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Originally posted by: Mimzy

To me it looks like they are serving their sentence......

1.Mishti is paying for trusting Meenu blindly and not disclosing everything to Abir beforehand. She trusts him but when it comes to herself her perception is distorted...she doen't believe she deserves any love...her biggest fear was Abir leaving her and it came true!!! Can't expect her insecurities to vanish in thin air... .it will take time and maturity from both sides for the trust to come!!

2. Abir's overprotectiveness is costing him his happiness. If he wants Mishti back in his life then he has to tone down his Naanko jaap and treat him like an adult. Otherwise its better they are separated. This also, we cant completely expect Abir to give up on Naanko as it will take time and self realization from Nanko's side for anything to happen!! But if he expects mishti to be in his life then he should be ready to take some hard decisions!!!

well well said mini... 👏👏 i agree to both.... both needs this reality check and correcting both can only serve the purpose of giving themselves a second chance.. and main flaw in both they should stop meddling with others life and let them handle their own problem they can only support them but cant take decision for them... lets see if this time both come together correcting atleast half of their mistake...

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Cool🤗🤗U put everything perfectly🤗

My post in LU thread!!!

Abir was put on a spot and he reacted impulsively...to protect his brother...that much I can understand

But after that I am not able to relate to him....because it is not the same Abir we have seen from the beginning.....

He is giving up on mishti

He is giving up on himself

He is doing nothing for the past 2 mnths ...Cmon the Abir we know would have worked something out...would have fought.....

Exactly, he understood Mishti before but now he is believing she moved on!!! Likewise, Mishti is also confirming her doubts on whether he loves her or not!!

I dnt blame him nor Mishti for having doubt on their feelings for each other....because you will have a good perception of the other person's feelings when everything is going smooth, but since they are both in pain their doubt on each other's feelings is natural.

Look at the situation......

Abir himself told Mishti he doesnt love her.....so she wanted to confirm whether he is telling the truth. She needed that to assure herself that she is not fighting for a lost cause.

From Abir's pov....he broke up with her very brutally.....told her he didn't love her, accused of her many things, said he didn't trust her, he wanted her to move on......so its natural for him to assume she moved on especially when the guy himself in question has told him she is his gf.

We are being harsh on both of them regarding their understanding factor......they are human beings with flaws....I am sure they will find a way.......unless both of them give up!!

Very Well Explained mini.. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Cool🤗🤗U put everything perfectly🤗

My post in LU thread!!!

Abir was put on a spot and he reacted impulsively...to protect his brother...that much I can understand

But after that I am not able to relate to him....because it is not the same Abir we have seen from the beginning.....

He is giving up on mishti

He is giving up on himself

He is doing nothing for the past 2 mnths ...Cmon the Abir we know would have worked something out...would have fought.....

Exactly, he understood Mishti before but now he is believing she moved on!!! Likewise, Mishti is also confirming her doubts on whether he loves her or not!!

I dnt blame him nor Mishti for having doubt on their feelings for each other....because you will have a good perception of the other person's feelings when everything is going smooth, but since they are both in pain their doubt on each other's feelings is natural.

Look at the situation......

Abir himself told Mishti he doesnt love her.....so she wanted to confirm whether he is telling the truth. She needed that to assure herself that she is not fighting for a lost cause.

From Abir's pov....he broke up with her very brutally.....told her he didn't love her, accused of her many things, said he didn't trust her, he wanted her to move on......so its natural for him to assume she moved on especially when the guy himself in question has told him she is his gf.

We are being harsh on both of them regarding their understanding factor......they are human beings with flaws....I am sure they will find a way.......unless both of them give up!!

Yaara🤗🤗...

Exactly... My point...😊..

If Mishti is being a fool trying to test her love.... Abhir is bigger fool to think Mishti had moved on.. Both need a solid reality check...n this seperation is really good in a way... Coz though MishBir had trust, though they had love the most most important thing they dint have was communication

Now if what Abhir did then can be wrong... Mishti also is somewhere wrong

But if we can consider what Abhir did with her was an impulsive nmajboori... What Mishti is doing now to get her love back can no where be wrong😳

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Are are.. Meri light.. Tu cool hoja......

See from where I see

1. Mishti learnt the hard way to trust.... Same was with Abhir.....

2. The only reason why mishti trusted Meenu is because see had seen the horrendous face of Mehul, n knew Meenu was trying to protect Abhir from this demon. But that time she dint realise she was trading one demon with the other.....

