What's with the hate? Lost in translation?

I have a question that I would like for this forum to answer without bashing anyone. So if you don't have anything nice to say and can't put across your point nicely, please stay out of this coz the only reason I post this here is to genuinely understand different perspectives.

So, yeah. We already know that Sana is absolutely adored outside of this forum. Normal TV viewing audience, the ones not on social media are rooting for her to be one of the top 3 contenders.

So the question arises, why does she get so much hate here and why exactly do people find her fake?

I have a theory. Please feel free to agree or disagree and tell me what you think. I'm genuinely looking for an answer here and I have read enough of the 'she's vile' comments so please, do better if you disagree.

I feel people here hate Sana simply because they don't understand her and that is because most of what she says and the way she behaves is lost in translation.

This is something that I have noticed with both SidNaaz supporters and SidNaaz/Sana haters. The only people who seem to get her completely are people who are genuine Sana supporters and I believe a lot of them are North Indians and yes, it does seem to have a bit to do with where and how you're raised.

From what I see, Sana is as real as real gets. She says it like it is. She means what she says and does at that point in time and if she 'flips' that's very real to me too because that is literally how she is. That to me, doesn't make her a bad person at all. Just someone who is hard to read and unpredictable.

She has her negatives of course but who doesn't?

She comes from a small village in Punjab. The family dynamics and family structure there is very different from how it is in urban setups. They believe in communities and because of the kind of upbringing kids there get, they learn to deal with all kinds of people and know exactly how to deal with certain situations and also how to get things done. They're a lot more street smart than any kid living in the city will be.

Almost everything she stands for, the way she is, is actually considered a huge plus in most Punjabi families, if not all families in general. You have a huge fight with someone, you call each other names and you forget it within the hour. I have seen that happen soo much lol. In fact, I was actually compared to my cousins who were like that and was told that I needed to inculcate that quality and how it was such a waste for me to have been raised in a joint family set up when I can't even let go of an argument/fight. ( This was only as a kid though, now I too know better lol)

Have you noticed how her humour is a lot like that of Kapil Sharma and a lot of punjabi comedians? Because that's how they joke around with each other, age no bar, sex no bar. Just because it isn't your brand of humour, doesn't make it bad or less funny.

I agree she goes over board some times but she's also quick to realise it. She may or may not apologise and that to me is fine too because that's how normal people are.

Also, if you go to any 'pind' in Punjab, this is legit how they are, underneath all their 'duniya daari' and 'log kya kahenge' and other society-friendly layers that some people would wear to please you.

Honestly, to me, calling her fake is like calling an entire region of India fake who relate to her and who she represents.

I feel the people who love her, either love her because they see a part of them in her, or they wish they had the guts to be as real as her and love her courage. And the people who hate her, hate her from pretty much the same reasons.

Well there are enough people who liked Himanshi Khurana who too is from the same place as Shehnaz Gill.

If people are put off by Shehnaz and Sidnaz they have good enough reasons

There are good number of people who liked/like Asim Himanshi bonding too.

It all depends on individual sensibilities and what appeals to one's senses

Hate is too big a word. I cannot hate someone whom I don't even know in real life.

But yes, i definitely don't like Shehnaz and I do kind of find her fake.

Reason -

Sana to bhau - "mujhe Aunty mt bulao achha nhi lgta."

Then Sana to Vishal - "maasi maasi"

That's entertainment for her. But when the same thing is done to her, she gets offended.

Next example, during Paras eviction,

Sana to Asim - "I love Paras"😭

Sana to Vikas Gupta - "Paras ko love you sach ka tode hi bola, bs camera ke liye bol rhi thi"

That's why she is called

#Fakenaaz on twitter.

I have so many more examples to give, for example her behaviour in weekdays vs weekend.

It's all on one's perception and sensibilities. Also not only for Sana, it applies to every HM, that they r moulded by the environment they are coming from and ppl relate to HMs accordingly.

As for Sana being called fake, like the TM said that really is how she is, so one can't say she's faking it. But the point being that she behaves all innocent and naive and scatterbrain during the WKWs in front of salman and with the HMs she's being mean and mocking them and that is why I guess ppl call her fake.

People who love her won't love her if she does to them what she normally does to people !!

Like it is said other people's misery is someone's entertainment !

Sana doesn't like anyone calling her aunty but she calls Vishal maasi all the time !

Her jokes demean the other person, its plain bad.

Like how she was annoying vishal saying maas.she conveniently uses rashmi for all her needs and then makes fun of her. That's really bad.

She might be real, that realness is what is being disliked.

I don't hate her, hate is an extreme emotion. You like a contestant and you don't like a contestant. I don't support bashing, but I support healthy criticism. Just like in a movie or TV series, you dislike a character, you like a character, it depends on different perspectives and opinions. She is playing game and nothing is bad in this, people call her fake and there is reason behind it. Khesari in big buzz mentioned that he likes Sana as person and he will meet her outside the show, she is funny and she wants fun. But when he was asked that who lies the most inside the house, he again took Sana's name. Despite being her friend, he accepted that she lies. Abu Malik too mentioned that she is faking and that's her game. I respect your opinion, no one should be hated inside the house. It's just a show and it's not easy to be in a house surrounded by cameras all the time. Also, sometimes, she irritates people on the pretext of entertainment, that's her problem. She isn't scolded on weekends while others are badly scolded. She has flaws but her flaws aren't being noticed by the host while others flaws are noticed.

Vishal had no issues with being called maasi before yesterday.

Sana said she doesn't like being called aunty immediately 🤷🏻‍♀️

If people don't like her it's not because of where she comes. She is a good player no doubt in it. Isi ki chakkar mein she comes out fake and egoistic. She can insult and poke people for entertainment but others can't. If you can't take it then don't do it. Initially even I liked her cuteness but I don't anymore because of how badly she behaves.

Originally posted by: Bee93

I have a question that I would like for this forum to answer without bashing anyone.

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I feel the people who love her, either love her because they see a part of them in her, or they wish they had the guts to be as real as her and love her courage. And the people who hate her, hate her from pretty much the same reasons.

I have felt totally the opposite. In fact I have noticed people from Punjab are the ones who don't like (or even hate) Shehnaaz and people who are not from Punjab (and were unfamiliar with her before BB) are the ones who like Shehnaaz. That's the trend I have seen on social media.

I mean no one has the exact numbers or stats, but at least that's what my observation has been throughout this season.