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Originally posted by: SheThought

Thanks Uru 😘

I am thinking of making this a separate post... I really want to make people feel better after the heartbreaking episode and their faith being shaken on Abir...

See you there buddy!

wow pali i wanted something like this... please do it soon yaar 🤗

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

wow pali i wanted something like this... please do it soon yaar 🤗

Just did Diyu 🤗

Please pen down your thoughts there...

I wanted to add some more thoughts but have too many interruptions... real life duties 😬

Originally posted by: SheThought

Just did Diyu 🤗

Please pen down your thoughts there...

I wanted to add some more thoughts but have too many interruptions... real life duties 😬

wow will read it asap dear... 🤗

i too have lots of thoughts will share there for sure thanks dear.. 🤗

haha hey its almost night time for you naa..

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Anu relax... they are the same mishbir... remember the airport scene that time too same happened then it was mishti now its abir but this time the pain is much deeper... but they will get through this too...

No third angle yaar... he is a friend thats all... mishbir will always be mishbir only re...

are are rant even i'm doing the same... 🤗 lets do it..

tbh firstly i want mishti to show the same understanding abir had during airport scene, even without she giving reason to trust her, understand her he did he understood she is doing all this for a reason even after she kept pushing him again n again... here even after private break up let her connect dots n understand he is pushing her away for a reason n then she needs to move on concentrate on her career n when after leap everything is solved n abir comes behind her let her show attitude, give hard time to him...

Meri light🤗🤗🤗.. Yaara I can't seem to cool down

She did connect the dots dear.. She did realise Abhir is doing this for some reason...... She did realise that big Ben is behind this.... That's why She comes to him.. She tells him that even if he's giving up on there love she'll fight for the love....

That why even when her keeps pushing her saying I Don't love you she kisses him, she keeps asking him.....

But when he cuts the chain, when he calls her parayi for whom he cannot divide his family...... He almost showed her she's worthless in his life why will she again connect dots yaar....

Mishti during her time want so rude to him..... She never verbally abused him.....n when he connected the dots n came to her she had hugged him back every time...

Where as he brutally rebuffed her when she connected the dots n came back to him

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

@Bold

This I completely agree Pali Yaara... We have invested our emotions love on MishBir.... However the breakup would be it would pain use for sure.. Wonder if the writers even care about the beautiful characters they write.. Because when they decide to kill it is brutal......

I remember J K Rowling.. Harry Potter creator..... In her interview she mentioned that when she killed that character dumbeldor .. She literally cried for the hole night. N her hubby was pacifying her....

I wonder if this show writers are even attached to Mishti Abhir.....

Yaar.... Insted of this brutal break up they could have made Abhir think for a while..... Fight or literally challenge Meenu to do what she wants he'll save Kunal n his love both.....

And even after this.. Such brutality was not needed with Mishti..... Calling her parayi, almost comparing her to his father..... Telling her that She'll break the family...... Why.... Why

Does Mishti deserves this?

Abhir took his own decision to stand by Nanko n his demon mom.... What wrong has Mishti done.. Where is her decision? Why should Mishti bare the pain because he couldn't even handle or challenge his mom........

Yes Abhir is vulnerable... But when he broke the engagement n rishta brutally rebuffed Mishti wasn't he giving her more pain....... Here if Nanko would have been broken after the truth he mishti kuhu n even Nanu would have been there to support his Nanko.. But who will be there to erase the humiliation he gave mishti.. Her love

His pain was his decision ... He took that decision of facing pain n killing love..... No one forced him......

Cool 🤗

I know it hurts, even though it’s fictional.... I hope we all can feel better soon!

Yaara I made a separate post for this, please put your thoughts there buddy!

I am not sure how much I would be able to participate tonight as real life calls and it’s 10:30pm already but we all can have a discussion on breakup there...

would love to read everyone’s thoughts 🤗

Originally posted by: SheThought

Copying what I just wrote in the LU thread, for those who don't come to that thread...

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Guys I know we are hurt but this is how I choose to look at Abir today...

First of all, we have to remember that he learnt something very painful about Kunal - just today. And his mom blatantly used this secret that she had been hiding for so long to blackmail him! She did not even give him time to digest or process it... Mahs were waiting at home and BB wanted him to decide now!

When Abir was thinking about Kunal and Mishti at the temple, he gets extremely emotional, he is thinking of both... And right then Kunal comes there and Abir is not able to hold back his feelings... he comes face to face with the new identity of his brother whom he loves so much and treats almost like his son! He becomes too vulnerable at that point overcoming with single-most feeling - to protect his Nanko!

