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Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I don't see any chance of babita becoming Victor on her own now.Hanuman has given up on her. Obviously either Minnie or Naeem bi will spoon-feed her about right and wrong. That is realization rather than being victor. And either way babita's character is totally screwed.

Then why is this RS preaching about Victor vs Victim?? If she wants to preach that, then why is she making Babita stoop to this level??

Whatever Babita they are showing right now doesn't make sense to me one bit. They had to do a 360 turn on her character maybe to show how Mini was a victim in all this. Pehle apne Papaji ke wajah se, now apni Babes ki wajah se.. paving their way for Victim Mini in S2, and Mini part 2 via Arya, thus phir se Mini and Babes

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Even if Babita becomes a "victor" right now, then what's the point? These past few episodes didn't show any signs of her growth or her learning anything. There are higher chances of this simply being a passing phase and her falling back to her old ways.

They should define what victory means. Competing with Ashok and "winning"? Giving in to the right people? Why does not being a victim even imply that one has to compete at all?

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I don't see any chance of babita becoming Victor on her own now.Hanuman has given up on her. Obviously either Minnie or Naeem bi will spoon-feed her about right and wrong. That is realization rather than being victor. And either way babita's character is totally screwed.

Even then, I don't see it as a moment of realization. Instead, she'll see it as another "log kya kahenge". If everyone's saying it, then it must be true. So might as well do as they say before they get a chance to say anything else. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Then why is this RS preaching about Victor vs Victim?? If she wants to preach that, then why is she making Babita stoop to this level??

Whatever Babita they are showing right now doesn't make sense to me one bit. They had to do a 360 turn on her character maybe to show how Mini was a victim in all this. Pehle apne Papaji ke wajah se, now apni Babes ki wajah se.. paving their way for Victim Mini in S2, and Mini part 2 via Arya, thus phir se Mini and Babes

The thing is we were seeing a beautiful journey of Babita transitioning from a victim to a victor. But RS single handedly ruined all that progression and pushed her back into victimhood. Now, if Babita even does anything then it won't be seen as a victory from any angle.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

The thing is we were seeing a beautiful journey of Babita transitioning from a victim to a victor. But RS single handedly ruined all that progression and pushed her back into victimhood. Now, if Babita even does anything then it won't be seen as a victory from any angle.

Do you think the character of Babita would have realised she's back to the start? As long as HS lets her do whatever, she would think she's in charge hence not a victim. She would only flip if she wouldn't feel in control, like with the letter.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Then why is this RS preaching about Victor vs Victim?? If she wants to preach that, then why is she making Babita stoop to this level??

Whatever Babita they are showing right now doesn't make sense to me one bit. They had to do a 360 turn on her character maybe to show how Mini was a victim in all this. Pehle apne Papaji ke wajah se, now apni Babes ki wajah se.. paving their way for Victim Mini in S2, and Mini part 2 via Arya, thus phir se Mini and Babes

Doesn't make sense to me either. But some people are saying that her obsession with log Kya kahenge has been consistent and her current behavior isn't out of line. I have hard time believing that but could be true. Maybe Minnie was supposed to be protagonist as per PH but then projecting ashnoor as lead and paridhi as her sidekick wouldn't have attracted viewers. Paridhi wouldn't have accepted the role either. Entire 200 episode was probably a set up to make Minnie main protagonist....

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

The thing is we were seeing a beautiful journey of Babita transitioning from a victim to a victor. But RS single handedly ruined all that progression and pushed her back into victimhood. Now, if Babita even does anything then it won't be seen as a victory from any angle.

I don't understand what she got out of this. Who wants to see a victim-victor-back to victim story. That is so fcking sad. For the real life Babitas who might not have had the courage to break free from a cheater or abusive husband, this was an inspiring story. Now showing this Babita has fallen back into victimhood after achieving success, freedom and love... what message are you exactly trying to give? Who wants to see this dark side? Where is the hope to try to overcome all the complications life has thrown at you? Where is the hope to stand up and face the challenges even if you fall sometimes?

Its just really sad. Just really really sad.

I kinda wanna message this RS personally on fb and just genuinely let her know how she's breaking people's spirit and hope by showing this.

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Do you think the character of Babita would have realised she's back to the start? As long as HS lets her do whatever, she would think she's in charge hence not a victim. She would only flip if she wouldn't feel in control, like with the letter.

Bang on. As long as no one is there to stop her from making any decision, rational or irrational she won't realize that things are going wrong. I blame Hanuman for not calling her out even though he's upset with her decision. He's too late now. If only babita will realize that if she doesn't stop now she might lose her husband as well, she would stop. And losing obviously means another divorce, she's oblivious to emotional detachment.

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Do you think the character of Babita would have realised she's back to the start? As long as HS lets her do whatever, she would think she's in charge hence not a victim. She would only flip if she wouldn't feel in control, like with the letter.

Nope.

In her mind, she thinks she has come really far because she now has a husband like HS who loves her and with whom she can fulfill all the duties and rituals of being a wife. According to her, the catering service was never an ambition of hers so its existence doesn't hold any value. As for Minnie, as long as she stays with her, Babita will think she has everything.

She doesn't want to let either of them go anywhere because she's terrified of what the distance will do to them. Again, hence her need to have a tight control over the people and situations around her.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I don't understand what she got out of this. Who wants to see a victim-victor-back to victim story. That is so fcking sad. For the real life Babitas who might not have had the courage to break free from a cheater or abusive husband, this was an inspiring story. Now showing this Babita has fallen back into victimhood after achieving success, freedom and love... what message are you exactly trying to give? Who wants to see this dark side? Where is the hope to try to overcome all the complications life has thrown at you? Where is the hope to stand up and face the challenges even if you fall sometimes?

Its just really sad. Just really really sad. I kinda wanna message this RS personally on fb and just genuinely let her know how she's breaking people's spirit and hope by showing this.

Please do that. Tell her how she ruined what once was a source of inspiration to a lot of women out there.