Asim used Sid. - Page 2

TOTALLY disagree. Let me counter this point by point:

- Asim DID NOT plan to be close to Sid for popular, it happened organically. The original group was Sid, Asim, Sana, Aarti, and Abu ji. If you watch the earlier episodes and especially undekha clips, Abu and Asim got along well. Sana loved their company because Abu would sing and help kill time. Sid took forever to open up with anybody in the show, and the first people he really opened up to was Aarti, who was the gateway for him to become introduced to the gang. (This also explains why Aarti feels so intimately bonded with Sid)

- Paras IMMEDIATELY wanted to establish himself as an alpha and started trying to bully Asim from the start. Wrong move. Not only did Asim prove to be an alpha himself, but he also bonded with the group under this common dislike for Paras. Paras was a total dumbass in those days (still is, look at how his plan ended up getting the captaincy his team won to Himanshi yesterday lol). He called Asim Mr. Beautiful, which made him look like a toxic insecure man. Once Asim was rapping about Kashmir, and Paras said Asim brings up state to create divisions. Once Asim said he had lots of black friends in South Africa, and Paras said he was racist and created a scene. LOL Because of this dumbass behavior, plus the usual bitching and wannabe mastermind behavior, Sid and Asim bonded over a common dislike for Paras. I also think this weird wannabe behavior is what turned off Salman, who is still anti Paras lol.

- After Abu left, Sid and Asim were comfortable to spend time with each other. Asim was way more extroverted than Sid (who was still keeping a distance from Rashmi), so Asim would share things about the others with Sid. Plus their personalities are very similar. Both are alphas with huge egos and a desire to be seen as the leader. Sid treated Asim well in the beginning, and Asim saw Sid as an older brother figure. They both helped each other ALOT! If Asim hadn't repeatedly stopped Sid in the Snakes and Ladders task, he would have started this pushing behavior all the way back then!

- Sid and Asim both started noticing the pattern (like everyone else including us) that Salman tends to be harsher with people from the other group. So they were both given confidence boost. Sid was always praised as the Ram to Asim's Laxman, so Asim still had a younger self-image.

- Sid's behavior suddenly changed when the Sana drama started, when she was switching back and forth between him and Paras. Around this time, Sid started treating both Aarti and Asim like shit. He took them for granted because he knew they were not flippers. Sana was, so he then and still now treats her very differently. He talks TO Sana. He talks AT Asim and Aarti.

- During the Rakshas task Asim finally had enough. Like I said earlier, he is also an alpha and had already brought up a few times that he doesn't like being talked down to infront of others. He stood up to Sid. Then Salman praised him. This gave him the confidence boost he needed to stand up to the bully. But the bully wasn't bullying him another, he himself approached him to hug and make up. So, Asim did. But when the behavior started getting bad again, then Asim exploded. Sid was totally shocked because he had completely taken Asim for granted, and even after the first fight, he never though Asim would grow the balls to stand up to him. The repeated bad treatment despite multiple warnings, with Salman telling him he is doing well, was the catalyst for Asim to break away and finally establish an identity of himself outside of Sid's shadow.

This is the true timeline. Asim is not a saint at all, and he has many negative qualities. But overall, in my opinion, this is a clear case of Sid having somebody in his life who was fiercely loyal and listened to everything he said, but he took him for granted. So, 3-4 discussions and one mini-fight later, Sid STILL thought he was too big for Asim to directly attack him. But he was wrong, and I'm glad he was proven wrong. If anyone in this show has been badhao-chadaoed by Salman it is 100% Shukla, not Asim. His group breaking apart is honestly exactly what Shukla deserves.

Originally posted by: Mahe66

Sid used his frnd as chamchas i want to ask you do you have grps of frnds i guess u dont, cuz if u do u shd know that every frnd is equal in dat grp not one person leads and others follow , we as frnds listen to every person in that grp take advise from everyone ye nahi ki apna decision thop do sab pe aur agar koi agree na kare to vo bura

This is highschool mentality sid grow up as in highschool all r behind the bullies and want to be part of the famous grp but once Asim realized in this grp his or anyone decision is not been listened he parted ways, sid sable saamne aarti ko kitni baar insult kiya hai so if dont listen to him den dey r bad

I do have a group of friends how can you guess like that?!

