A Lovers' Quarrel

So I wanted to understand Yogi's feelings this episode. After watching the episode again, I feel that Yogi's anger is based on not understanding Pari's feelings/closeness like why she has become so involved in his life and of course he learns why at the end of the episode.

Yogi not understanding why Pari would love him

So Yogi honestly didn't realise Pari was in love with him and theres an answer for that. Besides how many girls are queuing up for Yogi even with his ad out. So Its a real shock to Yogi that someone like Pari would fall for him when every other girl has turned him down especially Gunjan who is like him. So if someone (Gunjan) like him won't love him, what are the odds someone (Pari) who is different to him will. Even though he was picking up clues here and there that she loves him, we never see him draw a conclusion because he thinks its impossible for Pari to fall for someone like him as he considers himself imperfect as made clear by Shiv too. So hearing Pari tell him that she is in love with him completely contradicts his thoughts. Hence he never stops to think about his own feelings as what good is for him to hope when he feels he's imperfect and to make it worse his first encounter with love broke him into pieces. So why would he stop to think about his feelings when he feels Pari wouldn't love him.

Crossing the border from Friends to Lovers

So Yogi and Pari have gotten really close since they first met. They went from hating one another to becoming each others shoulder to cry on. To simply put it they became closer then besties.

Now between Friendship and Relationship there is this border. Pari crossed this border today when she confessed to Yogi. To Yogi however he think she stepped over the border with getting too involved in his life which to him tells him that Pari is in love with him which is absurd to him. Yet he doesn't know that she did so because she does actually love him. So when Yogi heard that the reason she was crossing the line was because she actually loved him it hits him like a train.

Now Yogi in upcoming weeks will have difficulty crossing the border to meet Pari in the middle. As he fears having his heart broken again. As Pari said in the precap: "Do you have a problem with me or love?" To answer this, its love he has a problem with. Not Pari as he can't blame her for falling for him.

Aftermath

Hence we are left with a Yogi who doesn't know what to think and how to feel (confusion) and of course he can't talk to Pari as she is the other half of this situation (awkwardness = avoiding).

Conclusion

Yogi wasn't completely angry at Pari. He was angry because he didsn't understand Pari's change of feelings towards him. Yet he was also angry at Pari for crossing the line because to him its absurd to believe Pari would love him because he thinks its impossible for someone as perfect as Pari to fall for him (He doesn't understand why she would cross the line of friendship to relationship FOR HIM as he isn't perfect himself).

Note: So Yogi is not as confident as he was at the beginning of IIM. I feel this insecurity is due to Gunjan and Shiv.

Final words

So His brain is telling him Pari wouldn't fall for you as you're imperfect yet his heart tells him she has fallen for you, all of you including your imperfections. Now for the future he must choose what to follow, his brain or his heart. But firstly he must overcome his fear of falling in love again.

I think this it it! It explains Yogi in todays episode. His anger was kinda directed at Pari but he was angry because he doesn't understand the change in her and because that change is crossing the limit which he doesn't know why she is crossing because why would she fall for him.

By the end of today's episode Yogi has learnt why Pari has crossed the border and that he isn't unlovable because he can't speak. His anger is now replaced by confusion on why she chose him when there is the 'better guy' and he faces the fear of falling in love again.

Credit to the writers and Thanks for reading!

Edit: I've cleaned the post up with headings.

Update: Yogi has taken a step back from his confused angry mode, he is now avoiding the sensitive topic (He is avoiding Pari only to not have to fall further in love with Pari hence why he left after his hand grazed Pari's) which to Pari means he is avoiding her out of hate. He still couldn't fathom why Pari chose him (confusion + insecurity). Surjit does clear his confusion and his insecurity somewhat. Meaning Yogi needs acknowledge his feelings, face his fear of love and also pluck the courage to speak to Pari. When he does so the old Yogi will be back, no longer ashamed of his disability but accepting it as part of him. He won't fear love, his confidence will be great and his insecurity will belong to the past.

Bold = whats still to come

Originally posted by: Mr-YK

So I wanted to understand Yogi's feelings this episode. After watching the episode again, I feel that Yogi's anger is based on not understanding Pari's feelings/closeness like why she has become so involved in his life and of course he learns why at the end of the episode.

Yogi not understanding why Pari would love him

So Yogi honestly didn't realise Pari was in love with him and theres an answer for that. Besides how many girls are queuing up for Yogi even with his ad out. So Its a real shock to Yogi that someone like Pari would fall for him when every other girl has turned him down. Even though he was picking up clues here and there that she loves him, we never see him draw a conclusion because he thinks its impossible for Pari to fall for someone like him as he considers himself imperfect as made clear by Shiv too. So hearing Pari tell him that she is in love with him completely challenges his thoughts. Hence he never stops to think about his own feelings as what good is for him to hope when he feels he's imperfect and to make it worse his first encounter with love broke him into pieces. So why would he stop to think about his feelings when he feels Pari wouldn't love him.

Crossing the border from Friends to Lovers

So Yogi and Pari have gotten really close since they first met. They went from hating one another to becoming each others shoulder to cry on. To simply put it they became besties.

