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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Chalo change kiya to kiya.

Lekin give it a proper end? This is like Babita destroyed everything and then died. She destroyed everything then I want to see her rising like Phoenix and taking charge.

HS and Mini have their reconciliation. They understand each other. Attuned and fit perfectly. So what is Babita in between them? Just a prop? Use Mother as just a prop in Father - Daughter bond? This woman’s role was just to pop out 2 daughters? Is that why I was watching this show?

Exactly. It seems all she did was give birth to two feisty daughters. That’s all. No other purposes to the storyline. 🤔

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly. It seems all she did was give birth to two feisty daughters. That’s all. No other purposes to the storyline. 🤔

Way to be progressive KK. 🤔

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly. It seems all she did was give birth to two feisty daughters. That’s all. No other purposes to the storyline. 🤔

A woman’s true worth. 👏

And who says she didn’t have a purpose to storyline? She is making HS and Mini’s life miserable. They get to play victims of evil Babita’s emotional atyachar. There — a purpose!

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know what else struck me, Gur?

Let me see if I can articulate this... Minnie had always been a modern, smart girl and more worldly-wise than most people her age.

She grew up at the Khuranas with a decent life, and I suppose decent education too. They were a 'modern' family in terms of rehen sehen.

When she came to live with HS, she found him to be an earthy guy with all this rustic flavor. He was progressive in his thinking but that's because it had evolved over time, thanks to Imarti. However, his basic upbringing and surroundings had always been modest, especially compared to the Khuranas. He did not go to a top school, nor was he given a 'modern' upbringing, his mother seemed quite traditional form the photos, the haveli had an old-school feel to it, he himself had a very simple outlook on life as we saw with his lifestyle and dress, he did not speak English so well (we'd see Minnie correct him), etc. You get the gist.

His needs are simple and he is happy with his modest lifestyle. Given all that and Minnie's potential to be socially and economically more advanced, I don't think she could have stayed with HS for too long. He would always be there with arms open but her heart would desire much more, open skies, to travel the world, etc. You can also see in the new show promo that Minnie appears to be quite 'modern' in her dress and style.

That stark difference was highlighted in that imaginary phone call. He in the very 'gaon' style loudly asking if she could hear him, whereas she very calmly told him she could but it was as though his voice was distant, his world was distant. Even the way they were holding the phone shows this difference. The screenplay was remarkable.

I hope this made some sense. It's something I've observed since the beginning but it was really visible again today.

I have observed this too since the beginning. No doubt they love each other immensely but I sometimes wonder if this has played a role in her not wanting to give him father status. ( not disregarding Minis love for HS here)

I also feel this ganvaarpan of his has contributed to his insecurities regarding not being good enough for her father's role somewhere.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I have observed this too since the beginning. No doubt they love each other immensely but I sometimes wonder if this has played a role in her not wanting to give him father status. ( not disregarding Minis love for HS here)

I also feel this ganvaarpan of his has contributed to his insecurities regarding not being good enough for her father's role somewhere.

I don't think he qualify as ganwaar. Most people from villages, lower middle class behave just like him. It's just how they are, minimal pretentiousness.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I don't think he qualify as ganwaar. Most people from villages, lower middle class behave just like him. It's just how they are, minimal pretentiousness.

He isn't a ganvaar in any sense but he thinks he is one. He has said this before. He thinks quiet low of himself.
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Jiarao

He isn't a ganvaar in any sense but he thinks he is one. He has said this before. He thinks quiet low of himself.

No I think what he meant was his mannerism are not that of higher class. Once he said to babita that main gawar hu aap padhe likhe ho.... but still he was the one guiding her at that time. So what he meant was I'm not a polished person, not that he thinks low of himself.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Mohan bhatnagar was a class apart... Hanuman Singh se bohut agey.. that guy was just something else❤️ his bond with Nanhi. His deep love for Megha.. everything was just perfect.. he was human.. he had his flaws.. but man was he the most perfect character ever.. season 1 of NBT is miles ahead of PB.. it does not hold a torch to that it.. it was realistic and yet.. sigh.. NBT is my fav Indian show.. nothing could ever come close to that show or Mr and Mrs bhatnagar

now I have to go watch it

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Well, Ekta Kapoor produced Hum paanch. She is well capable of doing equally great work again. Just that saas bahu drama are more in demand than shows like hum paanch.

Well, if you look at the kind of films she produces or gets involved with you see the creativity. She has a much more diverse offering there.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I think they never planned to show HS- Mini bonding. It was always Mini trying to solve her mother's issues with the help of HS.

It was much later they realized audience rooting for father-daughter relationship and Babitha was left out in their dynamics. They wanted to bring Babitha in the middle and show her grow emotionally while balancing relationships. Then suddenly they wanted to bring a new season with Mini and she needed some dark past . So all the character butchering. Otherwise I don't see any reason for Babitha turning so regressive ( though she was less mature emotionally , she wasn't regressive. Else she won't have given Mini this much freedom) and HS accusing Mini of all the people.

This is where things really went haywire. Fine, show as many flaws as you like but make it realistic and organic at least!

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