3. Abhir trusted her completely blindly.. Agree....

But the way he broke up, sitting every door she was trying to open what could Mishti do?.... She trusted him hence went back even when he tore the wedding card.. When he told her in fount of all that YOU LIED YOU BETRAYED......

4. Mishti was angry on him in few occasions but never insulted him in front of his family, or her family... Never looked deep into his eyes and said JUST GET OUT OF MY LIFE I DON'T LOVE YOU... Dint physically manhandle him just to make sure he goes.. Yes she was a little rude in couple of occasions.. But not like how Abhir did....

5. She trusts him, but the way he broke up she was way too shattered...... She did come and say I know you love me.. You dint mean what you said.. but than when he held her tight and looked into her eyes n proclaimed I DON'T LOVE YOU. YOUR NOBODY....
.What ever it is any self respecting girl would have got crushed with the way he behaved......

She's a girl who was shunned by her own parents..... Adopted by another family but unfortunately there to many times she was made to feel n outsider............

Yes what mishti is doing is not what we expected....... But even after she left for London she knew Abhir dint even try to enquire how she was.... Did he...... Then how can she be sure what's going on... How will her blind love matter when Abhir killed the love cold bloodedly ..... She just needed an assurance that he still loves her n she got to know it through her way today

Abhir also wished she gets a better man than him.... Really...... So now when she's kinda showing him She's moved on he's getting effected........

She never disrespected or humiliated Abhir the way he did...... Neither she stopped loving him....

When he can put all kinds shades n mask for so called Nanko why can't she put a smiling face to get him back......

She did tell nanu that when she saw Abhir after a long time.. He dint show much expressions n hence her heart broke thinking he really forgot her... Dint love her anymore

Yaar after whatever he did.. He dint even call her not did she get any hint of him even enquiring about her..... She was in pain n in that when her bade Papa asked her to go to London.. She did... dint Abhir listen to his mom n select naanko... Than I don't think mishti did anything wrong by listning to bade Papa....

Over all if mishti is wrong in not understanding.. Abhir is even more wrong in giving up on things so easily n just sulking

Atleast Mishti kuch tho try karrahi hai

For me both Abhir n Mishti are fool's to just keep saying family family always... Bass

1. If she had so much insecurities, vulnerabilities, sensibilities blah blah blah ....how come she easily got convinced with just a "nankooooooooo" ??? Basi aasani se vapas vishvas kar liya yaar .. 👏 .... this one conclusion makes fun of her own sensitivities ... because she gets easily convinced also . .. Execution ne satyanash kar diya ...bas " nankooooo" bolne se prove ho gaya ke abir loves her ?

2. Instead of testing that abir loves her had she used her brain to analyse why abir said those things to her that day , and did some jaasusi there , that would have been much better track 😒 Dont you think ?

3 you are saying since meenu was an option to mehul , trusting meenu was logical....

Okay so

Monster meenu > bhola baba but

Angel abir < monster meenu

Wonderful logics by mishti 👏👏👏👏

4. 1000 lies , hiding things , conveniently pointing others mistakes but not accepting yours , forget accepting not even realising , these aren't normal things haan .... the latest is testing someone, willingly making him go through pain so that you can get an assurance that he loves you ? These aren't normal things according to me 👎🏼 This is spiteful to be Frank.

5. If she wanted to confirm , he could have asked kuhu...she was staying in the same house naa , also kuhu mishti share good relation now , if she really understands abir...just description of abir would have given her a confirmation that he still loves her, if she can get easily convinced by a just *nankooooo* she would have easily got convinced...

The intention may be right but her actions and reactions are shameful

It irritates me to see one my fav char , the one for which I actually started watching the show is being reduced to this nonsense

And it irritates me more to see people justifying it , calling it Love 😳

Mishti is way better than all this cool 😭 She was stronger than this !!

Just the thought that someone is trying to test me j, making me go through the worst pain of my life just so that he can get an assurance that I still love him is cringe worthy 🥱 ... real life mein hota...toh vo insaan mere haath se jhappad kha chuka hota ....

well well said mini... 👏👏 i agree to both.... both needs this reality check and correcting both can only serve the purpose of giving themselves a second chance.. and main flaw in both they should stop meddling with others life and let them handle their own problem they can only support them but cant take decision for them... lets see if this time both come together correcting atleast half of their mistake...