Anyways, I understand and respect that and agree everyones equal in friendship but if Asim felt that way why didn't he go directly and say that to Sid why did he carry on being a "chamcha" nobody forced him to and why did it take him so long to part ways .... because first finale cross ho chuka tha mujhe lagta hain. Asim can take a stand for himself why does he get so aggressive and ready for a fight he could have talked it out with Sid clearly rather than going to people for advice

Anyways thanks for your view :)

This is what happened:

1.) sid and asim were good friends, but obviously Sid was the leader. Asim made it this far by piggybacking Sid (like mahira has with paras).

2.) asim is being called chamcha and chela and it’s getting on his nerves and affecting his ego.

3.) sana and sid have there own special bond which asim does not like. Why? Because he wants sid to himself, only ram lakhan jodi. (Arti also has a problem with their friendship). He wants sid to SAVE him over sana if the occasion ever arrives, but now he is insecure because their bond might be stronger AND audience likes it (which he finds out from Vishal)

4.) Asim and sid get into argument over task and have a small fight. SALMAN supports asim and tells him he is doing a great job.

5.) asim gets huge ego boost and does not need sid anymore. Salman gave him the reassurance that he is popular outside. So he triggers random fight between him and sid, but he says it was built up Bc of sana and debo. Which is BS because if WE the audience know that debo and sid were just messing around and not actually becoming friends, why is asim making this an unnecessary issue? And if he found the wedding task irritating, then why did he take the anger out on sid? Sid didn’t make task, BB did.

Originally posted by: pinkpearl5

He used Sid to come so further in the game. Sid guided him and always stood by him throughout like a true friend and elderly brother almost. People are saying Asim saw Sid's true colours now he woke up etc but NO that's not the case its vice versa Sid saw Asim's true colours and he is hurt and shocked.

He knew Sid is the most popular in the house and outside too most well known name and he clinged on to Sid to come to far in the game because NOBODY really knew who the heck Asim was before BB.

Now he chucked him away like trash.

There was better ways to explain to Sid if he felt bullied or bossed around or whatever he is saying he is also aggressive and we have seen it when he used to fight with Paras in the starting of the show!

Asim was nearly invisible during the starting episodes and it's when him Sid and Sana became a trio the game changed for him and he realised this is it now I will be seen. Now all this encouragement from Salman etc, his become overconfident and literally chucked away his "friendship" with Sid. And people are saying his a honest, humble guy?!

Trust me not only lost a true friend who genuinely cared for him, his ruined his game too - because heck is he gonna get any solid honest support from the dogla gang.

He started feeling jealous of Sid and ended up reacting the wrong way by provoking him and he isn't a dhood ka dhula like people are acting!

Nope. Don’t agree at all. Asim was genuinely friends with Sid and vice versa. He looked up to Sid like an elder brother and was there for him just as much as Sid was there for him.

I agree that no one really knew Asim before the show, and everyone makes alliances on the show. However please note Abu Malik was as much a friend of Sid’s as Asim was. Also this whole thing Sid is the one who saved Asim in the beginning from being evicted so isn’t true.

Breaking it down- 1st nomination of the season was fake, 2nd was just girls where Daljeet and Koena got evicted. 3rd nomination- Asim was nominated and he Abu got evicted. 4th- again nominated, Dey got evicted. 5th- Rashmi, Shefali and Devo did.
Sid might have provided some visibility to Asim but if you ask me the guy who actually provided visibility to Asim on this show was Paras for bullying him in the beginning. A lot of us liked Asim from the beginning and a majority of Asim fans were never Shukla fans. We liked their friendship but would never vote for Sid or support him. So Asim has a very distinct fan base from Sid.

