Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus
I completely disagree.
a. Abir stood up for Mishti when she wanted a courtship
b. Abir stood up for Mishti in the chashma track because he din't want to her to let go of her individuality for her partner
c. Abir supported Mishti when she broke the rishta
On all these occasions, Abir had no guarantee that Mishti will ever love him back. To imply he supported her because he loved her and it was his selfishness is extremely unfair IMO. He would have supported her even if she rejected him and chose to marry Kunal. His love was always selfless pre-leap. And just because you love someone, it doesn't always come with implicit trust and understanding. Even BM and BP refused to support Mishti during the haldi khaand but Abir did. He always loved and trusted people with all his heart and that is a great attribute.
Abir did not stop the marriage because he was convinced Kunal and Kuhu love each other and he was sure Meenu is messing with Kunal. Not because he somehow wanted the two to marry just to save his relationship with Mishti. He didn't want Kuhu to go through that humiliation and he was sure KuKu loved each other. As flawed as that thinking was, I just dont see how he was selfish here?
I dont deny he had a lot of flaws but I honestly feel like he deserved way more acknowledgement for some of the stuff he did.