Groupism in big boss - Page 2

I know my OPINION is going to be an unpopular one but I'm going to say it anyways.

Himanshi and Shefali J did push Asim to be against Sidharth. I'm not saying Sidharth didn't make mistakes but they pushed Asim and gave him a false sense of confidence when they told him something like he's leader of their group, etc etc. They made Asim feel like he could create his own group without Sidharth, but the problem is whenever Asim has tried to lead this group, they didn't really listen to him.

Like captaincy task, what happened to sticking to Asim? Why did Himanshi and Shefali J vote for Sidharth? It doesn't matter if Sid was going to win with all the votes. What matters is you stand for the person you stand for regardless of whether anyone is standing or not. Asim stood by Himanshi's captaincy and did all the work, but when it came to giving him a vote, she didn't give it to him, but kept saying nice words to him as if that mattered.

Originally posted by: Rahm

I know my OPINION is going to be an unpopular one but I'm going to say it anyways.

Himanshi and Shefali J did push Asim to be against Sidharth. I'm not saying Sidharth didn't make mistakes but they pushed Asim and gave him a false sense of confidence when they told him something like he's leader of their group, etc etc. They made Asim feel like he could create his own group without Sidharth, but the problem is whenever Asim has tried to lead this group, they didn't really listen to him.

Like captaincy task, what happened to sticking to Asim? Why did Himanshi and Shefali J vote for Sidharth? It doesn't matter if Sid was going to win with all the votes. What matters is you stand for the person you stand for regardless of whether anyone is standing or not. Asim stood by Himanshi's captaincy and did all the work, but when it came to giving him a vote, she didn't give it to him, but kept saying nice words to him as if that mattered.

I actually don’t disagree. Even when the Sid sim things were happening, I always felt there were misunderstandings between them( Sid and Asim) but were increased by the involvement of Shefali and Himanshi on Asim’s side and Sana on sids side.

Anyway I’m happy That Asim is now aware he doesn’t have any real friends in the house. He needed to learn it the hard way I guess. But theek hai.

Originally posted by: DoremonLove

Lol asim himself was screming at shefali dat he doesmt trust her so shuldnt expect anything thn.

Task ke time pe he made it a point to highlight since u r my "FRIEND" (yes i don't trust u since day 1 n u r a rat but still lol) i will give u falaana item @ falana price...gud Shefali didn't fall for it n ek aur baar rat ko nigal gayi lol..mujhe farak nahi padta hai haar jeet se but after losing d task he was behaving like a sore loser....Big Boss ye sab ke liye hoga na luxury budget items but when announced ki not for him toh waise bhi mein nahi khata luxury budget ka kuch kabhi🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

I actually don’t disagree. Even when the Sid sim things were happening, I always felt there were misunderstandings between them( Sid and Asim) but were increased by the involvement of Shefali and Himanshi on Asim’s side and Sana on sids side.

Anyway I’m happy That Asim is now aware he doesn’t have any real friends in the house. He needed to learn it the hard way I guess. But theek hai.

But Asim himself says he doesn't trust Shefali from day one but then expects her friendship? It makes zero sense. He can't expect loyalty from someone who he says he doesn't even trust.

Originally posted by: Rahm

I know my OPINION is going to be an unpopular one but I'm going to say it anyways.

Himanshi and Shefali J did push Asim to be against Sidharth. I'm not saying Sidharth didn't make mistakes but they pushed Asim and gave him a false sense of confidence when they told him something like he's leader of their group, etc etc. They made Asim feel like he could create his own group without Sidharth, but the problem is whenever Asim has tried to lead this group, they didn't really listen to him.

Like captaincy task, what happened to sticking to Asim? Why did Himanshi and Shefali J vote for Sidharth? It doesn't matter if Sid was going to win with all the votes. What matters is you stand for the person you stand for regardless of whether anyone is standing or not. Asim stood by Himanshi's captaincy and did all the work, but when it came to giving him a vote, she didn't give it to him, but kept saying nice words to him as if that mattered.

Agreed. Even himanshi is diplomatic in these matters. She knew by taking panga with sid she's taken panga with sallu . Hence, she and shefali tried clearing things out with sid where again himanshi was proven wrong. Then in the BB k sitaare task she tore Asim's picture and in horn blow krne wala task in which she said to asim to not flirt with her. In every weekend ka task and even otherwise , himanshi took a much safer side by always naming asim so she doesn't get in anyone's bad books and then she said she tried convincing asim to not go against sid whereas she wasn't even remotely involved in it. Though I disagree that she was the reason for breaking sid and asim's frndship but she unknowingly did make it happen.

