Playing devil's advocate

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Posted: 6 years ago
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No one's supporter or hater, here. Just a fan of the show!


Now Rashmi arhan issue is becoming too awkward even for viewers. Isnt it?


What would I do had I been stuck in a house with a man I am planning (or at least thinking) of marrying and people are constantly coming and telling me about the issues from outside?


I am trying to jot down the points here, by putting myself in Rashmi's shoes


1. I would instantly become defensive because of the close confines and weeks of being at the receiving end of many conflicts in the house. And because this is one guy who cares (or appears to be caring).


2. I would doubt the intentions of the makers and producers. Why are they playing this game? They knew of these 'rumors', it's being talked about as is being portrayed, then why did the allow the re-entry of this guy?is this some grand scheme to garner top?


3. Yes, Salman sir told me to be aware and beware. But he came in and told us to sort it out. It was too cryptic. Sorting what? The misunderstandings or I should break up or should I continue being with him now that arhan has apologized for hiding the fact.


4. Yes, he had told me about the marriage. And yes he should have told me about the kid. But isnt it something I should have sorted out outside and not here at all?


5. This guy stood by me. And he made some mistakes. No one is perfect. I should let go. (Remember that she is alone in the house with the only guy she thinks cares for him)


6. Yes, I should demand to leave. But if I do I will have to pay these guys 2 crore rupees. I cannot afford that. (Well 2 crore is a huge amount for tv actors too).


7. And while I am here, I will let things be and not make everything way more uncomfortable than it already is. I will not lose the only comfort I have in this house. I will not let the channel use my relationship and its status as a free for all drama. Why are not people ready to give me, give us some time here! Why are they so eager for a national break up! Why cant they let me be!


And above all. Kets do not forget somethings guys. All families aren't about love. There are some families, even own parents, and siblings who are toxic. Yes, one may love their family, but it sine necessary that they will like them, that all will be well amongst them!


Why should Rashmi leave, she is earning money here right!


Why should she create a scene for all here? It's her life!


What can we do as viewers? We all, as our human nature is, can sit back with popcorn and beers and enjoy the drama and all that is going with it! LAugh at it, cringe at it, squirm in our seats, and mock them and their decisions. While we do that, let's keep some respect for parties involved here in some corner of our minds...


Cheers

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Posted: 6 years ago
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7th point, perfect for this situation. dont give them (makers) what they want to satisfy their TRP bhuk. keep calm and play along. make some money and come out of the show. then fix your real life issues 👍🏼

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Posted: 6 years ago
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8. I joined this BB, when bb agreed for arhan entry also. And I asked for a big sum, and minimum two month stay. I didn't do much I was sure that my serial audience will like me. But I got evicted.

Then to come back I only promised that I will give more crazy drama if they bring Arhaan back again.

So here I am.

I know Arhaan look bad on TV. But in my bankruptcy cases I also did a lot of jhol maal. He was there to hide my money in his shady business. He really helped me. Arhan and I are same type but audience doesn't know it.

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Hmm devil's advocate. Devil and devil.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Unsila

8. I joined this BB, when bb agreed for arhan entry also. And I asked for a big sum, and minimum two month stay. I didn't do much I was sure that my serial audience will like me. But I got evicted.

Then to come back I only promised that I will give more crazy drama if they bring Arhaan back again.

So here I am.

I know Arhaan look bad on TV. But in my bankruptcy cases I also did a lot of jhol maal. He was there to hide my money in his shady business. He really helped me. Arhan and I are same type but audience doesn't know it.

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Hmm devil's advocate. Devil and devil.



A fair point!

We dont know whats happening, whats the reality. We know what's being shown!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: hasini009

7th point, perfect for this situation. dont give them (makers) what they want to satisfy their TRP bhuk. keep calm and play along. make some money and come out of the show. then fix your real life issues 👍🏼


Kudos to Rashmi for handling this so well.

It takes great strength to not jump to conclusions, keep restraint and think through it all, all this while being a spectacle on National TV, yet when it is all about her own personal life! 👏

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Posted: 6 years ago
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7th point...i like how she is handling this whole thing 👍🏼

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I will go with 7th point. Till now she donot know the complete truth. She is confused. She didnot jump to conclusion because she loved and trusted Arhaan to core.

She said why everyone saying such things what exactly happening outside... She didn't care for anyone words but when her brother came and told her, it came as a shock to her.

As far as i have seen her she wonot create any drama

I just wish she maintains some distance from Arhaan (not saying not to talk with him) and take whatever life decisions after going out of BB.

Life is going to be tough for her once she comes out of BB. Till now everything what rumours came turned as true. It means Arhaan has access to her bank accounts too. I just wish Rashmi stops this emotional blind trust on Arhaan and freeze her accounts immediately and revoke power of attorney. Because if arhaan goes out of BB before Rashmi, he can do anything with her money and property...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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If in her shoes sau baat ki ek baat. I would do one thing. I would tell arhaan let’s give each other space in the house and put things on hold. We can see how things are outside when we can have conversations freely without national scrutiny. I will tell him straight up that we can continue to be cordial and friendly till in the house but not a couple till there’s some clarity. So not really a breakup but on a break/it’s complicated kindda situaton (this will give him some room to save face since he is not really being dumped on tv)

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think it's 7th point...looks like that's where she is right now.

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