ये रिश्ते हैं प्यार के Live Updates/Episode Discussions 25 Nov 2019 - Page 10

Originally posted by: Bujee09

I am so disconnected even after rewatching ...what is this?? Abir is inhuman is it he was never shown so strong ...now he is not even shedding a tear in private thinking about mishbir n his breakup ...this was same guy who ran away when he felt helpless about his baba right...and what is h I'm m all normal to big ben....am totally losing it at the writers...so insensitive...after all this we have all of them dancing with helly in 3 month leap kuhu kunal abir n probably mishti will join as well....

ramakrishna someone hold me ...my head is spinning why am I torturing myself like this.

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The most non sensical scene was abir taking blessings from Mom.....I mean really???There wasnt even an expression change!!

Originally posted by: SheThought

Mini, kya bolu ab?! I felt better on Friday than I do today!

I want to erase this episode from my mind and heart because it just has my blood boiling!!

This one failed to invoke any emotions other than boredom....😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

this totally this yaar.... just for leap they are showing all kinda nonsense without any sync or flow n totally disconnected scenes

Thats bit sad Diyu.. writers shouldnt have crushed original storyline. They butchered MishBir's original character for bringing leap.. it looks senseless now after hearing everything. I am excited for new track but now it feels before leap and after leap two different segments (even though after leap hasnt started.)😔

Originally posted by: CanadaMonsoon

ohhh .. I wont watch todays episode..writers are too busy writing new track after leap. issliye they didnt paid much attention .. thats too bad yaar

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

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yaar they are purposely showing abir like this... why like why yaar not even a single break down scene he is also a human not a robot.. just bcoz he can hide his pain doesnt mean he can be shown as some stone hearted person.. he is becoming the villain of his own love story..

i hope so too mini... now nannu entry is making me think again do we really need his entry..

Nannu is another thing that is gng to be added to this whole mess!!

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

thank you dear actually giving live update makes it easy for me to have less emotional connect with epi n my mood doesnt get spoiled early morning.. and today epi was not that much painful like past ones... it was so rushed n disconnected...

waiting for his taunt n cold shoulder to meenu yaar.. she deserves more..

yaar i so wanted to smash her when she said that with so much pride n confidence

@blue :- thats good then 👍🏼

yeah Meenu deserves more punishment.. ma ke naam pe kalank...😈 Hope in future track, we should see Abir behaving more bitterly with Meenu.. Or may be Meenu will still blackmail him for Kunal..

Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

Here is my take on this...

I think everyone in the RV parivar knows who lead Abir to break up with Mishti. They know that Bigben holds the reins to the house. However no one wants to address it possibly to not cause more hurt to Abir and also not to take on the head of the family.

Abirs true emotions have been hidden and I think that is to lead on to the numbness that he is going to show. There are people who deal with trauma by crying , screaming etc and then there are those who don’t cry, show emotion etc ( happens in real life too) and they try to numb themselves from the pain by not reacting because they know they cannot handle it.

Here Mishti is going to be able to move on in a way because she is processing the pain and sharing it. When pain cannot be shared with anyone like in Abirs case , it becomes trauma and Abir will not deal with it until Mishti is back and the pain comes back to haunt him when he sees her with someone.

That scene with BP and Abir was so critical because Abir says in that to not bring Mishti back here because if he sees her again and she asks him about his love, he will not be able to hold back...

I think this episode was rushed but I am happy in a way because I seriously could not go through more episodes of these two crying and Meenu floating in victory !

After reading your take.....I think you should have written the episode.....because the writers failed to convey this big time!!!

It was like watching some other show....some other ppl other than the mishbir we have come to know.....

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

even I am going to skip today's episode... 😒

yeah Gauri, better not to waste time for senseless episode.. Writers are not really consistent giving good track all time.

Mishti-BB confrontation

I felt it could have been better.., Wish they had given more forceful dialogues to Mishti to confront the monster!

Mishti tells BB that at this moment I feel I am lucky to not be your DIL, because if I was I would not have been able to tell you what I am about to tell you -- ummm Why? Why would you not have been able to tell your MIL if she was doing something wrong?! You don't hesitate to speak your mind ever - to anyone - so why make BB an exception?! This has been my frustration with Mishti for sometime now... she always gives too much importance to BB, even after all that she did! BB totally doesn't deserve the respect and importance that Mish gives her...

Mish tells BB that she went out of her way to expose Mehul because she wanted Abir to not lose his Ma who loves him so much.. BB then declares precisely that is the reason she doesn't want someone like Mish in her son's life!

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So now it's clear to Mish that BB manipulated Abir to breakup with her! Mish doesn't know that Abir had already figured out what all Mishti did, neither does she know the Kunal angle.

All she knows is:

- Meenu asked her to not tell Abir anything on GD day

- Abir praising his mother and giving her all the credit for baba-hatao mission at their lakeside date

- Abir not believing her even when she explained everything to him in front of the family during wedding card pooja

So Mishti is going to think BB manipulated Abir and he chose to believe his mother over her and did not trust her! So to her, Abir failed in his love, so she will move on from Abir on this basis...

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BB tells Mishti that she has come to do charity today because with Ambema's blessings her Mannat/wish got fulfilled and gives her the charity packet! Mishti asks her "you mean a mannat to remove me from Abir's life?"

The end dialogues were good where Mishti told her that she either doesn't trust her love for her sons or she doesn't trust their love for her! She told her that I accept your charity and will keep it close to me. You had kept a mannat, then make sure you remember it because in return you are not only going to lose one but both your sons!

And that's exactly what's going to happen! The day Kunal learns the entire truth behind Abir leaving Mishti, the family is all going to be on Abir's side! Abir had told BB the same thing too when she was asking him to leave Mishti in the temple!

So at the end, BB is going to be left alone... and most likely the two RV bahus will bring her back to the family... but till then we have to keep suffering!

Originally posted by: SheThought

The scene were two sisters were eating brownies and tried their best to smile but ended up crying at the end was the best scene of the episode! Rhea and Kaveri portrayed that very well!

BP-Abir confrontation

I loved what BP told Abir! He is such a great father and what he told Abir holds so true for anyone! Happiness should come from within, we should be responsible for our own happiness! Abir brought abundant joy and happiness in Mishti's life, she learnt to enjoy her life again, but now he is gone and she will have to learn to be happy again... BP told Abir that he is thankful to him because after what he did, the biggest take away for his daughter is to take charge of her happiness! And he is confident that she will eventually learn that she doesn't need anyone to be happy!

He told Abir he doesn't know what he has lost... Abir thinks "Sab Kuch! Mishti mera sab kuch hai"

It broke my heart to see Abir losing BP's respect! The one who was adored and cherished in Mishti's house for the character he had and the man he was is now looked upon with disgust! BB has reduced Abir to be this sorry figure in front of Mahs... and it is very painful to see!

I am not sure if Abir can ever regain Mah's trust and love...

And on the other hand Nannu will enjoy this supremacy over Abir in that household...

@bold - You just put it into words what was bothering me abt abir BP confrontation. Because of this I was not able to enjoy their scene!!!