And coming to being there for each other. Not at all denying Sid has been there for Asim so many times, but so has Asim. The snake and ladders task is a major example in that. He’s made sids friends his own and sids enemies his own in the show, even when he didn’t need to. Also people make claims that Asim changed when people called him chamcha like Arhaan did. But even much before the first finale Asim was called that repeatedly.

Asim’s reaction has come from a place of being hurt and disrespected again and again. Asim has tried talking to Sid on so many occasions politely but has Sid ever listened. Sid only wants to talk and sees things from his perspective and doesn’t ever let Asim talk and express himself only. Their fights started from the truck task and at the first moment Asim tried to criticise Sids leadership- Sid snapped and walked away. Asim went to make up with him. Second time tunnel task, Sid again wasn’t ready to listen to Asim’s viewpoint at all, and the fight flared.

Sid always speaks rudely to Asim but since the new WC’s have come in especially Vishal the behaviour has become worse because somewhere in Sids head too Asim became expendable. Then there’s the whole Sana thing Asim doesn’t like her but more importantly what he has a problem with despite ditching Sid she’s still his no. 1 priority whereas someone who has stood shoulder to shoulder with him isn’t. Sid never shouts or speaks to Sana the way he does go Asim and Arti and this is what Asim doesn’t like.

Anyway if Asim is as ungrateful and as much a backstabber as you presume he is, he could have easily agreed with Paras yesterday when he was saying that Sid used to misbehave with all the people all the girls in the house.

Despite the fact that their fight is insane, Asim still Paras no The girls targeted Sid always.

Originally posted by: bbsai

Asim is still not done using Sid..

every 15 min.. haath pocket mein daalke .. jaa raha hai Sid ke paas..all to be seen in episode..

Absolutely.. Sid realized Asim's cunning nature..

Asim most insecure, jealous saanp..

Asim looking cheap doin this antics.... Haath pocket mein n goin n provoking Sid...let's see how things change aftr wkw... I wish both of them play solo...pata chalega Asim ko fir

Yes Asim used Sid to come this far..why now didn’t Asim was with Sid in everything he was doing..he is copying his aggressive ways to go further..right now Asim is following Sid where ever he goes..in bedroom while Sid Vishal n Devo n Shefali we’re getting some clarification, Asim jumped in like stupid wild animal on Sid..I think he is doing to it to footage Asim knows he can only get it by going against Sid..even in garden area paras Arti n others were having argument in background you could see Asim came in full force..he thought Sid is giving others footage when he saw its others..he sat in background and started doing exercise like maniac..let’s see how far he can go but he can’t win..

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

TOTALLY disagree. Let me counter this point by point:

- Asim DID NOT plan to be close to Sid for popular, it happened organically. The original group was Sid, Asim, Sana, Aarti, and Abu ji. If you watch the earlier episodes and especially undekha clips, Abu and Asim got along well. Sana loved their company because Abu would sing and help kill time. Sid took forever to open up with anybody in the show, and the first people he really opened up to was Aarti, who was the gateway for him to become introduced to the gang. (This also explains why Aarti feels so intimately bonded with Sid)

- Paras IMMEDIATELY wanted to establish himself as an alpha and started trying to bully Asim from the start. Wrong move. Not only did Asim prove to be an alpha himself, but he also bonded with the group under this common dislike for Paras. Paras was a total dumbass in those days (still is, look at how his plan ended up getting the captaincy his team won to Himanshi yesterday lol). He called Asim Mr. Beautiful, which made him look like a toxic insecure man. Once Asim was rapping about Kashmir, and Paras said Asim brings up state to create divisions. Once Asim said he had lots of black friends in South Africa, and Paras said he was racist and created a scene. LOL Because of this dumbass behavior, plus the usual bitching and wannabe mastermind behavior, Sid and Asim bonded over a common dislike for Paras. I also think this weird wannabe behavior is what turned off Salman, who is still anti Paras lol.

