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Posted: 5 years ago
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Good morning girls !!!! 😃 Hope everybody is good. I am going to go backwards today with what I have to say.

........ like literally, why do we have the cat meowing with a guy who appears to be performing witch-craft? Are we heading towards a supernatural, witch-craft wala show? NAH ! I don't think so, I have that much trust on the writers😃 I am just messing with them for fun😃. But, looks like the cat guy is now going to twist her and to shut him up, she will do some things to protect " her family". This is now snow-balling into a disaster.

Why do I feel that the writers are not going to make papa Naren the bad guy😒? Why do I feel that they won't throw him under the bus and make him the nasty philanderer? Why do I feel that Nishi bua has another skeleton in a safe hidden from Rohit? She had just shown him the plastic wala skeleton in her closet to Rohit? I mean when you think about it, it is a big deal for Rohit to know about the plastic skeleton ( Naren papa ), but I don't know why I can't shake the feeling. That Rohit stumbled upon " falsely" about his dad being Pooji's father and NIshi bua didn't refute this with the " actual truth" . This is my hypothesis for now. If she truly let Rohit believe his dad is the naazayez father when he actually is not, then that would be truly despicable😡YK's look of astonishment, the letter by " father " reminded by our very own Sasha👍🏼, Nishi saying Veena was my friend first, Naren's uptightness, all are not fitting neatly into the theory that Papa Naren is the kameena. I have to add a disclaimer here, this doesn't mean I have any warm fuzzies for the grouch Naren papa, still can't stand him for other reasons😡🤢

Again, if Rohit's story that the birth mother is dead is correct, then the whole drama of bringing in a "fake live mother" doesn't make sense. Why would they kill a very much alive " papa Naren" and bring a dead mother to life ? Why couldn't they have just said that the birth mother and father are dead? Instead they killed the alive Naren Papa and told Pooji that the father is dead😲😲 God, people, I am sooo twisted like a damn interlocking-pretzel now, I can't keep anything straight, no pun intended🤔 These writers are going to give us a bad case of vertigo. Either they have completely goofed up and forgot what they have and are telling us OR they are just very, very smart and are 10 steps ahead of my understanding

Now again, as much as I don't want to blame Sona's righteousness🤔, I have to say this. She is this straight shooter who feels that there is one way to get to wherever it is " a straight line" no matter if you smash your face, stub your nose crooked and end up with a golfball sized gumba on your forehead. This is her advising Rohit to tell Veena😲. Righteousness is refreshing 👍🏼, but righteousness combined with impulsivity and oblivion to everything else, especially emotions is deadly and irritating🤢. I therefore want to present a more realistic perspective here. On paper, yes, Veena needs to know her husband's kartoots so she lives a " true life". 👍🏼Accha hain, I agree to this in theory.

However, practically speaking if we look at it from the perspective of Veena, Pooja or family, this doesn't work. As per Rohit, the birth mother is dead, Naren papa admitted to a one time fling, never to repeat again, so then what are Rohit's goals for his family? His big picture? Veena to be happy, never having to face humiliation, ridicule or insecurity and Pooji to be loved, cherished, her life and future secured👍🏼 and the family to live in a semblance of harmony. Now, how does this ugly truth disclosure help with any of his goals? Look at what happened to Sona. Beti Sona didn't care to look at papa Naren in the eye after knowing his truth😡, let alone pyaar and respect she proclaimed at one time. She is going to forever sympathize with Veena as a bechari, rather than treat her on an equal or at a higher footing. How will the whole family, especially Veena treat Pooji if they knew that she is the product of the najaayez papa Naren's transgressions🤢.And how about Pooji first and foremost? Can Pooji ever look or live with Naren again? Can Veena ? In Mili's book, there are no najaayez bacche😭, there are only najaayez parents😡So, if Naren is now a changed man, birth mother is dead, can they let the dead horse stay dead? I am again going to bring Rohit's profession here into reference. Taking an exam on paper and dealing with people for real are two different things. If he is given the story of a person with severe coronary disease, it is an easy answer for him- perform surgery or whatever intervention. But if he sees in person, a frail, 90 year old who doesn't move much with severe coronary disease, his answers will be different, he will have to take a lot of other factors into consideration. This is what I see is the main difference between Sona and Rohit, paper test vs real life test, theoretical vs practical, idealist vs realist. Not sure if I am making sense😳

On a lighter note, I liked the pale yellow and white color theme👍🏼, it is so pleasing to the eyes. Aaj ke liye I will stop, so I don't lose the readers with my nonsense😃

Have a great day, girls !!! 😃

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Bang on girl!!! Bang on!!!

