21 Nov - Episode Highlights - Dil ki Baat

Main Dhoondne Ko

Zamaane Mein Jab Wafa Nikla

Pata Chala Ke Galat Leke

Main Pata Nikla

Kabhi kabhi acha banna bhi bura hota hai , kabhi kabhi timing hi galat hoti hai, it's very easy to judge to say yeh kar lete vo kar lete, par jab khud ki vaat lagti hai toh pata chalta hai hum kitne paani mein hai 😆

Unfortunate is the only word I can say now, I don't want to get into who is right, who is wrong , because honestly voh time gaya, the fact is that they aren't together now, I dont really feel like justifying anyone or blaming anyone, they both are just too good for the world

Ab koi kisi ke liye painting nahi banaege

Ab koi kisi ke liye campsite pe intezar nahi karega

Ab koi kisi se teen saval nahi puchega

Ab koi kisi ko suno....kuch nahi jaoo nahi kahega

Ab dono ek dusre se aise promises nahi karenge jo voh pure hi na kar sake

When a paraya hurts you , it doesn't pain as much as when a apna hurts you

Having said that I loved the episode, for its execution, cinematic brilliance and fantastic performances yet again , true actor is the one that can make you laugh or smile, if he can make you cry with the same conviction, now that is something to appreciate, hands down Rhea Sharma and Shaheer Sheikh prove it daily that only they deserve to play Mishti and Abir

The episode was divided in 2 parts , and a big thumbs up to makers for showing us 2 scenarios

Scenario 1

This was abir's imagination, what would have happened if he decides to choose mishti, the sequence and chain of events was bang on , meenu actually is such a low life that she can ruthlessly throw out parul and kunal , makers tired to show the situation then , will abir be happy to start his new life seeing his brother losing everything in life ? Will mishti be happy to see abir living in this pain ? Kunal mishti parul , he cant risk three lives like that , we also make promises to others , do we actually fulfill all our promises ? When we make promises, no doubt our intention is to always fulfill them , but circumstances aren't in our control, badi badi batein phir end mein vada paav khatein ho jaata hai though I wanted scenario one to be true, abir and family wont leave kunal and parul like that, mahs will also support kunal, zaalim aurat zyada se zyada property leke baith jaati na, baithne dete 😆 Bachi duniya toh duniya ka kya hai .. Tu kon hai tere naam hai kya , sita bhi yahan badnaam Hui... Mrs parekh aati ek eyebrow upar ek eyebrow niche karke 🤣 Taane maarne aur toh kya ... anyways abir's fear of losing his brother takes over him so he decides to go for scenario 2

Scenario 2

Now that's the actual reality, lol ...now this was one of my wishlist to actually see abir giving intensity shots to mishti for lying , for not trusting him enough, should I be happy about it or sad...I am not able to form an opinion...... before anyone jumps to any conclusion this was abir's setup , he doesn't believe what he says , just like during haldi fiasco mishti insulted kuhu, she didn't mean what she said ...same .. abir exactly knows where to hurt mishti , which is the right spot to attack ... say that she doesn't have a family and your job is done, this is the right statement to trigger bade papa also .. i don't know now what was that but he did say in between that " mishti mujhse rajgadh mein shaadi karna chahti thi " ... was he giving a hint to mishti , or was he referring to the statement given by mish in mishbir house that she wants to get married in rajgadh in baba's house ... abir ne soch liya tha ki itna neeche girunga ke zameen bhi bolegi ... sir jagah nahi hai please upar jao 🤣.... after a series of blah blah bakwas, abir ne swachh bharat abhiyan ka apnaan karte hue card phadaa aur chale Gaye....... abir is making things easy for mishti to move on by giving her this treatment , mutual break up hota toh mishti peeche nahi hat ti ...

Tadpe tu bhi dil mera dukha ke ......

Mishti is losing the most special person in her life - but not herself

But abir is not only losing the most special person in his life - he is losing himself too ...

Leaving it on you to decide what is more painful

Feeling sad for mishti will be an understatement, the girl has already suffered much in her life, she still keeps hope and positivity high and then she gets this ... I hope she learns to not blindly trust anyone in future , and also that lies have limited life !! And of course don't try to cross oceans for someone who showed no signs of crossing puddles also ..referring meenu here

In all this scenario I feel equally bad for parul too, I mean if I look at her life , what did she get , a cheater fraud husband , a backstabber best friend, a son who will never accept her as a mother , she lost all her roles in life all at once, when we talk about women empowerment, the first thing comes in my mind is the education , education gives you voice, an opinion , somewhere an opportunity to live life on your terms , kisi ke saamne ghutne tekne ki zarurat nahi padti tab , meenu jaise so called padhe likhe log uska faayda nahi uthate... she could have made her own life with kunal then .... only if ....