[Mini, Anu and diyu you guys are amazing🤗

finally positivity dhoond liya👍🏼

I hope this time makers make them as a team

Originally posted by: Onyourface

1. If she had so much insecurities, vulnerabilities, sensibilities blah blah blah ....how come she easily got convinced with just a "nankooooooooo" ??? Basi aasani se vapas vishvas kar liya yaar .. 👏 .... this one conclusion makes fun of her own sensitivities ... because she gets easily convinced also . .. Execution ne satyanash kar diya ...bas " nankooooo" bolne se prove ho gaya ke abir loves her ?

2. Instead of testing that abir loves her had she used her brain to analyse why abir said those things to her that day , and did some jaasusi there , that would have been much better track 😒 Dont you think ?

3 you are saying since meenu was an option to mehul , trusting meenu was logical....

Okay so

Monster meenu > bhola baba but

Angel abir < monster meenu

Wonderful logics by mishti 👏👏👏👏

4. 1000 lies , hiding things , conveniently pointing others mistakes but not accepting yours , forget accepting not even realising , these aren't normal things haan .... the latest is testing someone, willingly making him go through pain so that you can get an assurance that he loves you ? These aren't normal things according to me 👎🏼 This is spiteful to be Frank.

5. If she wanted to confirm , he could have asked kuhu...she was staying in the same house naa , also kuhu mishti share good relation now , if she really understands abir...just description of abir would have given her a confirmation that he still loves her, if she can get easily convinced by a just *nankooooo* she would have easily got convinced...

The intention may be right but her actions and reactions are shameful

It irritates me to see one my fav char , the one for which I actually started watching the show is being reduced to this nonsense

And it irritates me more to see people justifying it , calling it Love 😳

Mishti is way better than all this cool 😭 She was stronger than this !!

accept everything you said Uru... but i've made peace with this as her flaw... see mishti is more practical and needs proof n on face assurance to her she cant get the complicated behavior of abir... she didnt accept bp/bm love even after 10 yrs of love from them so we cant expect her to love n trust abir so soon...

dont include meenu in all this bcoz not now she has been trusting meenu since mishkun gordhana time... except for this i can understand mishti... but yes she cant be justified for testing his love but terming it as her trust issue...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

haha 🤗🤗 yaar i'm not the only light you guys are my savior always there to support... and you specially always trying to fool around during our morning live session 😆 today too maybe we should've done that rather than deep discussion... we will adopt that from tomorrow ok 😆🤗

usually i dont burst out and try to find something positive to balance both of them but dont know after leap i lost it maybe the change is getting to me... 😆

very true we have high expectation n bars were so high for both and now seeing them reacting on their flaws we are not able to take it...

@bold - word Mini well said.. 👏👏

We have till now survived the following specimens post leap

50 shades of Abir

Mishti 2.0

Mish Nish attack

OTT Hyper RV family

Somebody should give us an award

I think we should try to take the episodes lightly.......maybe give it some time and see if they will salvage our 1.0s🤗🤗

Till then hold on tight light#!!🤗

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Mini, Anu and diyu you guys are amazing

finally positivity dhoond liya

I hope this time makers make them as a team

yaar geethu 🤗

i'm just making peace with everything... it has gone beyond understanding so trying to sum it up as their flaw...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

accept everything you said Uru... but i've made peace with this as her flaw... see mishti is more practical and needs proof n on face assurance to her she cant get the complicated behavior of abir... she didnt accept bp/bm love even after 10 yrs of love from them so we cant expect her to love n trust abir so soon...

dont include meenu in all this bcoz not now she has been trusting meenu since mishkun gordhana time... except for this i can understand mishti... but yes she cant be justified for testing his love but terming it as her trust issue...

Abir has always supported her , always even without her asking for and she still doesn't trust him enough

" mujhe khud se zyada tum pe vishvas hai abir " toh yeh line bas kehne ke liye thi . She actually doesn't believe in that ??

I am not bringing meenu thing , cool has mentioned meenu's thing in the post so I replied on that ..

Trust issue , which conveniently comes and conveniently goes

Sorry for being rude but this is stupidity at it's best ...

Originally posted by: Mimzy

🤗Leap is getting to everyone especially when they are dragging it and showing everything except the mishbir equation.

We have till now survived the following specimens post leap

50 shades of Abir

Mishti 2.0

Mish Nish attack

OTT Hyper RV family

Somebody should give us an award

I think we should try to take the episodes lightly.......maybe give it some time and see if they will salvage our 1.0s🤗🤗

Till then hold on tight light#!!🤗

haha very true everything is so messed up and we can take it scene by scene only rather than a story 😆

ohhh welll pointed dear we surely need an award for putting up with all this 😆🤗

holding on mini 🤗🤗 just little more then we will be getting good days 🤗