Will Asim blame Shefali too? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Rahm

Looks the other way around with Asim missing Sidharth and singing a song for him.

Ya but Asim didn’t go to Sid. It was Sana who told Sid that and Sid gave Asim a side hug!

This friendship ain’t happening. Asim and Sid are now Friends with each other’s arch enemies. No way the friendship happens. Best outcome can be them staying cordial

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

Yeah but Asim agreed and said also I never asked you to sort things between me and Sid

No. What happened was Shefali said I never tried to fix things between them and Asim was like I never asked you to.. something like that.

Kamya opened up Asim's eyes to a lot of the manipulation Shefali did. The fact that she said she covered for Himanshi and Asim's chipkaoing so I'm sure Asim is rethinking everything Shefali has ever said.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

Ya but Asim didn’t go to Sid. It was Sana who told Sid that and Sid gave Asim a side hug!

This friendship ain’t happening. Asim and Sid are now Friends with each other’s arch enemies. No way the friendship happens. Best outcome can be them staying cordial

Umm hello.. if Asim didn't sing the song why would they all say that?

Originally posted by: Rahm

Umm hello.. if Asim didn't sing the song why would they all say that?

I’m not saying he didn’t sing the song. I’m saying Sana told sid about the same. Asim wouldn’t have gone up to Sid on his own anyway, Sana encouraged Asim saying Sid even he sang a song for you and Asim then said what song and Sid responded nicely!

Soft corner hoga I’m sure from both their sides. We only see 60 minutes of their day. I’m sure they aren’t arch enemies as it’s on the show. Basic human decency toh hoti hai. Asim was singing on Sids birthday also. Also when Sid was leaving for SR ( in between a major fight between them ) Asim had still come to see off Sid and they shook hands.

Despite this yeh friends to Nahi banne wale for sure!

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

I’m not saying he didn’t sing the song. I’m saying Sana told sid about the same. Asim wouldn’t have gone up to Sid on his own anyway, Sana encouraged Asim saying Sid even he sang a song for you and Asim then said what song and Sid responded nicely!

Soft corner hoga I’m sure from both their sides. We only see 60 minutes of their day. I’m sure they aren’t arch enemies as it’s on the show. Basic human decency toh hoti hai. Asim was singing on Sids birthday also. Also when Sid was leaving for SR ( in between a major fight between them ) Asim had still come to see off Sid and they shook hands.

Despite this yeh friends to Nahi banne wale for sure!

My topic isn't about them becoming friends. I don't know why you keep saying that. My topic is whether or not Asim will blame Shefali too for pushing him to have a fall out with Sidharth and from the beginning I said that Sid and Asim are to blame for their fall out but there definitely was outside influence. Himanshi and Shefali for Asim.

For Sidharth the influence was Mahira and Paras, but it was Shefali's pol that was opened by Kamya hence the topic is focusing on Asim and Shefali.

Also, overall equations change quite a bit in the house, so I for one would never say never to anything.

So I’m no Asim fan, and I cannot stand Shukla - but what I took away from the rift or whatever, was simply the difference in what they both expect from their equation - I wouldn’t blame anyone else. Shukla expects his “group” to haan mein haan milao, do what he says, and not question him or criticize his behavior. As long as you behave thus - he’s a yaaron ka yaar. He also is rather stingy with respect though - doesn’t know how to give it very well. Asim seemed to be ok with that until a point - at that point, he wanted equality in the equation - wanted Shukla to listen to him and the others, to respect him, or at least not treat him with disrespect. Shukla didn’t oblige.

Seemed to me - they went their separate ways because of those differences. Now - if they are to patch up, it’ll be because Asim agrees to the former status quo - cos Shukla ain’t changing, there’s no doubt there. Not a good idea for Asim’s game though - he’s managed to carve out an individual place for himself away from Shukla. Let’s see if he can maintain it even if he heads back to Shuklapur.

