ये रिश्ते हैं प्यार के Live Updates/Episode Discussions 14 Nov 2019 - Page 22

Originally posted by: Onyourface

The entire post cracked me up 🤣🤣

Mishti's trajectory in a nutshell 🤣 From I will save you to it is your family matter 🤣🤣

Main toh pehle hi keh rahi thi ...boat badal lete hain

Hai na guruji🤣...

Dekho na moon is losing its trajectory😭...

Earth also isn't caring either

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

yaar both are hiding things in the name of protecting the other but what mish did is beyond my understanding... how did she trust meenu to handle everything n abir didnt question mish much like before... now i feel they are better off as friends... atleast then they were honest n were supporting each other...

Pehle toh Friendship milte the....ab romance bhi nahin ...friendship toh👎🏼

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Varna apan cool se kahenge...supari dede sabki 😆

Ha Hum sab contribute karenge usmein🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Nandu I understand their fears insecurities n everything but why it has to conveniently appear and disappear

very good question uru ji👏 IF only, IF only I knew why?

as Kunal would say... I now say..

"sab writers/RS ki galti hai"

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Kaise din aaye hain 😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Abir's blessing and curse in disguise - is his ability to look over/forgive too easily.

Abir has never pushed or forced Mishti in opening up about anything. He's always felt and knows there is something wrong, he does question her once maybe twice - but never pushes further. This method works well when they are just friends, best friends and even during the one-sided love phase - Abir always gives her time to realise her own feelings, emotions, and make informed decisions.

However, the issue now is - Abir needs to realise if they are going to life partners, he needs to step up his intensity with Mish, he has every right to ask her questions...

1. He questions mishti at rajgadh on KC, but then backs off when she faints. He has every right to ask her again what's going on - why she's lying about shopping for curtains, why she's out at night in rajgad etc.. but he stops because he thinks he isn't ready to hear anything when he hears "Mehul Kapadia" from the pandit ji.

2. Mishti apologises for being late on godhana - and he simply says "you haven't eaten anything"? Seriously, any normal man should be mad that she took this long to simply make an appearance - surely he's been waiting for more than 2 hours. Who does that? When mishti says she will tell Abir everything after the godhana, he knows something is wrong but trusts her she will say after. Even then he had every right to so "no, tell me now so we don't have to worry during the ceremony"

3. Even after the godhana ceremony - Mishti sitting alone (aloof in thoughts). Abir tries to cheer her up as usual, then immediately expresses his worries. One simple thing he had to ask "Mishti, what were you wanting to tell me before the godhana? why did it have to wait until after?" that's it.

Abir just too soft and gentle, most of the time we love it!But there are times when he just needs to be firm with Mishti. It's all a learning process

I believe in my man! He'll do what is right.

I couldn't haver put it better Yaara.... Very well put......

Both actually need time... This engagment n marriage was literally a shocker to them... Initiated by baba........

Ok now since everything is falling in place can't they as leads as couples talk and sort it out....... Does only Meenu matter.. Does only Nanko matter....kesee?

The dam writers haven't even given a chance for MishBir convo.. Just for creating seperation...

Kuch convo.. Kuch words tho bolte ekdoosreko

It's their engagement n entire attention was on MeMe...n Abhir Meenu or simply mishti... Where were MishBir????????????

Like I said....'I'LL SAVE YOU' gone with the wind n suddenly ' I SHOULD LEAVE YOU WITH YOUR MOM ALONE'

Atleast she could have stood there....... As a sign of support to Abhir when he broke down before Meenu....... She could have stood there.... But she randomly left....

Also just a sec back Abhir couldn't hear baba yelling at Mishti.. And just a couple of seconds back.. Dissent even care that the girl has left alone...

Really...i mean the fans here write amazing scripts when it comes to MishBir scene......

Worst worst part

No convo, no proper scene..baki Saab tho exist hi nahi karta....

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I totally agree diya! It was inevitable that Meenu would still go back to her usual planning/plotting..🤔

The real question now is MKM..will he truly be the bhai Abir deserves? Will he support mishbir against Meenu? I'm going to hope for the best👍🏼

@bold: yet to watch the episode. But the WRITERS have really messed up the character dialogues/monologues in regards to Mehul's truth. Mishti was the one who immediately called Abir from rajgad to tell the truth, she even wanted to tell him everything when she came back to godhana...now what the hell happened?

