Sanjivani 2 Forum : Chat club #3 - Page 17

Originally posted by: Draconian

@Sona, What happened? Why u disappeared from here?

Plz...Ab tussi bhi hame akela chod, na jaao

Originally posted by: kavya1994

~Earlier I thought Vardhan just wants professional benefits but he has motives to take revenge from Shashank. He wants to take away every emotional support from him.

~He is almost done with Anjali, now in process of removing Sid & Ishani. He knows very well they both are emotional & have a bad past, which are their weak point. Rishabh is already a puppet under him. Maybe from somewhere Vardhan comes to know about Asha-Aman relationship & her pregnancy, then he makes Aman scared & ask him to run away. Post that maybe he is the one who suggests Asha to trap Sid in this situation by counting them benefits of the situation, first her unborn baby will get father's name plus she will get saved from facing tauntrams of her community and second by removing Ishani from her way she can have better opportunities for being permanent resident in Sanjivani. Also he only asks Asha to do suicide drama & calls Sid for help & when he comes pretend as if the call was connected to him by mistake.

~I have strong feeling that makers are turning her negative. This could be the reason why Rashmi ( previous Asha) quits this show. Now they show her as insecure wife who wants her sauten out of her married life. Again sauten drama here

~I don't think Vardhan's main purpose is to fire Sid, he only wants him out of his way, which he can do by making Sid hate Shanky & go against him for some reasons so that when Shashank needs them to save Sanjivani, he isn't with Shanky.

~Sid's mom & Shashank's story is also there. Chances are there that he is some way related/ responsible that Sid is without father. Sid will go against Shanky same like Anjali if this is the case. Maybe this secret too Vardhan knows & will use it in future. So he broke Sid from both sides first by losing his love & second by revealing that the person whom he respect so much is responsible for his pain he suffers all these years.

~Ishani too in broken state because of heartbreak & other side busy in sauten play with Asha.So she will also be not in a state to stand by Shashank.

~Last Juhi is left, for that Dr Rahul is already there on Vardhan's side. Rahul's entry is enough to bring storm in Juhi's life plus revelation of actual reason for firing her will also broke her. So this support of Shanky will also leave him.

After that Vardhan can easily make his last move that will make Shashank lose the war & his revenge will be completed.

Your analysis is bang on and it helped clear up every single doubt since it covers all the points and leaves no loose ends .

But the bad thing is , your post also made me feel bad for Dr. Sid , which I don't want to feel right now since he wrecked havoc in the life of my girl .

I just wish Sid , for once , does the gentlemanly thing and let Ishani go on an honest and genuine note . Not give mooney eyes in her direction and follow her around. She's not his to take care of . Not any more. He's made his bed and now must lay on it for good. All his attentions should be directed towards the new wife of his . He can't have laddoos in both hands. He can't hope and pine for what is morally, socially and legally out of his reach.

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

Well the sad thing is , I'm yet to see a forum that is crowded as well as positive. 😆 It's like seeing a unicorn. Or a ghost. 😆

😆Well I have seen some positive forum & also seen forum with over positivity where you say one comment against some track & all will ready to attack you.

Nowadays , I value peace of my mind more than anything . So I'd rather go for a cozy little forum than one full of ... drama , to put it politely.

Peace of mind is must nowadays.

I'm quite new to watching this show, I confess . I saw a few clips in IG in SC's tag and loved their chemistry ( Sidisha ) and started watching from both ends . I'm now on episode 39 as well as watching the recent episodes. I believe I'd be done catching up with all the old episodes within this weekend.

Earlier SidIsha has so much potential, but with change in storyline the Medical drama has turned into Pati, Patni & Woh drama🥱

Sounds like I missed out on quite a bit of fun discussing the show's earlier episodes.

The first 25episodes was so good. Everyday new members comes to forum & appreciates the episode. Most of us are surprised by medical cases they have shown as u know it's ITV even though there are flaws. Also between 12 to 25 we eagerly waits for the episode so that we can discuss. There were difference of opinions but one finds them equally correct if they look from that character's point of view. CC was so full of fun & gives family wali feeling, there we keep guessing what will happen if Rahul comes, expecting to get Iconic Rahul-Juhi love story back, so much. Also in forum there were blame game between ShaHi & SidIsha fans for low trps😆

Anyways happy to have you here. Loved reading your post in forum. Put it very nicely.

~Replies in italics.

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

That's exactly what he's trying to do I must guess. Divide and rule policy . The same that he'd been doing with Anjali , Shashank and Juhi.

Yeah, why is he a smart guy when it comes to Anjali, Shashank, and Juhi; and a food when it comes to Ishani and Sid.

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

All that is very good and makes sense too and " still a stigma " is like the understatement of the year because it's still a HUGE and I mean enormous issue in our India , no matter which social strata you belong to . But still what about Ishani ?? Wasn't it rather reckless or should I say, senseless of Asha to not take care of proper contraceptions before embarking on her wild journey to pleasure of flesh ?? Why must Ishani have to suffer because of another woman's gross indiscretion ?? Sid has proved that he cares nothing about Ishani by this little stunt of his . Didn't it ever occur to him , how lonely and without any friends or family she is , and didn't he think that by taking away both her love and her friend would crush and emotionally cripple her ?? Did he care ?

He doesn't mind condemning one woman ( whom he claims to love even if only to himself .) for rescuing another. Shows clearly where his priorities lie.

I'm very disappointed that Ishani isn't holding it against him that this is the solution he came up with to rescue Asha and I hope she doens't run after a married man. And Sid should just leave her alone and not follow her around like a crestfallen puppy.