To defeat a Meenakshi Rajvansh , you need to educate a Parul

The episode was super duper high on emotions, and before the leap they are going to be the same , its upto you if you want to watch but if you seriously want to give an opinion about it...you have to watch to see what exactly happened ...the only one liner for the time being

The Crushing hopes , the breaking hearts 💔

...

Wow uru 😁😁👏so well thought of and so well written.

I agree with you that Abir should have chosen the first option as this could have actually sorted lives. There could not have been a bigger punishment for a woman who is showing no amount of guilt in whatever she has done so far. By agreeing to her blackmail Abir has actually set the ball rolling for other similar events to happen. It would have been far easier to nip this in the bud and walk away with the members of the family who concur with his thoughts.But alas he chose the seemingly easier path ,may be difficult for him but for everyone else it's a breeze as nobody seemed bothered.

But look what this decision is going to cost him. His lives happiness,his conscience,his power on his own life is shattered because he was impulsive.Thats not what we expected but then after all he's human. But I seriously hope he realises this blunder and corrects it before it's too late

Originally posted by: iamthat2019

Wow uru 😁😁👏so well thought of and so well written.

I agree with you that Abir should have chosen the first option as this could have actually sorted lives. There could not have been a bigger punishment for a woman who is showing no amount of guilt in whatever she has done so far. By agreeing to her blackmail Abir has actually set the ball rolling for other similar events to happen. It would have been far easier to nip this in the bud and walk away with the members of the family who concur with his thoughts.But alas he chose the seemingly easier path ,may be difficult for him but for everyone else it's a breeze as nobody seemed bothered.

But look what this decision is going to cost him. His lives happiness,his conscience,his power on his own life is shattered because he was impulsive.Thats not what we expected but then after all he's human. But I seriously hope he realises this blunder and corrects it before it's too late

Absolutely

Both mishti and abir are right in their own ways...the problem with them is that they are too good and ready to sacrifice even their life for their siblings

I understand that emotinal abir part very well... right now what abir has done is absolutely right from where he comes.

...but someday toh kunal will get to know . Abir is just delaying the pain ... he can't protect kunal for life from this ultimate truth

The more the delay the more the pain

Also kunal will feel guilty also ...to protect him his brother had to go through the worst pain of his life

Abir didn't make a calculated move... that was more an emotional move which contradicts his neend mein bhi hoshiyari skills

But it's okay I have no complaints , coz mistakes happen...

Uru take a jhappi yaara well written analysis unbiased n projected both sides perfectly 👏🤗🤗🤗

i loved your touch of nautanki here mainly the ".. sir jagah nahi hai please upar jao" 🤣 and sorry yaar the last line of your shayari for them actually cracked me up... first it was emotional as we gonna miss that but at end it was like a jatka 😆 sorry yaar..

firstly more than anything hats off to Shaheer for portraying the clueless, stupid, fake abir not knowing what to say next, taking a sec to come up with more n hiding yourself not able to look at anyone 👏👏 Rhea for portraying the on face strong mishti, not giving up, i dont take your nonsense yet broken soul 👏👏

and BP/BM always the dotting parents who never takes nonsense against their daughter 👏

yaar this scenario would've been awesome but kya kare emotions took over with bb ready to strike calling kunal kunal... if only he had time to think, if only he could've been little strong... we cant make everyone happy we need to give up on one to keep the other happy... and also not to forget the last look of hope he gave to parul as if all this could be stopped somehow..

actually like mini said he insulted himself in name of humiliating mishti... that day she was left alone to stand today this boy...

a single advice to all if you let a third person in a relationship then samajlo ki its the start of destruction... she trusted a third person, he let the third person take control...

and parul coming to think of it yes right her weakness, illiteracy everything is being used against her... if only someone can give her the needed strength to fight maybe one day it will happen..

your one liner fits the situation for them and us too... and i dont wanna take sides too dono apni jaha sahi hai... and i always like to look at future perspective more than whats happening now as we cant change anything jo hua so hua... i know wistful thinking but with new change can we expect this..

let mishti become more stronger, stop thinking of people who hurt you, start valuing bp/bm n leave naman behind, give a damn to Rv parivaar, career pe concentrate kar, dont trust people easily, family family kelna band kar... be a strong headed woman...