Abir has realised his mistake of trusting mehul blindly...mishti has nothing to lose now, Abir has found the truth himself. What's the problem now? She can keep the Kunal birth truth if she wants...but she can tell everything else right?😔

#disappointed with writers.

They have set the bar so high with mishbir's relationship over the 7 months, that they've had to make some illogical changes to their character (mishti hiding truth, Abir being too emotional). They just made the audience have high expectations, and now the break-up seems required but it seems forced by the mistakes writers made with mishbir😭

let see how they deal with mishbir's fight/break-up...

yaar i'm mostly sure nanko will be positive going by the ishara we got..

very true yaar this track is very much messy.. nothing made sense yaar except for kuku story.. from marriage to divorce everything had open n proper reason...

@bold - this is the most irritating part yaar... first it was for abir then suddenly she saying everything to meenu n letting her handle things n saying its their family matter very very contradicting... and abir he always senses when mish is in trouble n takes some action but this time he was a emotional mess but he atleast didnt went off track so much...

yaar can i say onething mish always listened to meenu only even during mishkun gordhana she listened to meenu advice on job n let her talk to kunal, during haldi she went by meenu's order, now trusted meenu to handle things..

if at all break up is because of meeu i'm somewhere ok with it as it will be lesson for mish for always listening to meenu n trusting her even though meenu failed her again n again...

from abir side we havent got on what basis its gonna be.. lets wait n see

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Aww Thank you thank you for little mercies 🤗🤗😆

Cant control myself today ... 😆 Exactly opposite to what I expected... this wasn't the climax I was waiting for vo bhi ... is ke liye subh jaldi uthi main

Ji zarur ... naya role mubarak behna...Guruji 2.0

⭐️

🤗

I know somewhere towards the end of the lakeside scene, things began to derail off the logic train. I also have some issues with episode, potential upcoming stories but overall most disappointed with the writing👎🏼

nevertheless I will post some positive highlights soon👍🏼

THANKYOU for such a high honour!

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Thanks yaar.👍🏼 Yes right now, it appears like Mishti has made the larger mistakes by hiding the truth for too long and covering with lies. And I agree she has made faults, although her intentions were in the best interest of Abir's emotional well-being.

But yes, as human beings, as characters BOTH abir and mishti have flaws that extend from deep-rooted childhood pain and insecurity. They have to sort these things out by actually talking about this openly and find ways to be each others' strength to overcome these fears to lose one another.

I'm glad the writers are trying to maintain these lead characters as HUMAN beings who make mistakes. Mishti and Abir both know to accept their mistakes and know their flaws and each others' strengths.

@bold: this is also what I was hinting about in another post. The writers have messed and twisted mishti and abir's character for the sake of Mehul's dark truth cliche track. Mishti has had some logical strong dialogues/monologues, but then they mix it up with illogical reasoning too Abir suddenly became an emotional mess who seemed to lose connection with his hoshiyaar mind. Basically this entire Baba track was a whole goof up by the writers. There was so much potential, when Baba entered to make him positive with grey shades..alas, ab rona kya faida?

haha haa yaar, oddly both Kuhu and Kunal have come out much better from this dark horrible Baba track😆 They are both starting to talk actual logical words👍🏼 Keep it up.

@bold- Socha bhi naa tha aisa din bhi aayega😆 Kuku more relatable than mishbir😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I still feel Abir is only deeply guilty and sorry for his distrust in Baba's matter. Otherwise if anyone tries to say ill about Mishti, or tries to hurt her. Abir will still defend her.👍🏼🤗

Abir breaking up with Mishti will solely be on the basis of his own feelings - after learning of Mishti's lies. If Meenu tries to hurt mishti or plot against mishti, I'm sure Abir will not agree to cancel marraige just bec Meenu says so..🤔

he can't break his promises to BP.

I still stan Abir and his love for Mishti - it's much superior to his guilt with Meenu.❤️

this i totally agree nandu when it comes to mish he will not listen to anyone... even today he remembered hurting meenu bcoz of baba not other instances..

@bold - word nandu..