It is reckless. I never said that it was not reckless. Ishani doesn't have to suffer; I agree with you. However, the situation is not as if Ishani and Sid are dating and he left her to marry Asha because Asha is pregnant; it's not as if they were engaged to be married and Sid left. If you recall, Sid gave no promises; in fact he did everything to push Ishani away from him. We are worry about Ishani because she is the protagonist and the female leads of the show however, if this is a real life situation then this is nothing. I don't think Sid is obligated to take care of Ishani's emotional health; he is not her boyfriend let alone husband.

Also, why is it always the women who are blamed for this situation? The women who have no shamed. The women who have no morals? It takes two to tango. The men also have pleasures of the flesh; the men should also use condoms; YET, somehow, it is always the women's fault. Life's unfair.

Okay, here's a question: If a guy wants to break up because he is no longer happy with the relationship or the relationship has become toxic; and the girl threatens to kill herself by drinking rat poison. Does the guy need to stay with her and marry her?

Oh come on, he doesn't condemn Ishani. People have heartbreaks; most people eventually move on. Why does Ishani's life had to be ruined? It's not like left her in the altar or, it's not like Sid impregnated her and left her alone. They are not even officially dating and in a relationship with one another; they haven't sleep with each other. She can move on like everybody else; she can find new guy like everybody else; she can fall in love again. How is Sid condemning Ishani?

She has gotten her closure; she doesn't hold it against Sid for the reasons for he is doing it. What is she supposed to do? Hate Sid forever? Ruin his life? I don't know why should she carry herself around with bitterness if she doesn't have to. Carrying bitterness is difficult; I think one should only carry bitterness if one is not able to let go. Also, yes I hope that Ishani will not follow Sid ke peeche. That would be undignified of her.

Originally posted by: kavya1994

@Sona, What happened? Why u disappeared from here?

Plz...Ab tussi bhi hame akela chod, na jaao

Ghatiya show nahi dekhna🤢

So it’s revealed that dr asha is involved with vardhaan 😡😡I don’t believe he want to ruin anjali shashank and sid uhhh and he blackmailed asha with her preggy thing

Yeh show is turned into ekta kapoor show now 😬 I I think I am done

Originally posted by: kavya1994

Yes it's Sid decision to get into this mess & become Mahaan which he has done. But now why he can't leave Ishani in her state, why he wants to talk to her now, when he himself avoided her when she comes to him to sort out things. If he loves Ishani so much, then what's the need to reveal her that he was coming to her that night & was planning something special for her while telling the truth. Can't he cut that part, can't he pretend the same as earlier,that he wasn't interested in her & took this decision only for Asha. Why to show others that he sacrificed his love just to save Asha's dignity. It will be better & helpful for Ishani to come out this phase if he don't tell her that things, as she thinks her love was one sided, which she misunderstands as two sided.

Today Ishani gives all Mahaanta wale looks to Sid & says that what he has done was right & give a clean pass to him, it feels like that makers are trying to encourage the act of Sid. If a unmarried man is having a traumatized past like Sid, & finds any girl in a situation exactly similar to Asha, then the perfect solution in that situation is to marry her😏 How much makers try but I can't digest this stupid decision of Sid in 2019 especially when they both are doctors of so great Hospital , if it's 80's or 90's or ekta's serial then it's a different thing.

What to say about Asha, why madam ji don't care about these things earlier before doing gulu-gulu with Aman, doesn't she know the possible consequences of her actions & what will happen if she becomes preggy without wedlock. If she is all ready for physical relationship on her own earlier, then she should be ready alone to face the consequences also, why to spoil other's life(even if they're insisting) for your actions. Now I m done with this character ✋.

Btw tell me who dies that quickly by cutting nerve, & madam has no bandage on wrist the next day when she comes all happily after marriage in hospital.

I agree that one is not obligated to marry whom he/she loves. But if one marries someone he/she must be completely loyal to their partners in every sense, moving on with the past if they have.

Even I want the same, that Ishani should maintain a distance from Sid now but I can too see the same that it's not going to happen😔

Yes, indeed it is Sid's decision and it is his life to ruin; if he ever regrets it in the future he will have nothing and no one to blame but himself. Ishani found out the true reason why Sid married Asha in the first place from Aman, she asked Sid about it. Sid must have felt that he was caught red-handed and therefore confessed everything to Ishani. This is also one of the ways where Ishani can get her closures from. Earlier you wanted Ishani to get closure; now you've got what you want. I think it is fair for everybody; everybody can move on from this phase.

So, what do you expect Ishani to do? Scream and shout and demand that he divorces Asha to be with her? I am really confused here.

How did she exactly spoil other people's life. It's not as if she begged Sid to marry her. She just said that this is the consenquences she had to face moving forward if she opts to continue with her pregnancy and be a single mother; she asked Sid a rhetorical question and she definitely did not wish nor hope that Sid will marry her in the first place. Sid was the one who took that responsibility to marry Asha. She was just one desperate woman. Desperate situation calls for desperate measures.

Yes, I don't think Sid will be having an extra-marital relationship. However, let's just see.

Ishani really needs to stay away from Sid. He is a married man now.

Sanjavni spoiler of today episode

https://youtu.be/RievssIXdvg

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Sanjavni spoiler of today episode

https://youtu.be/RievssIXdvg

It’s not spoiler anymore it’s update of today’s epi as we already saw it in Hotstar hmmmmm any way some body use their brains and start to unfold the bard Han and asha mystery bcz I don’t want this drama turning in to EKTA Kapoor