Abir dont even think of going behind mishti, give subtle taunt to meenu infront of others, give her a damn in private... be more rebellious and do things she doesnt like... treat your nanko as grown up, family family kelna band kar.. be more unforgiving, let them come to you dont apologize for others mistake, stop taking responsibility of their action...

here some of abirs emotions...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Uru take a jhappi yaara well written analysis unbiased n projected both sides perfectly 👏🤗🤗🤗

i loved your touch of nautanki here mainly the ".. sir jagah nahi hai please upar jao" 🤣 and sorry yaar the last line of your shayari for them actually cracked me up... first it was emotional as we gonna miss that but at end it was like a jatka 😆 sorry yaar..

firstly more than anything hats off to Shaheer for portraying the clueless, stupid, fake abir not knowing what to say next, taking a sec to come up with more n hiding yourself not able to look at anyone 👏👏 Rhea for portraying the on face strong mishti, not giving up, i dont take your nonsense yet broken soul 👏👏

and BP/BM always the dotting parents who never takes nonsense against their daughter 👏

yaar this scenario would've been awesome but kya kare emotions took over with bb ready to strike calling kunal kunal... if only he had time to think, if only he could've been little strong... we cant make everyone happy we need to give up on one to keep the other happy... and also not to forget the last look of hope he gave to parul as if all this could be stopped somehow..

actually like mini said he insulted himself in name of humiliating mishti... that day she was left alone to stand today this boy...

a single advice to all if you let a third person in a relationship then samajlo ki its the start of destruction... she trusted a third person, he let the third person take control...

and parul coming to think of it yes right her weakness, illiteracy everything is being used against her... if only someone can give her the needed strength to fight maybe one day it will happen..

your one liner fits the situation for them and us too... and i dont wanna take sides too dono apni jaha sahi hai... and i always like to look at future perspective more than whats happening now as we cant change anything jo hua so hua... i know wistful thinking but with new change can we expect this..

let mishti become more stronger, stop thinking of people who hurt you, start valuing bp/bm n leave naman behind, give a damn to Rv parivaar, career pe concentrate kar, dont trust people easily, family family kelna band kar... be a strong headed woman...

Abir dont even think of going behind mishti, give subtle taunt to meenu infront of others, give her a damn in private... be more rebellious and do things she doesnt like... treat your nanko as grown up, family family kelna band kar.. be more unforgiving, let them come to you dont apologize for others mistake, stop taking responsibility of their action...

here some of abirs emotions...

Bang on post diya....bang on ...you actually wrote better than me yaar .... agree with you totally 🤗👏

Thank you ... 🤗🤗🤗 as a reviewer I dont want to give biased opinions 👍🏼

Hahahaha.... that last line was to make you laugh only 🤣 Because that's the fact, they have made promises that they have broken..

Yes that was the catch... abir wasnt even given time to think.... they came from mandir and the drama started ...

Perfect advices given by you to mishti and abir ... they have flaws and they have to correct them on time, otherwise we can already see the consequences

I don't want to discuss mishbir anymore in terms of who is right who is wrong , frankly speaking I don't know actually 😆 Will have to cut my time in AT also now ... 😛 Better to be silent for sometime .lol

Oh yes n thank you for the gift yaar ...next week I will be getting 2 set of gifts that's nice ☺️☺️

Guruji🤗🤗🤗..

What can I say.... Perfectly perfect analysis👏👏👏... Can u believe I had written so much n even I hit post reply all got deleted

Writing again😆..... But beautiful beautiful analysis Yaara🤗🤗... You've explained the situation so beautifully....

Par..

Meri ek issue hai... I'm really not able to connect N not able to sympathize Much with Abhir. Pata nahi kyu🤔.. Is it the sadist in me🤔.. Is it the feminist in me🤔🤔... Or is it just Plain overAll anger Which I'm trying to put on Abhir.. I've no idea...... But like I said I cannot sympathize with Abhir........😭

That said your points are beautiful n apt.. Very apt....

Meenu though is non existent for me...who jeeye ya bhaad mein jaye😆.....

Abhir did take this decision in hasty impulse ..... He did see scenario 1 happening.. Fine.. Kunal all devestated, Parul been kicked out, everything

Did he even think of scenario 2 how lifeless Mishti would be without him....He acted directly on scenario 2

I know guruji... Saying n acting in various situation is tough..... But atleast a little thought towards Mishti n her situation could have been there in his mind.....

Mishti no doubt loved Abhir more than bade Papa n badi maa.. More than anyone else...... With bade Papa it was a sense of gratitude which she had.. But with Abhir she was herself, he was the one on whom she had total haq.........He just took her for granted big time

Worst part just some time back he realised she risked her life, her engagement for him...... On top she even confirmed it in front of all..... Couldn't he see anything.. Any dam thing beyond Nanko? He saw how hurt Parul n Kunal will be... Did he see how Mishti will be.....