Now between Friendship and Relationship there is this border. Pari crossed this border today when she confessed to Yogi. To Yogi however he think she stepped over the border with getting too involved in his life which he to him tells him that Pari is in love with him which is absurd to him. Yet he doesn't know that she did so because she does actually love him. So when Yogi heard that the reason she was crossing the line was because she actually loved him it hits him like a train.

Now Yogi in upcoming weeks will have difficulty crossing the border to meet Pari in the middle. As he fears having his heart broken again. As Pari said in the precap: "Do you have a problem with me or love?" To answer this, its love he has a problem with. Not Pari as he can't blame her for falling for him.

Aftermath

Hence we are left with a Yogi who doesn't know what to think and how to feel (confusion) and of course he can't talk to Pari as she is the other half of this situation (awkwardness = avoiding).

Conclusion

Yogi isn't completely angry at Pari. He is angry because he doesn't understand Pari's change of feelings towards him. Yet he is also angry at Pari for crossing the line because to him its absurd to believe Pari would love him because he thinks its impossible for someone as perfect as Pari to fall for him (He doesn't understand why she would cross the line of friendship to relationship FOR HIM as he isn't perfect himself).

Note: So Yogi is not as confident as he was at the beginning of IIM. I feel this insecurity was due to Gunjan and Shiv.

Final words

So His brain is telling him she wouldn't fall for you as you're imperfect yet his heart tells him she has fallen for you, all of you including your imperfections. Now for the future he must choose what to follow, his brain or his heart. But firstly he must overcome his fear of falling in love again.

I think this it it! It explains Yogi in todays episode. His anger is kinda directed at Pari but he is angry because he doesn't understand the change in her and because that change is crossing the limit which he doesn't know why she is crossing because why would she fall for him.

By the end of today's episode Yogi has learnt why Pari has crossed the border and that he isn't unlovable because he can't speak. Credit to the writers and Thanks for reading!

Edit: I've cleaned the post up with headings.

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

@ bold.. I agree with you now it all depends how he overcome his fear......

Pari in the precap hits the hammer on the nail when she ask him what his problem is. We all know its not Pari he has a problem with. He will have to come clean with Pari as he is hurting Pari by avoiding her. But I don't know what it will take for Yogi to overcome his fear of love again.

Gunjan broke Yogi twice in a really small span of time, 1. Was with this wedding cancelled and he hid and cried his broken heart out. 2. When he had hope that she would come around but even when she knew the truth she still went ahead with Roshan.

Any person to go through such trauma will have difficulty with having faith in love again.

Originally posted by: Mr-YK

Pari in the precap hits the hammer on the nail when she ask him what his problem is. We all know its not Pari he has a problem with. He will have to come clean with Pari as he is hurting Pari by avoiding her. But I don't know what it will take for Yogi to overcome his fear of love again.

Gunjan broke Yogi twice in a really small span of time, 1. Was with this wedding cancelled and he hid and cried his broken heart out. 2. When he had hope that she would come around but even when she knew the truth she still went ahead with Roshan.

Any person to go through such trauma will have difficulty with having faith in love again.

Such a nice post & all of you had valid points and analyzed Yogi's state of mind very well.

@bold: Exactly! Two persons from my friends' circle went through a similar situation like Yogi's. And believe me one of them couldn't move on even after 8 years as his long time GF married his bestie at the end....

Anyways here for Yogi it's a matter of time and maybe he will have difficulties while accepting Pari in his life as it's really hard to have faith in love again after failing twice. But YaRi are meant to be and we know how understanding Pari is, they will survive together as long as there bond is strong! Plus Srivastavas's support & love will help Yogi also, there will be there for YaRi along with Yogi's crazy gang. And Yogi needs to speak about his emotions, fears with somebody if not Pari for the time being at least with his buddies or even Dadaji.

Originally posted by: rishani77

Such a nice post & all of you had valid points and analyzed Yogi's state of mind very well.

@bold: Exactly! Two persons from my friends' circle went through a similar situation like Yogi's. And believe me one of them couldn't move on even after 8 years as his long time GF married his bestie at the end....

Anyways here for Yogi it's a matter of time and maybe he will have difficulties while accepting Pari in his life as it's really hard to have faith in love again after failing twice. But YaRi are meant to be and we know how understanding Pari is, they will survive together as long as there bond is strong! Plus Srivastavas's support & love will help Yogi also, there will be there for YaRi along with Yogi's crazy gang. And Yogi needs to speak about his emotions, fears with somebody if not Pari for the time being at least with his buddies or even Dadaji.

"Exactly! Two persons from my friends' circle went through a similar situation like Yogi's. And believe me one of them couldn't move on even after 8 years as his long time GF married his bestie at the end...."

-Ouch! I don't want to think about how it feels after. Hope your friend make it through.

"Anyways here for Yogi it's a matter of time and maybe he will have difficulties while accepting Pari in his life as it's really hard to have faith in love again after failing twice. But YaRi are meant to be and we know how understanding Pari is, they will survive together as long as there bond is strong! Plus Srivastavas's support & love will help Yogi also, there will be there for YaRi along with Yogi's crazy gang. And Yogi needs to speak about his emotions, fears with somebody if not Pari for the time being at least with his buddies or even Dadaji."

