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inlieu

@inlieu

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Posted: 5 years ago

#931

Originally posted by: Jiarao
I wasn't saying Mini won't listen to him. I was saying CVs never gave us HS pov regarding CD incident .
HS has always played his role and still playing.

@bold, yeah that was deliberately never shown. I still don't get why, especially if it relates to Minnie after all.

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Jiarao

@Jiarao

Voyager

Posted: 5 years ago

#932

Originally posted by: inlieu
@bold exactly, but then again she's at that age and stage when she doesn't think about such things in much depth.
Yes, he will always be compared and that's unfair but this is what a lot of second/step spouses face. There's nothing HS can do except continue to be a loving family member. He has two people in his family who are carrying a lot of baggage and deep wounds.
What they all need is therapy, like proper counseling.

I understand she is still young and needs time to understand such things. Her experiences about relationships is limited . She can only understand the complexities of a relationship when she gets into one. It's the CVs who want to show her half baked ideas of empowerment and relationships as ultimate truth.

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MG_Inactive

@MG_Inactive

Dazzler

Posted: 5 years ago

#933

Gur is still not here😭 PB ke barbaad hone par itna dukh nahi hua tha 😭

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naq5

@naq5

Rocker

Posted: 5 years ago

#934

Originally posted by: Jiarao
I agree with you here. The truth is she wanted to be his daughter but didn't want him to be her father. I don't blame her for this. It's hard to accept someone else as your father even if your biological father is a murderer. What I don't like about her is judging HS for not being able to be her father. She doesn't realise he can be her father only when she wants him to be.
The ultimate truth is both Babitha and Mini are still stuck with Ashok and no matter what HS does he will always be compared to Ashok.

Yes she wanted to be his daughter. She was happy also about it. But yes her accepting HS as a father was a thing which was on progression. The CD thing made her feel he really dosent accept me as daughter so that stopped the progression of accepting him as father. For mini I believe HS is more than father. And father ka place ashok had all these years. The position of father dosent hold a very nice place in her thought. So for her to give HS that position it would take a lot of time. Some relations spoil so much that us rishte se hi roob jate hai. That is what happened to mini. She can accept HS as friend mentor hero anything. Father ka place dena hoga to there will be a comparison in her mind about both and it dosent help that she is trying to block ashok away from her mind. And secondly I have never seen mini comparing ashok HS after she confronted ashok for complaining against HS. Babita has kept comparing hs and ashok and keeps going back to it but mini has never compared them.

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Jiarao

@Jiarao

Voyager

Posted: 5 years ago

#935

Originally posted by: naq5
Yes she wanted to be his daughter. She was happy also about it. But yes her accepting HS as a father was a thing which was on progression. The CD thing made her feel he really dosent accept me as daughter so that stopped the progression of accepting him as father. For mini I believe HS is more than father. And father ka place ashok had all these years. The position of father dosent hold a very nice place in her thought. So for her to give HS that position it would take a lot of time. Some relations spoil so much that us rishte se hi roob jate hai. That is what happened to mini. She can accept HS as friend mentor hero anything. Father ka place dena hoga to there will be a comparison in her mind about both and it dosent help that she is trying to block ashok away from her mind. And secondly I have never seen mini comparing ashok HS after she confronted ashok for complaining against HS. Babita has kept comparing hs and ashok and keeps going back to it but mini has never compared them.

I really don't have a problem with her not accepting HS as father. If she accepts good for her, if not her loss. 🤷‍♀️ But I do have a problem with her sense of entitlement and her dialogues like' woh mere father nahi bansakte' Meri family sirf meri babes hai etc...

Comparing HS to Ashok doesn't always need to be verbal. It can also be having Ashok always in the back of mind and being unable to accept the reality.