After seeing the breakup segment n today's segment how lifeless Mishti was...... My anger just continuous on Abhir.....

Yes he's devestated.. But he's taken it.. He's chosen that option......Insted of fighting or

I know Yaara it's easier said than done.... But he could have told Meenu to go ahead n then see how he'll support Nanko n Parul..... When Mishti was in the situation During jaldi...she was already feeling like a unwelcomed family member in maha family.. Except badi maa n bade Papa..... She was scared that if the marriage broke because of her she'll be blamed like every time.......n it was true.... Kuhu Varsha n even to n extent BM would not have liked If kuhus marriage had broken because of her love confession...... Moreover Kunal n Meenu were a team all were against her..

Here no one would have blamed Abhir.. All would have supported him..... Specially mishti...... Since she already knows the truth..... Yes she should have told that to Abhir.. But it was not a small thing n not her secret to tell

Just like Abhir broker Mishtis heart....... My love for this character has taken a sabbatical.... Weather he dances now or pretends it does not matter..

I'm so so so so sorry if my rant was negative or to much...I know I'm baised right now.... But......😔😔😔..... Pls bura maath maana guruji

This is all writers fault ...The laal dupatta see transfer hua Writer Haan🤣....

* *Anu runs before guruji hits her with a Danda**😆🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Main Dhoondne Ko

Zamaane Mein Jab Wafa Nikla

Pata Chala Ke Galat Leke

Main Pata Nikla

Kabhi kabhi acha banna bhi bura hota hai , kabhi kabhi timing hi galat hoti hai, it's very easy to judge to say yeh kar lete vo kar lete, par jab khud ki vaat lagti hai toh pata chalta hai hum kitne paani mein hai 😆

Unfortunate is the only word I can say now, I don't want to get into who is right, who is wrong , because honestly voh time gaya, the fact is that they aren't together now, I dont really feel like justifying anyone or blaming anyone, they both are just too good for the world

Ab koi kisi ke liye painting nahi banaege

Ab koi kisi ke liye campsite pe intezar nahi karega

Ab koi kisi se teen saval nahi puchega

Ab koi kisi ko suno....kuch nahi jaoo nahi kahega

Ab dono ek dusre se aise promises nahi karenge jo voh pure hi na kar sake

When a paraya hurts you , it doesn't pain as much as when a apna hurts you

Having said that I loved the episode, for its execution, cinematic brilliance and fantastic performances yet again , true actor is the one that can make you laugh or smile, if he can make you cry with the same conviction, now that is something to appreciate, hands down Rhea Sharma and Shaheer Sheikh prove it daily that only they deserve to play Mishti and Abir

The episode was divided in 2 parts , and a big thumbs up to makers for showing us 2 scenarios

Scenario 1

This was abir's imagination, what would have happened if he decides to choose mishti, the sequence and chain of events was bang on , meenu actually is such a low life that she can ruthlessly throw out parul and kunal , makers tired to show the situation then , will abir be happy to start his new life seeing his brother losing everything in life ? Will mishti be happy to see abir living in this pain ? Kunal mishti parul , he cant risk three lives like that , we also make promises to others , do we actually fulfill all our promises ? When we make promises, no doubt our intention is to always fulfill them , but circumstances aren't in our control, badi badi batein phir end mein vada paav khatein ho jaata hai though I wanted scenario one to be true, abir and family wont leave kunal and parul like that, mahs will also support kunal, zaalim aurat zyada se zyada property leke baith jaati na, baithne dete 😆 Bachi duniya toh duniya ka kya hai .. Tu kon hai tere naam hai kya , sita bhi yahan badnaam Hui... Mrs parekh aati ek eyebrow upar ek eyebrow niche karke 🤣 Taane maarne aur toh kya ... anyways abir's fear of losing his brother takes over him so he decides to go for scenario 2

Scenario 2

Now that's the actual reality, lol ...now this was one of my wishlist to actually see abir giving intensity shots to mishti for lying , for not trusting him enough, should I be happy about it or sad...I am not able to form an opinion...... before anyone jumps to any conclusion this was abir's setup , he doesn't believe what he says , just like during haldi fiasco mishti insulted kuhu, she didn't mean what she said ...same .. abir exactly knows where to hurt mishti , which is the right spot to attack ... say that she doesn't have a family and your job is done, this is the right statement to trigger bade papa also .. i don't know now what was that but he did say in between that " mishti mujhse rajgadh mein shaadi karna chahti thi " ... was he giving a hint to mishti , or was he referring to the statement given by mish in mishbir house that she wants to get married in rajgadh in baba's house ... abir ne soch liya tha ki itna neeche girunga ke zameen bhi bolegi ... sir jagah nahi hai please upar jao 🤣.... after a series of blah blah bakwas, abir ne swachh bharat abhiyan ka apnaan karte hue card phadaa aur chale Gaye....... abir is making things easy for mishti to move on by giving her this treatment , mutual break up hota toh mishti peeche nahi hat ti ...