-I hope it doesn't take too long. But then remember how long the family were broken for after the wedding was cancelled. It was a whole week right?

Either way Yogi will have to acknowledge his own feelings and also overcome his fear of love. His confidant (Pari) he can't talk to now due to awkwardness. Perhaps Khushi will be the one to help Yogi. She hasn't been on set for a while too.

By Friday, I think it will all be sorted. Though Gunjan is going to get thrown in the mix by Roshan. Someone did comment about Yogi telling Pari he loves Gunjan still. But thats a lie. He hasn't thought about her at all recently. Can we clarify if he has had closure or not? I believe he has.

We are telling that family will help him.. But do you guys think yogi would be able to share this with anyone....??

Originally posted by: Mr-YK

"Exactly! Two persons from my friends' circle went through a similar situation like Yogi's. And believe me one of them couldn't move on even after 8 years as his long time GF married his bestie at the end...."

-Ouch! I don't want to think about how it feels after. Hope your friend make it through.

"Anyways here for Yogi it's a matter of time and maybe he will have difficulties while accepting Pari in his life as it's really hard to have faith in love again after failing twice. But YaRi are meant to be and we know how understanding Pari is, they will survive together as long as there bond is strong! Plus Srivastavas's support & love will help Yogi also, there will be there for YaRi along with Yogi's crazy gang. And Yogi needs to speak about his emotions, fears with somebody if not Pari for the time being at least with his buddies or even Dadaji."

-I hope it doesn't take too long. But then remember how long the family were broken for after the wedding was cancelled. It was a whole week right?

Either way Yogi will have to acknowledge his own feelings and also overcome his fear of love. His confidant (Pari) he can't talk to now due to awkwardness. Perhaps Khushi will be the one to help Yogi. She hasn't been on set for a while too.

By Friday, I think it will all be sorted. Though Gunjan is going to get thrown in the mix by Roshan. Someone did comment about Yogi telling Pari he loves Gunjan still. But thats a lie. He hasn't thought about her at all recently. Can we clarify if he has had closure or not? I believe he has.

It is better to sum up Yogi's confused state within 2 weeks. I'm sure cv's will handle it wisely so far wasn't disappointed with them...

Regarding Gunjan, since the Diwali drama Yogi didn't even thought of her so as you said that was the closure chapter for his past. But it seems like Gunjan didn't really moved on. Actually some of us said that Yogi isn't still not over his past during the Diwali track as he keeps being affected by her whenever they come face to face and being angry towards Pari so we assumed that.... Plus in Mudit's recent ITW after Pari's confession he said stg like the broke up with Gunjan was recent & then Pari's sudden confession, Yogi is confused about Pari being just a friend or that she can be more than that...For me it's pretty sure now that he no longer think about Gunjan fiasco and has started to notice Pari that he actually moved on.

True that it would have been perfect if Khushi was there to speak with Yogi, hopefully she will be back. I kind of miss her scenes with Pari also. At least Pari has Neha by her side but Yogi can't think about anybody else than Khushi right now so that he can open up about his emotions because with a senior family member he wouldn't dare to...

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

We are telling that family will help him.. But do you guys think yogi would be able to share this with anyone....??

I am thinking the same. The only person he opens up to is Pari but thats because she can see through him. I think he'll find a way alone or someone around him will say something which will have an impact of his thinking. Though if he needs someone its Khushi. She did ask him about Pari.

Originally posted by: rishani77

It is better to sum up Yogi's confused state within 2 weeks. I'm sure cv's will handle it wisely so far wasn't disappointed with them...

Regarding Gunjan, since the Diwali drama Yogi didn't even thought of her so as you said that was the closure chapter for his past. But it seems like Gunjan didn't really moved on. Actually some of us said that Yogi isn't still not over his past during the Diwali track as he keeps being affected by her whenever they come face to face and being angry towards Pari so we assumed that.... Plus in Mudit's recent ITW after Pari's confession he said stg like the broke up with Gunjan was recent & then Pari's sudden confession, Yogi is confused about Pari being just a friend or that she can be more than that...For me it's pretty sure now that he no longer think about Gunjan fiasco and has started to notice Pari that he actually moved on.

True that it would have been perfect if Khushi was there to speak with Yogi, hopefully she will be back. I kind of miss her scenes with Pari also. At least Pari has Neha by her side but Yogi can't think about anybody else than Khushi right now so that he can open up about his emotions because with a senior family member he wouldn't dare to...

If he gets back with Gunjan. Then I'll perhaps stop watching. Its absurd for him and Gunjan to have any romance now. Gunjan should never be made a love interest. Never!

He needs Khushi, I think she'll be back on monday.

maybe but I feel it will be surjit...

During that tea stall scene.. He ask yogi kya hua hai ? tu thik hai na when yogi was thinking about pari....

And even yesterday he was there during fighting.. He knows yogi want pari safety and doesn't want any one to think ill about her by seeing them together and even aniruddh incident he was present there...

Maybe by accident he will hear pari and yogi talks and start to connect dots...