Originally posted by: SP2684

So I’m no Asim fan, and I cannot stand Shukla - but what I took away from the rift or whatever, was simply the difference in what they both expect from their equation - I wouldn’t blame anyone else. Shukla expects his “group” to haan main haan milao, do what he says, and not question him or criticize his behavior. As long as you behave thus - he’s a yaaron ka yaar. He also is rather stingy with respect though - doesn’t know how to give it very well. Asim seemed to be ok with that until a point - at that point, he wanted equality in the equation - wanted Shukla to listen to him and the others, to respect him, or at least not treat him with disrespect. Shukla didn’t oblige.

Seemed to me - they went their separate ways because of those differences. Now - if they are to patch up, it’ll be because Asim agrees to the former status quo - cos Shukla ain’t changing, there’s no doubt there. Not a good idea for Asim’s game though - he’s managed to carve out an individual place for himself away from Shukla. Let’s see if he can maintain it even if he heads back to Shuklapur.

Paras holds his own with Sidharth. He tells Sidharth when he disagrees with him. Even during the puppet task, they didn't agree on everything.

Also, Paras tells Sidharth where he goes wrong especially in arguments. Sidharth manages to listen to him.

But I do agree that they both wanted something different from their equation.

Originally posted by: Rahm

My topic isn't about them becoming friends. I don't know why you keep saying that. My topic is whether or not Asim will blame Shefali too for pushing him to have a fall out with Sidharth and from the beginning I said that Sid and Asim are to blame for their fall out but there definitely was outside influence. Himanshi and Shefali for Asim.

For Sidharth the influence was Mahira and Paras, but it was Shefali's pol that was opened by Kamya hence the topic is focusing on Asim and Shefali.

Also, overall equations change quite a bit in the house, so I for one would never say never to anything.

I don’t know. I for one hope Asim doesn’t blame Shefali for creating a rift.

But let’s see. Too many equations and dynamics are changing, God knows who will blame who for what!

Shukla on the other hand definitely holds Shefali responsible for his break up with Asim.

Originally posted by: Rahm

Paras holds his own with Sidharth. He tells Sidharth when he disagrees with him. Even during the puppet task, they didn't agree on everything.

Also, Paras tells Sidharth where he goes wrong especially in arguments. Sidharth manages to listen to him.

But I do agree that they both wanted something different from their equation.

I disagree - I also referred to criticism, which Shukla cannot gracefully take from anyone, let alone friends. And equality, and something as basic as talking to people decently and not putting them down arbitrarily - Shukla, IMO - has a major problem with all of that.

And Paras and Shukla are not friends - Paras needs to be pro-Shukla to further his game, and Shukla needs numbers. Beyond that - they don’t even like each other. But that’s my view - to each their own.

Originally posted by: SP2684

I disagree - I also referred to criticism, which Shukla cannot gracefully take from anyone, let alone friends. And equality, and something as basic as talking to people decently and not putting them down arbitrarily - Shukla, IMO - has a major problem with all of that.

And Paras and Shukla are not friends - Paras needs to be pro-Shukla to further his game, and Shukla needs numbers. Beyond that - they don’t even like each other. But that’s my view - to each their own.

I think the same. Also paras isn’t as short tempered as Asim nor as egoistical. Paras is a lot calmer and is using Sid to further himself in the game and that’s why maintains a more open and malleable approach with Sid. Sid also is okay with Paras - because with Asim he was genuinely close and treated him like a friend/brother. He’s also more cautious with paras coz he needs numbers and support in the game too.

Asim I don’t see going back to Shukla. They just can’t coexist and be friends. Also Asim is sort of RD’s friend now who Shukla hates. If Shukla couldn’t accept Asim when he was Himanshi and Shefali there’s no way he accepts Asim when he’s with RD. also Asim won’t be friends with Shukla or hang out with him till he’s with paras.
so no don’t see them becoming friends