Tadpe tu bhi dil mera dukha ke ......

Mishti is losing the most special person in her life - but not herself

But abir is not only losing the most special person in his life - he is losing himself too ...

Leaving it on you to decide what is more painful

Feeling sad for mishti will be an understatement, the girl has already suffered much in her life, she still keeps hope and positivity high and then she gets this ... I hope she learns to not blindly trust anyone in future , and also that lies have limited life !! And of course don't try to cross oceans for someone who showed no signs of crossing puddles also ..referring meenu here

In all this scenario I feel equally bad for parul too, I mean if I look at her life , what did she get , a cheater fraud husband , a backstabber best friend, a son who will never accept her as a mother , she lost all her roles in life all at once, when we talk about women empowerment, the first thing comes in my mind is the education , education gives you voice, an opinion , somewhere an opportunity to live life on your terms , kisi ke saamne ghutne tekne ki zarurat nahi padti tab , meenu jaise so called padhe likhe log uska faayda nahi uthate... she could have made her own life with kunal then .... only if ....

To defeat a Meenakshi Rajvansh , you need to educate a Parul

The episode was super duper high on emotions, and before the leap they are going to be the same , its upto you if you want to watch but if you seriously want to give an opinion about it...you have to watch to see what exactly happened ...the only one liner for the time being

The Crushing hopes , the breaking hearts 💔

...

@bold

Out of all your sayings,I oozed over this!!

Not just to defeat meenakshi,but to defeat every evil in this universe education is must.

Education not like meenakshi but like abir and mishti who r actually too good for the world.The best characteristics mishti has I root for them to attain in my life.

Guru ji 🤗🤗

Thank you for this awesome highlights... I totally agree no point blaming anyone...

Like you said if scenario 1 had happened, everyone would have supported Abir and Kunal and parul Maasi... Meenu would be left alone... But ITV me aisa hota to drama nahi hoga...

And also Abir couldn't take that risk... Meenu would have humiliated Kunal and parul... I Have come to think she loves her ego more than her son...

Bold- Maine bhi notice kiya.. It was purposely said or was a loose statement.. I don't know.. Everything looks like a hint since Shaheer said so, but if Mish recounts what Abir told her today then this will be glaringly obvious that Abir was not entirely telling her things to hurt her...

Lets see what happens...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Main Dhoondne Ko

Zamaane Mein Jab Wafa Nikla

Pata Chala Ke Galat Leke

Main Pata Nikla

Kabhi kabhi acha banna bhi bura hota hai , kabhi kabhi timing hi galat hoti hai, it's very easy to judge to say yeh kar lete vo kar lete, par jab khud ki vaat lagti hai toh pata chalta hai hum kitne paani mein hai 😆

Unfortunate is the only word I can say now, I don't want to get into who is right, who is wrong , because honestly voh time gaya, the fact is that they aren't together now, I dont really feel like justifying anyone or blaming anyone, they both are just too good for the world

Ab koi kisi ke liye painting nahi banaege

Ab koi kisi ke liye campsite pe intezar nahi karega

Ab koi kisi se teen saval nahi puchega

Ab koi kisi ko suno....kuch nahi jaoo nahi kahega

Ab dono ek dusre se aise promises nahi karenge jo voh pure hi na kar sake

When a paraya hurts you , it doesn't pain as much as when a apna hurts you

Having said that I loved the episode, for its execution, cinematic brilliance and fantastic performances yet again , true actor is the one that can make you laugh or smile, if he can make you cry with the same conviction, now that is something to appreciate, hands down Rhea Sharma and Shaheer Sheikh prove it daily that only they deserve to play Mishti and Abir

The episode was divided in 2 parts , and a big thumbs up to makers for showing us 2 scenarios

