SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 9:My Problem is I like u - Page 58

She needs medical help not bashing. Bashing will break her more. Things will get worst. Coming week would be roughest week for her. She is emotionaly and physical totaly drained now. Her tough childhood and worst last year took all her energy and will power.

Right now I am wishing that I could go to bb13 house and hug her tightly and tell her how periouse she is . Tell her how much ppl love her.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Trust me . End result will be fine . Have some patience. Poora episode dekh lo

yaar the problem is both love each other and they need to clear it out! Both are mad seriously! Sana tells the whole house that she loves Sid! But tell him! Why nonsense of I have soft corner for Paras! For once stop taking about him and tell Sid that you don’t care about Paras and he doesn’t exist for you

Both had sad face during the episode

Trust me, Sana gets highest only due to her asking standing ovation for wedding with sidharth

https://twitter.com/nainalagee/status/1215715595133448193?s=19

Originally posted by: intruderfast

The daant of Salman is not to make fun of her. It is to make her strong. She will go in real world. She will have to face this everyday.

Everyone has weakness. But the u have to hide it .

They are trying to address it tom . Cos she did self harm which to me is not right. Yes it was .ot a drama but still doing self harm is not good. They are may be trying to understand her. Have patience for next 24 hrs.

Just cos sidnaaz fans understand sana , doesnt mean everyone will . So give them some time

I know a lot of people think like that but this is exactly what is truly toxic and adds to mental health problems. She doesn’t need some 'daant', she needs therapy.

Anybody reading this, please don’t think this is the right way to make someone strong. Don’t do this to your kids. Yes, there are people who may come out stronger but this is in no way healthy and not all kids will, and there is no way for you to know who will and who won’t.
And the effects are manifold and don’t always show.

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

Any girl will have that helpless look if a huge man like paras comes charging on you.

And sid had a tear in his eye he said . Imagine how keenly he was observing her .

They are going crazy now.

I disagree slightly . She has fought with asim with a very fierce vigour. Dey ke saath Usne mast fight ki thi.

Sid is a very sharp observer.

Also you don’t have to go through it to know it or understand and empathise. I suggest reading and watching documentaries to become more aware so you can treat people around you better.

Originally posted by: Ritzie

Sigh. I know you think we are over reacting.

It is not over reaction. The people who are reacting here must have experienced this in some way so, they know the signs. If not treated on time, it can get worse.

I will be most happy if it turns out that this is not a problem. But atleast check with some expert. She is showing signs.

They will. I am sure her family is watching too. If they think ,they might contact the bigg boss team They are not heartless. If sana requires a counselor, she will get it

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Alag line mein jaa raha hai sab. They will address,it understand it. If required they will get her treated also. Salman may be wants to know exactly why this jealous thing is so touchy.

Give makers one chance. They have been very good wrg to sana . Just watch the episode

Once may be sana reveals it , they will take appropriate measures

I really hope that.

I want to trust them on this and i really hope this whole hulla around it generates awareness. But i feel so helpless to see her like that.

Saw a pic on Twitter it says it’s a prank. Salman was teasing her she started crying and he got angry. Then precap happened, Shukla bought her back SK explained everything to her calmly. Not sure how reliable it is 😆

Kinda same as that Karishma Tanna and Pritam thing during season 8 where Salman was teasing her and she started crying he got angry and left but then it was back to normal.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Shehnaaz’s real world was what put her in this state. She doesn’t need any more real world awareness and protection. Daant or scolding makes a mentally affected person worse for life and set them back by years. Or shall we begin treating all people who do self harm- cutting veins, beating against walls, throwing oneself into the floor etc with lots of scolding? We don’t need therapy at all then. Just some professional scolders.

Sid understood it and gave her the support and confidence I must say! But like I said, Salman is a host, and we cannot expect him to react the way we want him to, as he has to deal with lot of people, we don’t know what triggered him and he has always been supportive of her! So I still want to wait and watch