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Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

I guess its more about Abir not hitting back at people calling Mishti names.. especially Kunal.. other than this, Abir 1.0 was a perfect soul.

Par ab toh Abir 2.0 makes Abir 1.0 look like a hypocrite...

Shruti even if Abir mollycoddled Kunal, he always supported Mishti. Even when Mishti broke the rishta. Even when she did the haldi khaand at Meenu's behest. Even when Mishti slapped Kunal. Even when Kunal created a ruckus at the Ganesh pooja. And with Kuhu, the writers never exposed any of her stunts. Initially Abir thought Kuhu and Mishti were close. Later he over compensated for Kunal ruining her life. I just find it unfair that Abir is not given enough credit for all the amazing things he did pre leap. And he was dealing with his own family. Nishant isn't. Apart from Kuhu who is also his sister. Am not talking about Abir 2 here because he neither has screen space nor does he speak sense but Abir 1 was incredible. I just don't see how he fell short or why he only gave love to Mishti and failed as a partner unlike Nishant.

I think it's the little cube he has with red buttons. From what I gather, it's supposed to quell your nerves in case you panic quickly or might resort to anger because it starts to divert your mind onto something else and something unimportant. It's pretty much like angry/impulsive people are asked to coun to ten before they respond to a situation because it gives your brain enough time to disregard your initial response.

I could be wrong though 😂😅

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

what is clicker?🤔

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

Good morning everyone

Thanks for thread and WU suta and surbhi🤗🤗

Finally a good precap...... ❤️

Thank you kuhu👏🤗

Kuhu chaaaa gayiiii🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Hi varsha good morning...how are you doing , watching the epis ?😛😆

Haan diya will be back soon 😳

Uruuu 🤗 happy new year 🥳.. I don’t think we chatted after new year 😛

Good that Diyu will come online.. hope she feels better soon.

Waiting episode to get uploaded.. and desperately waiting this MU gets clear soon.. 😛

“writers ji humare achhe din kab aayenge “😆

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

I guess its more about Abir not hitting back at people calling Mishti names.. especially Kunal.. other than this, Abir 1.0 was a perfect soul.

Par ab toh Abir 2.0 makes Abir 1.0 look like a hypocrite...

Yes

I think abir refused to think of anything about mishti because he cant let go of his love her...when the kunal reality broke out he was busy pacifying baby kunal to keep his family together that he did not try to understand why mishti did what she did....things kept on getting worse when nannu was always around mishti..they never got that space to communicate because abir at that point choose not ro listen...sometimes best friends don't make great husbands....in a relationship love comes first then trust then friendship then commitment.....atleast thats how I see it...in friendship is trust and having someone who you can share everything with without commitment.....different people see things differently and I really dont see the need to rush the marriage....I would not do that to my daughter...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

No it's not about that , Abir never took her taunts seriously, otherwise kuhu and abir share quite a personal bond , he could have told her to stop , not blaming abir but he never felt the need to stop , he always took it in a fun way ...which is fine too 😳

Because he never knew the reality of their bond too!!If that is the case why don't Nishant stops her mom from calling her Muhboli?

Originally posted by: Onyourface

t this comparison game ...plus abir 1 0 or 2.0 doesn't deserve a comparison from nannu , abir se sikhna chahie na kuchh 😆 Khud ko uthane ke liye dusro ko girona zaruri nahi

Today nishant asked kuhu to behave which abir never told , that's all , that's a fact too , it no where negates the efforts done by abir...

Bold - Baaki sab theek hai lekin yeh kya 😡😆

I don't want to compare but something is forcing me to do that...the problem is with makers,they want us to do that..

I don't want nannu in mishbir story yaar..no offense to actor but I don't want him..let him go somewhere...😆😆

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Ki Hoya? Just because I loved Abir doesn’t mean I will forgive him🥺 He needs to get a realty check.

Ek baat bata... on what basis he is getting ready to win Mishti back? Does he have a solution to handle BB?

Arey I am not saying that you are wrong Aap sahi ho , when it comes to abir I guess my brain becomes biased 😆 but you are right , just because we love him that doesn't mean we should ignore his mistakes I understand, he is absolutely wrong here, i see a lot of people saying that he is doing all this out of jealousy but my question is , is it a right thing? How can you let jealousy over power your thought process, that's definitely not a good thing

And yes I also know that BP is not going to agree until abir has a solution to handle benba, so haan he has a long way to go

Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus

For all the Nishant v Abir comparisons here, I agree the writers have destroyed Abir post leap but am shocked ppl think Abir never respected or stood up for Mishti the way Nishant is doing 😲 He has his flaws but man he actually supported Mishti in the haldi track when her own family didn't. And was prepared to leave his house and live separately with her because she deserved respect. And we are saying he only gave her love? Am sorry but Abir 1.0 was incredible and deserves more acknowledgment than this 😆

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