Scenario 1

This was abir's imagination, what would have happened if he decides to choose mishti, the sequence and chain of events was bang on , meenu actually is such a low life that she can ruthlessly throw out parul and kunal , makers tired to show the situation then , will abir be happy to start his new life seeing his brother losing everything in life ? Will mishti be happy to see abir living in this pain ? Kunal mishti parul , he cant risk three lives like that , we also make promises to others , do we actually fulfill all our promises ? When we make promises, no doubt our intention is to always fulfill them , but circumstances aren't in our control, badi badi batein phir end mein vada paav khatein ho jaata hai though I wanted scenario one to be true, abir and family wont leave kunal and parul like that, mahs will also support kunal, zaalim aurat zyada se zyada property leke baith jaati na, baithne dete 😆 Bachi duniya toh duniya ka kya hai .. Tu kon hai tere naam hai kya , sita bhi yahan badnaam Hui... Mrs parekh aati ek eyebrow upar ek eyebrow niche karke 🤣 Taane maarne aur toh kya ... anyways abir's fear of losing his brother takes over him so he decides to go for scenario 2

Scenario 2

Now that's the actual reality, lol ...now this was one of my wishlist to actually see abir giving intensity shots to mishti for lying , for not trusting him enough, should I be happy about it or sad...I am not able to form an opinion...... before anyone jumps to any conclusion this was abir's setup , he doesn't believe what he says , just like during haldi fiasco mishti insulted kuhu, she didn't mean what she said ...same .. abir exactly knows where to hurt mishti , which is the right spot to attack ... say that she doesn't have a family and your job is done, this is the right statement to trigger bade papa also .. i don't know now what was that but he did say in between that " mishti mujhse rajgadh mein shaadi karna chahti thi " ... was he giving a hint to mishti , or was he referring to the statement given by mish in mishbir house that she wants to get married in rajgadh in baba's house ... abir ne soch liya tha ki itna neeche girunga ke zameen bhi bolegi ... sir jagah nahi hai please upar jao 🤣.... after a series of blah blah bakwas, abir ne swachh bharat abhiyan ka apnaan karte hue card phadaa aur chale Gaye....... abir is making things easy for mishti to move on by giving her this treatment , mutual break up hota toh mishti peeche nahi hat ti ...

Tadpe tu bhi dil mera dukha ke ......

Mishti is losing the most special person in her life - but not herself

But abir is not only losing the most special person in his life - he is losing himself too ...

Leaving it on you to decide what is more painful

Feeling sad for mishti will be an understatement, the girl has already suffered much in her life, she still keeps hope and positivity high and then she gets this ... I hope she learns to not blindly trust anyone in future , and also that lies have limited life !! And of course don't try to cross oceans for someone who showed no signs of crossing puddles also ..referring meenu here

In all this scenario I feel equally bad for parul too, I mean if I look at her life , what did she get , a cheater fraud husband , a backstabber best friend, a son who will never accept her as a mother , she lost all her roles in life all at once, when we talk about women empowerment, the first thing comes in my mind is the education , education gives you voice, an opinion , somewhere an opportunity to live life on your terms , kisi ke saamne ghutne tekne ki zarurat nahi padti tab , meenu jaise so called padhe likhe log uska faayda nahi uthate... she could have made her own life with kunal then .... only if ....

To defeat a Meenakshi Rajvansh , you need to educate a Parul

The episode was super duper high on emotions, and before the leap they are going to be the same , its upto you if you want to watch but if you seriously want to give an opinion about it...you have to watch to see what exactly happened ...the only one liner for the time being

The Crushing hopes , the breaking hearts 💔

...

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Guruji🤗🤗🤗..

What can I say.... Perfectly perfect analysis👏👏👏... Can u believe I had written so much n even I hit post reply all got deleted

Writing again😆..... But beautiful beautiful analysis Yaara🤗🤗... You've explained the situation so beautifully....

Par..

Meri ek issue hai... I'm really not able to connect N not able to sympathize Much with Abhir. Pata nahi kyu🤔.. Is it the sadist in me🤔.. Is it the feminist in me🤔🤔... Or is it just Plain overAll anger Which I'm trying to put on Abhir.. I've no idea...... But like I said I cannot sympathize with Abhir........😭

That said your points are beautiful n apt.. Very apt....

Meenu though is non existent for me...who jeeye ya bhaad mein jaye😆.....

Abhir did take this decision in hasty impulse ..... He did see scenario 1 happening.. Fine.. Kunal all devestated, Parul been kicked out, everything

Did he even think of scenario 2 how lifeless Mishti would be without him....He acted directly on scenario 2

I know guruji... Saying n acting in various situation is tough..... But atleast a little thought towards Mishti n her situation could have been there in his mind.....