The way u explained aaj ka episode is exactly like how i would have explained it!! My views and prespective from tge past few days was contradicting from urs! But thats human nature right..having ur own views!! But tdy this is what i think everybody in the fandom wanted to say!

Sonakshi was right in putting her views and prespective in front of rohit! If we think from veena's pov..sona was right! But if we think in general from what seems to be practical then rohit is definitely right! If it would have been rohan in naren's place then what sona said would have been practical too!! Since it would have been a recent haopening but now in naren's case its been 20+ years since the truth has been hidden..so bringing it out now would be a total joke! I actually had a lot to say but i guess u already have explained all my thought way too beautifully!!❤

And everyone was looking beautiful in tdy's episode!! The theme and even the decor was actually a treat to the eye!!🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Really very nice analysis. So do you think it is Nishi illigimate daughter? May be YK and Rohit also are unaware?


My only concern, sona not falling in the trap and Rohit support her as always. May be i n expecting more. This will all be cleared in next week with tje pace the episodes are rushing.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Never fail to Make Sense Dear😎👍🏼 Your Ramblings


Just a random guess 😆Wat if Veena already knew Naren kartoots 🤢reveal as big twist


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Idealist Vs Realist 😎 Theoretical vs Practical 😎 like This Spl bits in last para 😛 How Can Loss of Readers possible in Practical 😉 for your Analysis Mili❤️


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Posted: 5 years ago
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Excellent post..specially the lines in which righteousness is mentioned 👏 Absolutely true..



Yellow theme is good but deepu ? Looks like a boiled egg to me 🤣 And her husband ..the tiger print rest all r looking classy

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: mili9

Good morning girls !!!! 😃 Hope everybody is good. I am going to go backwards today with what I have to say.

........ like literally, why do we have the cat meowing with a guy who appears to be performing witch-craft? Are we heading towards a supernatural, witch-craft wala show? NAH ! I don't think so, I have that much trust on the writers😃 I am just messing with them for fun😃. But, looks like the cat guy is now going to twist her and to shut him up, she will do some things to protect " her family". This is now snow-balling into a disaster.

Why do I feel that the writers are not going to make papa Naren the bad guy😒? Why do I feel that they won't throw him under the bus and make him the nasty philanderer? Why do I feel that Nishi bua has another skeleton in a safe hidden from Rohit? She had just shown him the plastic wala skeleton in her closet to Rohit? I mean when you think about it, it is a big deal for Rohit to know about the plastic skeleton ( Naren papa ), but I don't know why I can't shake the feeling. That Rohit stumbled upon " falsely" about his dad being Pooji's father and NIshi bua didn't refute this with the " actual truth" . This is my hypothesis for now. If she truly let Rohit believe his dad is the naazayez father when he actually is not, then that would be truly despicable😡YK's look of astonishment, the letter by " father " reminded by our very own Sasha👍🏼, Nishi saying Veena was my friend first, Naren's uptightness, all are not fitting neatly into the theory that Papa Naren is the kameena. I have to add a disclaimer here, this doesn't mean I have any warm fuzzies for the grouch Naren papa, still can't stand him for other reasons😡🤢

Again, if Rohit's story that the birth mother is dead is correct, then the whole drama of bringing in a "fake live mother" doesn't make sense. Why would they kill a very much alive " papa Naren" and bring a dead mother to life ? Why couldn't they have just said that the birth mother and father are dead? Instead they killed the alive Naren Papa and told Pooji that the father is dead😲😲 God, people, I am sooo twisted like a damn interlocking-pretzel now, I can't keep anything straight, no pun intended🤔 These writers are going to give us a bad case of vertigo. Either they have completely goofed up and forgot what they have and are telling us OR they are just very, very smart and are 10 steps ahead of my understanding

Now again, as much as I don't want to blame Sona's righteousness🤔, I have to say this. She is this straight shooter who feels that there is one way to get to wherever it is " a straight line" no matter if you smash your face, stub your nose crooked and end up with a golfball sized gumba on your forehead. This is her advising Rohit to tell Veena😲. Righteousness is refreshing 👍🏼, but righteousness combined with impulsivity and oblivion to everything else, especially emotions is deadly and irritating🤢. I therefore want to present a more realistic perspective here. On paper, yes, Veena needs to know her husband's kartoots so she lives a " true life". 👍🏼Accha hain, I agree to this in theory.

