I’m going to leave it here - I can’t even remotely relate to the mindset you’ve articulated above.
Why do people need to be so cautious about confessing love? I can be in love with someone today and not be in love after a few days. What is so extraordinary about this? Why do we treat a woman confessing feelings for someone just an alien thing. Usko acha laga, usne bol diya. Baad mein nahi acha laga, she said Bahar jaake solve karenge issues. Baat khatam!