Mishti no doubt loved Abhir more than bade Papa n badi maa.. More than anyone else...... With bade Papa it was a sense of gratitude which she had.. But with Abhir she was herself, he was the one on whom she had total haq.........He just took her for granted big time

Worst part just some time back he realised she risked her life, her engagement for him...... On top she even confirmed it in front of all..... Couldn't he see anything.. Any dam thing beyond Nanko? He saw how hurt Parul n Kunal will be... Did he see how Mishti will be.....

After seeing the breakup segment n today's segment how lifeless Mishti was...... My anger just continuous on Abhir.....

Yes he's devestated.. But he's taken it.. He's chosen that option......Insted of fighting or

I know Yaara it's easier said than done.... But he could have told Meenu to go ahead n then see how he'll support Nanko n Parul..... When Mishti was in the situation During jaldi...she was already feeling like a unwelcomed family member in maha family.. Except badi maa n bade Papa..... She was scared that if the marriage broke because of her she'll be blamed like every time.......n it was true.... Kuhu Varsha n even to n extent BM would not have liked If kuhus marriage had broken because of her love confession...... Moreover Kunal n Meenu were a team all were against her..

Here no one would have blamed Abhir.. All would have supported him..... Specially mishti...... Since she already knows the truth..... Yes she should have told that to Abhir.. But it was not a small thing n not her secret to tell

Just like Abhir broker Mishtis heart....... My love for this character has taken a sabbatical.... Weather he dances now or pretends it does not matter..

I'm so so so so sorry if my rant was negative or to much...I know I'm baised right now.... But......😔😔😔..... Pls bura maath maana guruji

This is all writers fault ...The laal dupatta see transfer hua Writer Haan🤣....

* *Anu runs before guruji hits her with a Danda**😆🤗

🤗🤗 Hey cool yaara agar tum isse ranting kehti ho ... then take your words back re ...you were giving your views which you are entitled to...😃 ...aur mujhe kuch bura vura nahi lagta 😆

Ok now coming to your points ...

Meenu didn't give time to abir to imagine scenario 2 ... see he imagined scenario 1 with meenu calling kunal and then the drama started...when he came out of that imagination ... meenu immediately started kunal kunal...so before he could think anything...he thought isse pehle scenario 1 sach ho jaaye..let me go for scenario 2

I understand that emotinal abir part very well... right now what abir has done is absolutely right from where he comes.

...but someday toh kunal will get to know . Abir is just delaying the pain ... he can't protect kunal for life from this ultimate truth

The more the delay the more the pain

Also kunal will feel guilty also ...to protect him his brother had to go through the worst pain of his life

Abir didn't make a calculated move... that was more an emotional move which contradicts his neend mein bhi hoshiyari skills

But it's okay I have no complaints , coz mistakes happen..

In the process he has hurt mishti to infinity no doubt about it ... I have my full sympathies with mishti and honestly I want her to become a strong girl to give it back to RVs.... bade papa was right ..Rvs dont deserve mishti but ...abir had to do it this way only ...if you think way ...see he made things easy for her actually ... now she will feel ke dekho abir kitna bura insaan hai ...acha Hua maine break up kiya ...in this way she wont feel guilty about herself ...he made easy for her to move on

But haan mutual break up hota toh acha hota..I absolutely agree... mishbir vo couple hai jisme itni understanding hai bhi ...lekin usme drama nahi hota 😆

So....

Main toh bolti hun dono galat hai aur dono sahi bhi...haan mishti ke pass uski family toh hai dil halka karne ke liye ...nannu b ayega😆

Abir ke pass toh koi nahi hoga ...that's why somewhere I feel more for abir ...tiny bit more

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Main Dhoondne Ko

Zamaane Mein Jab Wafa Nikla

Pata Chala Ke Galat Leke

Main Pata Nikla

Kabhi kabhi acha banna bhi bura hota hai , kabhi kabhi timing hi galat hoti hai, it's very easy to judge to say yeh kar lete vo kar lete, par jab khud ki vaat lagti hai toh pata chalta hai hum kitne paani mein hai 😆

Unfortunate is the only word I can say now, I don't want to get into who is right, who is wrong , because honestly voh time gaya, the fact is that they aren't together now, I dont really feel like justifying anyone or blaming anyone, they both are just too good for the world

