Paras grabbing Shehnaaz's throat( physical assault) - Page 6

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

That was good of Asim to intervene.

The way Paras grabbed at her throat and the way Sid was yelling at her is how paternalistic men react to enforce control.

Seriously but she needs to react. It looks so bad. I think she should be friends with Bagga than paras and Mahira.

Sorry guys as much as I don’t like Sana I don’t like what Paras did with her. We can’t blame Sana for this!

She and Sid probably share that equation where he fun chokes her or whatever that is, maybe she has that comfort level with Paras too.

But Paras seemed in anger and rage when he grabbed her neck.

Good on Asim to try and stop Paras and even Shukla who gave a wtf reaction to Paras.

Also whatever it is- no Sana doesn’t deserve it. She’s stupid for not seeing it and calling it out. But that’s it.

Lots of women have this problem where they think this kind of behaviour by men is acceptable and she’s probably one of those but we can’t put an onus and blame those women! What needs to change is the mentality.

Anyway, we can condemn it but no one can do anything till Sana speaks out herself just like When Asim didn’t speak or complain against Shuklas violence nothing can be done on this show!

Also this is Paras looking like a douche bag here so let’s not somehow try and blame the victim Sana here.

Just my two cents. Not looking to fight. Plus I majorly dislike Sana and you all know that.

Sid was sitting there and did not react immediately. Only after Asim interfered. Sid's a violent person himself so doesn't think much of such acts.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

Seriously but she needs to react. It looks so bad. I think she should be friends with Bagga than paras and Mahira.

See when you write that ,you are still blaming her just couching it in a more sympathetic frame😆

Her lack of reaction does not justify the action.

We are voyeurs, we can watch and react to what we watch ,we can't dictate that people behave the way we would perhaps behave or we think is right.

Originally posted by: dondy27

Why don’t you read what I said first? I said that that in the “intimate” way it HAS NEVER been shown on BB before. What part of that looked intimate to you? Also I LITERALLY SAID I have a problem with what paras did because it was out of ANGER. I NEVER defended what paras did. You read one line and then don’t read the rest of what I said

And also said people are making a mountain out of a molehill...?! I am glad you are agitated by what Paras did. I also don't think it makes any sense to expect everyone to react the exact same way to something.

Originally posted by: Kim75

I think growing up in small town it might not be big deal for her cause it happens a lot there. But seeing this on national tv has made me so mad!

Seeing how she is getting manhandled by Sid and paras is very disgraceful...

I said this before and telling now also... I am disgusted to see Sid-Shahnaaz and Paras-shahnaaz behaviour

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

Where did Sana say this when Paras was doing this?

Sana always said those things in other scenarios, so i am talking on that bases.. we or atleast i always saw how she reacts for any serious scenario at the end...

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

See when you write that ,you are still blaming her just couching it in a more sympathetic frame😆

Her lack of reaction does not justify the action.

We are voyeurs, we can watch and react to what we watch ,we can't dictate that people behave the way we would perhaps behave or we think is right.

See what I mean- please read my other post. It’s more detailed of what I mean to say.

My basic point is we can all make hue and cry over it but we can’t do anything about it till she herself complains or raises an issue.

I for one don’t agree and don’t blame Sana here for being a victim. What I blame is the mentality that a lot of other women have too and it’s not even their fault it’s the society around them that structures their view and it’s always hard to break out from those shackles.

Also in this show things only happen when people speak out so unless she does we can feel bad for her but can’t do much.

Shukla and Paras behave same with shehnaaz. I have seen Shukla many times manhandling shehnaaz. Jab shehnaaz ko koi farak nahi padhta inn sab cheezon se toh I don't think she has any self respect. It's shehnaaz's fault that she has given so much levage to Shukla and Paras that they can do anything with her.

Kisi aur ladki(except mahira & shehnaaz) ke saath aisa karke dikhayein 🤬

Originally posted by: TC_FA

Shukla and Paras behave same with shehnaaz. I have seen Shukla many times manhandling shehnaaz. Jab shehnaaz ko koi farak nahi padhta inn sab cheezon se toh I don't think she has any self respect. It's shehnaaz's fault that she has given so much levage to Shukla and Paras that they can do anything with her.

Kisi aur ladki(except mahira & shehnaaz) ke saath aisa karke dikhayein 🤬

I said the same point. We should draw a line