Originally posted by: Ephemeral
Arti - Mujhe abhi life enjoy karni hai. Travel karna hai, ghar pe rehna hai, bacche paida karne hai. Naam ho gaya ab, pehle bhi tha mujhe bhi log jaante the Krushna ki vajah se bhi jaante the. Kahin to successful houn taaki jab aap 50 saal ke ho to log bolein aap ek acchi ma thi. Mera humesha se yahi tha. Main ambitious kabhi bhi nahi thi.
Vishal - Ye decision bohot badi cheez hai. Leke usko chodhna...
Arti - Mai chodhne vaalon me se hoon nahi.
Vishal - Jab time aayega to lena.
Arti - Mera dil keh raha hai time aa gaya.
Vishal - Darshakon Arti ko housewife banna hai koi accha ladka ho to batao.
Arti- Agar maine 25 saal me shaadi kar li hoti to mai doormat jaisi hoti. Itni emotionally weak hoon na main. Abhi Sana kaise bolti hai? Mai bhi vaisi hi thi isiliye mai usse connect karti hoon.
Vishal - Kisi ke liye bhi emotionally bankrupt hona sahi nahi hai.
Arti - Jo aapse pyaar karta hai vo aisa hone ho nahi dega, aapka bank bharta rahega.
Le sigh. Oh Aarti how naive are you. Vishal is right; you cannot become emotionally bankrupt for someone else nor can you expect someone else to fill your bank. You are responsible for fulfilling your own bank and your own life. This idea that someone else is your better half or needed to complete you is wrong.
If I can’t complete myself, if I can’t make myself happy, if I am not accountable and responsible for myself then I’m not ready to be in a relationship.
Traditionally people used to think two halves come together to make a whole. I subscribe to the idea that two complete people come together to create an amazing team and that is marriage.
Anyywhoooooo just my 2 cents लोल
What I really wanted to know was can you vote many times? I’m voting online and it keeps saying thanks For your vote (or something) and I can go back to the voting page and it’s letting me vote again.
Also where do I see extra tadkas?
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