Bigg Boss 13: Daily Discussion Thread- 25-11-2019 - Page 84

Originally posted by: Phenomenal_One

dost ne bola help kardo kardi 😆 n that freind was pallav_

😆 Oh so she is a shipper. Lol

Originally posted by: peeyara

I feel Aarti is too sentimental and emotional!

Vishal have kept insulting her ever since he came but when same vishal was crying over kesari elimination, it was Aarti who consoled him!

She is soft at heart! Her loyalty towards shukla is 100%. Everybody thinks its one-sided love.........shayad hoga but I dont get that vibe! Its more like shukla have helped her since week 1 of show and she feels obliged to be loyal to him!

Shukla dont have any emotions......saare emotions aur saari pampering sirf sana ke liye hai!

When you know someone have stood behind you in every positive n negative, least you cud do is try n make that person smile even if that person means nothing to you!

Originally posted by: Rukhi

😆 Oh so she is a shipper. Lol

waise nachi ko chinga bhai ke help lene chiayeh but dar huga ussy kha jaege saana ko wo 🤣

Just cos this guy doesnt cry doesnt mean he doesntt have emotions. Yest talk with Asim reg him as a chota bro. Tujhe chota bhai dekhta tha Mere ghar mein mein chota tha. Sabse cheezien lets tha jyaada. Teri harkotien mein mujhe apan bachpon dikhta tha. It was an eye opener. Unfortunately very few will see it as henwas not OTT or crying. Sid never does that.

Sid has never stopped aarti for playing his game. In one Wkw ,he was saying its good aarti is playing independently. He doesnt have any issue wo kiske saath baat kare ,kyaa kare.

How I wish sometimes tha shukla gulaati hota . Wo bhi ro deta to usko bhi mast sympathy milti.

Not saying Aarti ke emotions genuine nahi hai, but its not sid's fault. Sid never asked you to make him centre of attention.

I know sid will get bashed kyunki problem ye hai audiences ko abhi bhi OTT emotions jyaada dikhte hai aur real, subtle nahi.

Originally posted by: ..WitchGrave..

Genuinely some people's biasedness here shocks me to core !

nothing new I guess!

Fav kare toh thik aur dusre na bhi kare toh bla.e 🥱

Even Shehnaaz had got panic attack on Himanshi's entry. But people made fun of her and distributed gifs of her crying.

Just Saying.

Originally posted by: annihilation

Genuinely felt bad for Aarti today. Her depression and anxiety attack episodes are kicking in again. Liked the way Shefali, Himanshi and Asim comforted her. What a total ass Shukla is though, absolutely showing no compassion or empathy when she clearly was in need of it.

Not that any further confirmation is needed on just how much of an ass he is. But man - matlab kabhi toh dost thi na tumhaari Aarti. Phir bhi itni insensitivity? But any positivity he shows his friends has to be on his terms. They ever call him out on anything negative - Aarti ho chahe Asim - toh khul jaati hain rudeness ki tap. He doesn’t have the capacity to accept he can ever make mistakes/be wrong.

Originally posted by: Rukhi

She just came out of deep depression. BB isnt a place to experiment IMO. It can be fatal. In the show they will do whatever it takes to win and go ahead in the game. Friendships are all fake. So is loyalty. Plus falling in love is not so fun. She has fallen in love with Sid. While he is just playing the game.

She should have done a dance show. Even there they give positive and negative opinions.

Have you ever wondered why Salman never questions her or pulls her up for her game ???

He probably knows her situation from Krushna !!

I agree and honestly I felt so so bad for her but her reaction was not proportional to the insult. She has invested a lot in Shukla and though personally I felt he was heartless, it is honestly in her best interests not to be friends with him or leave the show.

Sana has gone through shit herself so she could have reacted in a compassionate way instead of saying ‘is she your Masi’s daughter’ - keeping personal grudges aside a person is having a full blown anxiety attack and I know friends who have gone through it and have described it similar to gasping for air.

If things go overboard, mental health is more important than proving any point to anyone.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Just cos this guy doesnt cry doesnt mean he doesntt have emotions. Yest talk with Asim reg him as a chota bro. Tujhe chota bhai dekhta tha Mere ghar mein mein chota tha. Sabse cheezien lets tha jyaada. Teri harkotien mein mujhe apan bachpon dikhta tha. It was an eye opener. Unfortunately very few will see it as henwas not OTT or crying. Sid never does that.

Sid has never stopped aarti for playing his game. In one Wkw ,he was saying its good aarti is playing independently. He doesnt have any issue wo kiske saath baat kare ,kyaa kare.

How I wish sometimes tha shukla gulaati hota . Wo bhi to deta tonusko bhi mast sympathy milti.

Not saying Aarti ke emotions genuine nahi hai, but its not sid's fault. Sid never asked you to make him centre of attention.

I know sid will get bashed kyunki problem ye hai audiences ko abhi bhi OTT emotions jyaada dikhte hai aur real, subtle nahi.

Everyone will miss the point where he went twice to her! But he was blamed for her condition, so why would he go for 3rd time?

Originally posted by: Sumita18

I can understand but one sided affection is not good

I m not shukla fan ( when he is agreessive or horrible ) but it’s not fair on him to go with some one with that sort of feeling , these kind of relationship does not last n good shukla is not encouraging her

He told her go n play independently many times but she is not , ghum Phir ke shukla ke pass

Her family let her come in this show why ? , she us still very close to her ex Ayasz Khan n he wife so she knows the meaning of relationship

Depression n mental illness can damage people if she has this then why did she choose to come to this horrible show ?

I do not like Rashmi but she is emotionally weak too roti hai fir bsck to normal hone ke try karte hai she atkeast tries

So arti need to make new friends enjoy the moment bcs she plays very well outside shukla group

I understand what you're trying to say and I'd even agree with some points you made. I'm not holding BB responsible here because honestly, this season has been the epitome of unfairness and bias. Depression, anxiety and everything other mental health condition is far more complicated and complex in it's functioning and extremely case specific than we as humans can understand having little to no knowledge of the subject's case history. A person with such conditions can feel and seem completely alright and even pass all these health tests required for the show. Aarti's condition is more episodic and event-related than a prolonged event. I'm not saying Shukla should reciprocate her feelings, affection or love. He's entitled to be with anyone he wants to. My point is, regardless of whether or not how many times has he told her to play solo and cleared his stand on his feelings towards her, he could have chosen to be sensitive towards her today when she evidently was nearing her breakdown. That's a basic human courtesy I believe everyone should be capable of extending. Rashmi, Shefali, Bhau, Asim and Himashi, all of them dealt with it emphatically. I personally have never liked Aarti (most of the folks here know that, I think) but I'm only making an exception for her today because from what I saw, she wasn't faking the episode. She definitely needs to learn a few things if she wishes to survive in the show and pursue whatever she has with Shukla outside the house. Right now, she needs to break away and focus on her own journey.