However, practically speaking if we look at it from the perspective of Veena, Pooja or family, this doesn't work. As per Rohit, the birth mother is dead, Naren papa admitted to a one time fling, never to repeat again, so then what are Rohit's goals for his family? His big picture? Veena to be happy, never having to face humiliation, ridicule or insecurity and Pooji to be loved, cherished, her life and future secured👍🏼 and the family to live in a semblance of harmony. Now, how does this ugly truth disclosure help with any of his goals? Look at what happened to Sona. Beti Sona didn't care to look at papa Naren in the eye after knowing his truth😡, let alone pyaar and respect she proclaimed at one time. She is going to forever sympathize with Veena as a bechari, rather than treat her on an equal or at a higher footing. How will the whole family, especially Veena treat Pooji if they knew that she is the product of the najaayez papa Naren's transgressions🤢.And how about Pooji first and foremost? Can Pooji ever look or live with Naren again? Can Veena ? In Mili's book, there are no najaayez bacche😭, there are only najaayez parents😡So, if Naren is now a changed man, birth mother is dead, can they let the dead horse stay dead? I am again going to bring Rohit's profession here into reference. Taking an exam on paper and dealing with people for real are two different things. If he is given the story of a person with severe coronary disease, it is an easy answer for him- perform surgery or whatever intervention. But if he sees in person, a frail, 90 year old who doesn't move much with severe coronary disease, his answers will be different, he will have to take a lot of other factors into consideration. This is what I see is the main difference between Sona and Rohit, paper test vs real life test, theoretical vs practical, idealist vs realist. Not sure if I am making sense😳

On a lighter note, I liked the pale yellow and white color theme👍🏼, it is so pleasing to the eyes. Aaj ke liye I will stop, so I don't lose the readers with my nonsense😃

Have a great day, girls !!! 😃

If Sona is so righteous why she is hiding her prenuptial contract with Rohit family

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Awesome, kamaaal post

First and foremost, I love your analytical posts a little too much. I sometimes disagree on a point or two, but all in all, I legit love your posts.

Coming to this one, I really like your comparisons of idealism and realism. Ideally yeah, everybody should know every truth. But in reality, it's just not very reasonable.

Again great one

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Posted: 5 years ago
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A well written post, but I don't agree. The problem with the world is exactly that we have too much cynicism and less idealism. A life lived without principles, integrity and honesty is worthless, in my opinion. Veena is living a lie, a massive one at that. She truly believes her husband is the best husband in the world (despite all his nonsense, which makes me think she's lost her moral compass in the quest to keep her family happy) - which is a sham. If there is one most important reason that she needs to know, it is this - any self-respecting individual would not want to be lied to or kept in the dark in such a manner. She deserves to know the truth, no matter how heart breaking it is.

Unfortunately, life is not a bed of roses and sometimes people have to hit rock bottom to live a better, healthier life. Life doesn't begin and end at keeping "sippy parivar" happy. Before being a mother, bahu, wife and a gazillion other things, she's an individual in her own right. A woman is not only defined by the relationships in her life. She is most importantly defined by her thoughts, actions and choices. Relationships exist in life to elevate you and to bring more joy. One doesn't cease to exist without them.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: justlife

A well written post, but I don't agree. The problem with the world is exactly that we have too much cynicism and less idealism. A life lived without principles, integrity and honesty is worthless, in my opinion. Veena is living a lie, a massive one at that. She truly believes her husband is the best husband in the world (despite all his nonsense, which makes me think she's lost her moral compass in the quest to keep her family happy) - which is a sham. If there is one most important reason that she needs to know, it is this - any self-respecting individual would not want to be lied to or kept in the dark in such a manner. She deserves to know the truth, no matter how heart breaking it is.