Ab koi kisi ke liye painting nahi banaege

Ab koi kisi ke liye campsite pe intezar nahi karega

Ab koi kisi se teen saval nahi puchega

Ab koi kisi ko suno....kuch nahi jaoo nahi kahega

Ab dono ek dusre se aise promises nahi karenge jo voh pure hi na kar sake

When a paraya hurts you , it doesn't pain as much as when a apna hurts you

Having said that I loved the episode, for its execution, cinematic brilliance and fantastic performances yet again , true actor is the one that can make you laugh or smile, if he can make you cry with the same conviction, now that is something to appreciate, hands down Rhea Sharma and Shaheer Sheikh prove it daily that only they deserve to play Mishti and Abir

The episode was divided in 2 parts , and a big thumbs up to makers for showing us 2 scenarios

Scenario 1

This was abir's imagination, what would have happened if he decides to choose mishti, the sequence and chain of events was bang on , meenu actually is such a low life that she can ruthlessly throw out parul and kunal , makers tired to show the situation then , will abir be happy to start his new life seeing his brother losing everything in life ? Will mishti be happy to see abir living in this pain ? Kunal mishti parul , he cant risk three lives like that , we also make promises to others , do we actually fulfill all our promises ? When we make promises, no doubt our intention is to always fulfill them , but circumstances aren't in our control, badi badi batein phir end mein vada paav khatein ho jaata hai though I wanted scenario one to be true, abir and family wont leave kunal and parul like that, mahs will also support kunal, zaalim aurat zyada se zyada property leke baith jaati na, baithne dete 😆 Bachi duniya toh duniya ka kya hai .. Tu kon hai tere naam hai kya , sita bhi yahan badnaam Hui... Mrs parekh aati ek eyebrow upar ek eyebrow niche karke 🤣 Taane maarne aur toh kya ... anyways abir's fear of losing his brother takes over him so he decides to go for scenario 2

Scenario 2

Now that's the actual reality, lol ...now this was one of my wishlist to actually see abir giving intensity shots to mishti for lying , for not trusting him enough, should I be happy about it or sad...I am not able to form an opinion...... before anyone jumps to any conclusion this was abir's setup , he doesn't believe what he says , just like during haldi fiasco mishti insulted kuhu, she didn't mean what she said ...same .. abir exactly knows where to hurt mishti , which is the right spot to attack ... say that she doesn't have a family and your job is done, this is the right statement to trigger bade papa also .. i don't know now what was that but he did say in between that " mishti mujhse rajgadh mein shaadi karna chahti thi " ... was he giving a hint to mishti , or was he referring to the statement given by mish in mishbir house that she wants to get married in rajgadh in baba's house ... abir ne soch liya tha ki itna neeche girunga ke zameen bhi bolegi ... sir jagah nahi hai please upar jao 🤣.... after a series of blah blah bakwas, abir ne swachh bharat abhiyan ka apnaan karte hue card phadaa aur chale Gaye....... abir is making things easy for mishti to move on by giving her this treatment , mutual break up hota toh mishti peeche nahi hat ti ...

Tadpe tu bhi dil mera dukha ke ......

Mishti is losing the most special person in her life - but not herself

But abir is not only losing the most special person in his life - he is losing himself too ...

Leaving it on you to decide what is more painful

Feeling sad for mishti will be an understatement, the girl has already suffered much in her life, she still keeps hope and positivity high and then she gets this ... I hope she learns to not blindly trust anyone in future , and also that lies have limited life !! And of course don't try to cross oceans for someone who showed no signs of crossing puddles also ..referring meenu here

In all this scenario I feel equally bad for parul too, I mean if I look at her life , what did she get , a cheater fraud husband , a backstabber best friend, a son who will never accept her as a mother , she lost all her roles in life all at once, when we talk about women empowerment, the first thing comes in my mind is the education , education gives you voice, an opinion , somewhere an opportunity to live life on your terms , kisi ke saamne ghutne tekne ki zarurat nahi padti tab , meenu jaise so called padhe likhe log uska faayda nahi uthate... she could have made her own life with kunal then .... only if ....

To defeat a Meenakshi Rajvansh , you need to educate a Parul

The episode was super duper high on emotions, and before the leap they are going to be the same , its upto you if you want to watch but if you seriously want to give an opinion about it...you have to watch to see what exactly happened ...the only one liner for the time being

The Crushing hopes , the breaking hearts 💔

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You have put everything in perspective!!! I agree with everything you have said esp about Parul........I dnt hate her...can only sympthize with her situation!!!!

One thing I agree the most with cool's post is he considered how Kunal would be affected but he didnt consider how mishti would fare?

I am not blaming him for his emotional impulsive decision ....he was put on spot.....but for once I want Mishti to have someone who will put her needs first...will prioritize her first....and that is not Abir IMO. Why should she be the sacrificial lamb for everyone ???

@blue - sometimes the little things are more painful to bear!!!