They older Sippys are used to brush the problem under the carpet that’s why they never faced emergencies but now since the kids are growing and new members are coming to the family who are used to talk about issues, the elders are facing these situations
It looks like they have never faced any actual problems ... Dunno .actually in every family there is one person atleast who doesn't panic but thinks things out and that is not a god gift or they are just like taht it just happens that family dynamics change a person to become like that