has no addiction to love either since she has held off advances from guys who were not into long term relationships or who weren’t pro marriage. Sana wants a man to settle down with. Period. She is 26 and can take that decision for herself. The problem is we are so used these days to snooty girls who reject love and marriage for ambition that when we see it hit our face, we think they are mentally imbalanced.

Yes, she needs therapy for self-love. In fact I personally think 75% of those who are Sidnaaz addicts need therapy for self- love or we wouldn’t be so obsessed with them. So, there.

I need therapy too! What am I doing in forum everyday? Why are we rooting for this couple? 🙄 I need a therapy too

I wish people not professionally qualified on mental health in any capacity would refrain from throwing about stray opinion on a person’s mental health out of sheer respect for others and themselves if not for another human being who has no means to respond to us. And if you are professionally qualified, have some courtesy to respect the profession and the obligations that come with it.

Originally posted by: Helooohybye

@bold ... trust me I have studied psychology and a medical student... sana is no where a love addict yes she likes attention but not an addict ... she shows no signs of that.... about post trauma thing it isn't as simply people convey it to be ... she has lately shown some signs (not of an addict) ... but they are very minimal ... if you carefully observe you will realise that her zoning out frequently is a big sign of it ... she has her share of humility... I won't like to discuss it here further as it has been discussed again and again

But I would request you to not label it as love addiction or whatever because she is not one ... love addict latch themself on everyone and everything they can whether the other person wants or not .. shehnaaz where as chooses the guy for her ... she even said main in sab manlo main soch samajh kar padhti hoon .. you can say she is quite moody in a relationship but not a love addict for sure ...

Speaking strictly professionally.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

I wish people not professionally qualified on mental health in any capacity would refrain from throwing about stray opinion on a person’s mental health out of sheer respect for others and themselves if not for another human being who has no means to respond to us. And if you are professionally qualified, have some courtesy to respect the profession and the obligations that come with it.

Much needed

Sana is a stuck in a house for 105 days with a few very unfriendly faces all playing a game .. there is no tv there is no smart phone to relax you .. no parents .. she can’t even go out shopping to relax .. she needs Sid even more because he helps her de stress .. yes they love each other but once they go out they both will lead busy lives .. sana already has concerts lined up .. since shukla is coming out as an alpha male he may be snapped in some projects .. I don’t think issues of giving 24/7 attention will crop up ..

If I am bugged about something I look at my smart phone to relax .. can sana do that now .. give her the smart phone now she will appear more normal to everybody

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

yeah she is real no doubt and in nuclear family not every couple locks bathroom 🤣! But asking Arhan about it was funny and the way she put it across was funny! I never felt Arhan and Rashami had it in them

He wasn’t even half caring as Sid ( actually I shouldn’t compare at all). Sana stands by Sid like a rock, have you seen Rashami doing it? 🙄

Let’s not get into Rashmi 🙄