Originally posted by: Rahm

I know my OPINION is going to be an unpopular one but I'm going to say it anyways.

Himanshi and Shefali J did push Asim to be against Sidharth. I'm not saying Sidharth didn't make mistakes but they pushed Asim and gave him a false sense of confidence when they told him something like he's leader of their group, etc etc. They made Asim feel like he could create his own group without Sidharth, but the problem is whenever Asim has tried to lead this group, they didn't really listen to him.

Like captaincy task, what happened to sticking to Asim? Why did Himanshi and Shefali J vote for Sidharth? It doesn't matter if Sid was going to win with all the votes. What matters is you stand for the person you stand for regardless of whether anyone is standing or not. Asim stood by Himanshi's captaincy and did all the work, but when it came to giving him a vote, she didn't give it to him, but kept saying nice words to him as if that mattered.

In the captaincy task both Shefali and Himanshi voted for Shukla because of Salman Khan. He made sure that they realized it was their greatest mistake in their lives that they chose someone else other than Shukla. Even though every sanchalak was biased towards his own team only Shefali was blamed. Himanshi was humiliated. None of the HMs were punished for not listening to the captain. This is the exact reason why I hate Salman Khan as the host because he changes the dynamics of the game and everyone plays fake so as not to get into the bad books of him.

Originally posted by: Rahm

But Asim himself says he doesn't trust Shefali from day one but then expects her friendship? It makes zero sense. He can't expect loyalty from someone who he says he doesn't even trust.

Well honestly he’s been with her mainly for Himanshi, Shefali was himanshis priority- and Asim for whatever it was whipped with Himanshi and would do anything for her. So sometimes you can be friends with someone in a game like BB despite not trusting them.

Also yeah don’t know why he expected any loyalty from Shefali at all, she didn’t vote for him after the college task( voted for Sid), Vishal was her first preference in the letter task before Asim. So yeah! His fault for expecting loyalty!

who is fault mr Asim that no one is sencier in your group i wonder who are they following on.

Originally posted by: Devil1234

If HImanshi and Shefali pushed Asim to go against Shukla then I am happy that they did. Because staying with Shukla was detrimental for his growth. As soon as he was out of the group we have seen a new Asim. Confident, fearless, courageous, etc. No one can call him a chela now and that's what he was looking like before. Not that he was but Shukla's attitude was like that. My way or the highway and any respect that Asim was giving him was looking like a chela waala attitude.

In the captaincy task both Shefali and Himanshi voted for Shukla because of Salman Khan. He made sure that they realized it was their greatest mistake in their lives that they chose someone else other than Shukla. Even though every sanchalak was biased towards his own team only Shefali was blamed. Himanshi was humiliated. None of the HMs were punished for not listening to the captain. This is the exact reason why I hate Salman Khan as the host because he changes the dynamics of the game and everyone plays fake so as not to get into the bad books of him.

I agree with you on this partly but i think both zariwala and himanshi have been very diplomatic from day 1 which isn't good. First of all, himanshi shouldn't have cleared things with sid by putting the blame on devo, that plan backfired. You can't be in everyone's good books , for once you have to take a stand for the other group member. Second of all, when bhau was convincing himanshi to not get close to asim, she didn't take a stand for herself and instead told this to shefali, she should've taken one side as you can't keep everyone happy everytime. Thirdly, in BB ke sitare task she tore asim' s pic because he was a frnd and an easy target , she didn't want to look bad by taking anyone's name so she instead agreed for her frnds' name.

Originally posted by: lifeiscool

I agree with you on this partly but i think both zariwala and himanshi have been very diplomatic from day 1 which isn't good. First of all, himanshi shouldn't have cleared things with sid by putting the blame on devo, that plan backfired. You can't be in everyone's good books , for once you have to take a stand for the other group member. Second of all, when bhau was convincing himanshi to not get close to asim, she didn't take a stand for herself and instead told this to shefali, she should've taken one side as you can't keep everyone happy everytime. Thirdly, in BB ke sitare task she tore asim' s pic because he was a frnd and an easy target , she didn't want to look bad by taking anyone's name so she instead agreed for her frnds' name.