Unfortunately, life is not a bed of roses and sometimes people have to hit rock bottom to live a better, healthier life. Life doesn't begin and end at keeping "sippy parivar" happy. Before being a mother, bahu, wife and a gazillion other things, she's an individual in her own right. A woman is not only defined by the relationships in her life. She is most importantly defined by her thoughts, actions and choices. Relationships exist in life to elevate you and to bring more joy. One doesn't cease to exist without them.

Nice..I am confused on whether veena deserves to know this.....veena should be told by her husband or may be she should have been told when he cheated on her these many years back ..I am not justifying naren here but he committed a blunder and he was guilty for it , promised his sister that this will never be repeated ..now that it's over (and naren truly changed , or did he not ?)😕, why dig up the past and complicate it ? All I am trying to say is , how is it relevant NOW in the present ? She has already lived that life ,which was a lie..



Two, veena is very different from let's say..tanya ..veenas existence revolves around naren ..so bringing up something so big, such as his infidelity , might affect her very badly as rohit fears.. so the past which Is now past , that woman is dead (or is she not ?) , past which cannot be changed , will bring immense pain to her which I think isn't necessary...but yes , naren must be confronted by his son , beti jaisi bahu , he really needs to tone himself down and stop judging others when he himself is piece of crap

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Meowwwwwwww everybody, preparing u for the cat-astrophic drama heading our way next week. I agree with mili & George Michael...gotta have faith faith faith in the writers not to go down the supernatural path 😕 there are enough skeletons in the Sippy mansion as it is.


Papa Naren is an 🤬 period, I will push him under the bus any day. He has got too many ants in his pants all the time 🐷 and then people say only women get grumpy. Its like the writers cannot decide whether to serve him chopped, boiled, poached or stir-fried, so the recepie is being concocted on the go. He is either well aware of what is going on and has been told by Nishi to stay out of it as she will handle it for him like she had in the past OR he is truly clueless OR he suffers from very selective amnesia.


I also don't understand the whole 'classy Malabar Hill' logic behind the adoption thank you letter from the father OR bringing in a fake mother to make sure Pooja hates her real parents and never asks for them again. 👎🏼 Like mili said, they could have just told Pooja both her birth parents are dead...her mother died during childbirth in the hospital, the father was not in a state to take care of a baby, so they adopted her (that would explain the thank u letter) he too died soon thereafter. They could have brought in a fake pandit who supposedly performed their shradhh to add extra Malabar Hill style tadka...THE END. But why the insistence on making Pooja hate her birth parents? And in such a manner that too.


Is this how 'educated' minds think and act? If the answer is yes, then the Sippy bhai behen duo have no grounds to ridicule Sona for not being SSC pass...their F grade script and logic will give even EK writers a run for their money. Nishi behna aap botox inject karne main khush raho na bechare script writers ki rozi roti pe pair kyu maar rahi ho, unless you looking for a job change 😔


Yes Veena has every right to know what her righteous patidev has been upto...but it was in the past, a matter which he has regretted and never repeated again (better not have 😡). Does not mean I'm condoning it, but honestly what purpose will it serve anyone in the current scenario? Veena will be beyond devastated once hurricane Unfaithful Naren hits her. She has been shown to be a very fragile character emotionally, I doubt she will ever come out of it intact let alone forgive Naren, YK, Nishi or even Rohit for keeping this from her. And how will she relate to Pooja then? Pooja will be nothing but a living proof and constant reminder of Naren's infidelity.


Imagine what the spoilt brat herself will go through...Pooja will make sure she has a full proof suicide plan this time. Her favorite Mamu is her real father...why, what, how, when????? Poor kid 😭 First being adopted ka dhamakedar jhatka, then a fake mother who she got attached to was shoved into her face and then shown the door, now this Truth is many things in life can hurt you, but sometimes ignorance is bliss for the greater good.


The revelation is going to change the dynamics of the entire Sippy parivaar and for the worst...is it really worth it? Only Rohan will probably find a silver lining in all this cause its his golden ticket to continue rolling in the deep with Pari. 🤬

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