- After Abu left, Sid and Asim were comfortable to spend time with each other. Asim was way more extroverted than Sid (who was still keeping a distance from Rashmi), so Asim would share things about the others with Sid. Plus their personalities are very similar. Both are alphas with huge egos and a desire to be seen as the leader. Sid treated Asim well in the beginning, and Asim saw Sid as an older brother figure. They both helped each other ALOT! If Asim hadn't repeatedly stopped Sid in the Snakes and Ladders task, he would have started this pushing behavior all the way back then!

- Sid and Asim both started noticing the pattern (like everyone else including us) that Salman tends to be harsher with people from the other group. So they were both given confidence boost. Sid was always praised as the Ram to Asim's Laxman, so Asim still had a younger self-image.

- Sid's behavior suddenly changed when the Sana drama started, when she was switching back and forth between him and Paras. Around this time, Sid started treating both Aarti and Asim like shit. He took them for granted because he knew they were not flippers. Sana was, so he then and still now treats her very differently. He talks TO Sana. He talks AT Asim and Aarti.

- During the Rakshas task Asim finally had enough. Like I said earlier, he is also an alpha and had already brought up a few times that he doesn't like being talked down to infront of others. He stood up to Sid. Then Salman praised him. This gave him the confidence boost he needed to stand up to the bully. But the bully wasn't bullying him another, he himself approached him to hug and make up. So, Asim did. But when the behavior started getting bad again, then Asim exploded. Sid was totally shocked because he had completely taken Asim for granted, and even after the first fight, he never though Asim would grow the balls to stand up to him. The repeated bad treatment despite multiple warnings, with Salman telling him he is doing well, was the catalyst for Asim to break away and finally establish an identity of himself outside of Sid's shadow.

This is the true timeline. Asim is not a saint at all, and he has many negative qualities. But overall, in my opinion, this is a clear case of Sid having somebody in his life who was fiercely loyal and listened to everything he said, but he took him for granted. So, 3-4 discussions and one mini-fight later, Sid STILL thought he was too big for Asim to directly attack him. But he was wrong, and I'm glad he was proven wrong. If anyone in this show has been badhao-chadaoed by Salman it is 100% Shukla, not Asim. His group breaking apart is honestly exactly what Shukla deserves.

The only alpha In the house is Sid. Asim also is showing his alpha side now, but before he was just a follower. We haven’t seen his leadership side yet. Sid has been leader since day 1 and now will lead his former enemies mahira and paras 😂 sid is the only alpha why? Because Vishal and Paras are only phattus when it comes to Sid 😂

U always give chance to ur frnds even in an office setting u keep giving chances to the employees u dont get along with or do politics but just imagine if Asim was the candiate for swamvar and Sid was cutting apple and if asim must have used the disrespectful tone like sid and dictating order to Sid he would have reacted the same way as asim did

Originally posted by: Mahe66

Ohh so i guess u r follower in ur frnds grp as u r okay with one leading the whole frnds grp with no logic and dictating orders and treating them likes slaves grp means respect and others too plus sab ki suna chahiye

No I'm not!

Originally posted by: Mahe66

U always give chance to ur frnds even in an office setting u keep giving chances to the employees u dont get along with or do politics but just imagine if Asim was the candiate for swamvar and Sid was cutting apple and if asim must have used the disrespectful tone like sid and dictating order to Sid he would have reacted the same way as asim did

Asim was ordering Sid not so long ago.. keha raha tha sab dining table ke saaman andhar rakh.. (bohut hi rudely order kar raha tha Asim)

Sid brought all that from BB room till dining table..

Sid politely said he did his work.. koi aur aake waha se saaman undhar rakhe..Sid ne gaali nahi diya..

Apple nahi oranges.. yaha Sid bilkul rude nahi tha..no excuse for Asim saanp..

Asim is such cheapo.. gaali deke hawa ko de raha hai bol raha hai..

matlab.. cheap behave bhi kar tha hai aur pur bhi dhik na hai Asim ko...