Once he decides that, he has no other choice but to make Mishti believe that he is truly breaking their relationship! He knows that Mishti knows him too well... If he shows even a slightest doubt in his decision, Mishti will figure it out that he is doing this out of compulsion! So he takes charge of his emotions and puts this facade to break up with her... He has to make Mishti believe that he is truly over her and it is HIS decision to end their rishta!

We have invested so much time and energy and love into Mishti, Abir and MishBir... no matter how it would have ended, we would have been heartbroken! Seeing Mishti and Abir in pain for something that they nurtured with so much care and respect would have hurt us no matter who initiated it or under what circumstances!

And last thing to remember is this is a show. They have to have an element of drama.. the more painful the breakup, the more intense the next phase would be!

I agree with you Pali. They both are equally hurting with this breakup. Abir knows Mish more than she knows herself so he had to go to this extreme to convince her it’s over. But the whole sequence is completely contrary to what we know from Abir’s character so far so it’ll take a bit to digest especially being so very harsh to Mish that too in front of everyone.

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

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Are.. Koi nahi.....Join the club

Let Abhir cry buckets.. let him dance with Meenu n Nanko......Let him get the pinch of jelousey..... Let him earn back Mishti..........

I know.. But even I'll be Mad seeing Mishti with someone else..... Kya kare.. Abh writers have become so pathetic

Cool they have made Abir and Mishti a typical Indian TV couple. Sacrifice, pretend to hate each other, insert random jealousy track and then reunion. That is the worst part of this track and its sad because Abir-Mishti were different. I am afraid they are only going to ruin these two further for TRP

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Meri light🤗🤗🤗.. Yaara I can't seem to cool down

She did connect the dots dear.. She did realise Abhir is doing this for some reason...... She did realise that big Ben is behind this.... That's why She comes to him.. She tells him that even if he's giving up on there love she'll fight for the love....

That why even when her keeps pushing her saying I Don't love you she kisses him, she keeps asking him.....

But when he cuts the chain, when he calls her parayi for whom he cannot divide his family...... He almost showed her she's worthless in his life why will she again connect dots yaar....

Mishti during her time want so rude to him..... She never verbally abused him.....n when he connected the dots n came to her she had hugged him back every time...

Where as he brutally rebuffed her when she connected the dots n came back to him

meri cool here jhappis 🤗🤗🤗

i wont justify what abir did bcoz he is definitely wrong.. and what he is doing is something beyond imagination... but then i wont comment on this until we see what happens in episode... see abir is not someone to use such words n his understanding is not something we can doubt ever... so if he is pushing her so much there is a reason... i'm not saying her to realize it now connect dot but then after leap too i dont want abir to go behind her explaining himself... she can find out on her own if at all she wants to know...

Originally posted by: preeti200

I agree with you Pali. They both are equally hurting with this breakup. Abir knows Mish more than she knows herself so he had to go to this extreme to convince her it’s over. But the whole sequence is completely contrary to what we know from Abir’s character so far so it’ll take a bit to digest especially being so very harsh to Mish that too in front of everyone.

Yeah Preeti, Writers got us high on a MishBir for the last almost 180 episodes! We have certain concrete expectations from Abir... and today he appears to have failed our test... and it sure hurts!

I Made a separate post from my original post 👇🏼... please share your thoughts there and we all can discuss the breakup

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5131019#151847535

Saw the epi

Tadpe tu bhi dil mera dukha ke , dheere dheere se zindagi mein aa ke ...

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Guys, not justifying abir ...but the amount of pain that he planning to give to mishti , it's less than the amount of pain that he will be giving to himself

Mishti will lose abir - not herself

Abir will lose abir- himself , this is more painful than we can ever think

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Feeling bad very bad for mishbir.... this is unfortunate, both have been badly played

And no ... abir is not doing something shocking ...if you all remember mishku GD , there also he wanted to back out because of his bhai

Coming to his way of doing the break up , that's rude , extremely rude...but not something which is uncalled...he had to go for the tougher way ...

Please keep in mind ...he isnt doing it willingly..its a setup ...where more than mishti he is hurting himself

Having said that , I hope mishti learns her lessons and never blindly believes anyone in future

Abir has used a 2 way sword , one side killing mishti one side killing himself which ultimately kill meenu