Sanjivani 2 Forum : Chat club #3 - Page 16

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

He wants both Dr. Sid and Dr. Ishani because he couldn't have his way around with these two. Dr. Rishav and others are either his pets or couldn't care less if the entire hospital is converted into a private facility and patients are charged extra. Only Dr. Sid and Ishani care about such things , protest and support Dr. Shashank and Juhi. They're the rebels with cause. Also they inspire into others the same spirit of rebel with a cause. Therefore if Vardhan wants to run Sanjivani as per his wish Dr. Sid and Dr. Ishani has to be removed. Ishani can still be somehow managed still she believes in maintaining rules bit Dr. Sid has to be removed.

Though I don't understand what's he going to achieve by making Sid marry Asha.

If I were him instead of throwing Dr. Sid and Dr. Ishani; what i would do is try to make them as uncomfortable as possible that they choose to quit themselves.

Originally posted by: Draconian

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Sona kya hua aapko?

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

I am not sure whether he could do justice...

Yes it's Sid decision to get into this mess & become Mahaan which he has done. But now why he can't leave Ishani in her state, why he wants to talk to her now, when he himself avoided her when she comes to him to sort out things. If he loves Ishani so much, then what's the need to reveal her that he was coming to her that night & was planning something special for her while telling the truth. Can't he cut that part, can't he pretend the same as earlier,that he wasn't interested in her & took this decision only for Asha. Why to show others that he sacrificed his love just to save Asha's dignity. It will be better & helpful for Ishani to come out this phase if he don't tell her that things, as she thinks her love was one sided, which she misunderstands as two sided.

Today Ishani gives all Mahaanta wale looks to Sid & says that what he has done was right & give a clean pass to him, it feels like that makers are trying to encourage the act of Sid. If a unmarried man is having a traumatized past like Sid, & finds any girl in a situation exactly similar to Asha, then the perfect solution in that situation is to marry her😏 How much makers try but I can't digest this stupid decision of Sid in 2019 especially when they both are doctors of so great Hospital , if it's 80's or 90's or ekta's serial then it's a different thing.

What to say about Asha, why madam ji don't care about these things earlier before doing gulu-gulu with Aman, doesn't she know the possible consequences of her actions & what will happen if she becomes preggy without wedlock. If she is all ready for physical relationship on her own earlier, then she should be ready alone to face the consequences also, why to spoil other's life(even if they're insisting) for your actions. Now I m done with this character ✋.

Btw tell me who dies that quickly by cutting nerve, & madam has no bandage on wrist the next day when she comes all happily after marriage in hospital.

I agree that one is not obligated to marry whom he/she loves. But if one marries someone he/she must be completely loyal to their partners in every sense, moving on with the past if they have.

Even I want the same, that Ishani should maintain a distance from Sid now but I can too see the same that it's not going to happen😔

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Welcome to the forum and chat club btw. It's good to have another addition here; especially, when many people have left.

Missing them all @Nuomi.

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

Thank you. 😳

Tbh, I don't mind a bit less crowded forum that much. Some times there are such toxic fanwars between different fan groups that it becomes impossible to stay in the forum. 😆 When there are many people, there's bound to be some difference of opinion and that's ok , but not fan wars.

Yeah! less crowded forum is better than forum having high toxicity😆But sometimes I feel every forum should have atleast some members spreading positivity all the time even if story has nothing.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

I think more than just trying to give the baby his name; he is also trying to save Dr. Asha from being shunned by communities. I mean an unmarried pregnant girl is still a stigma in India society. He knows firsthand how a fatherless child is bullied as a child; he knows firsthand how his mother is treated for being a single mother with no husband.

I agree with you. Ishani should try to move on and it shouldn't be too fast otherwise it wouldn't be realistic. She needs to heal from a broken heart and that takes times. However, I don't want to going after Dr. Sid and trying to gain his attentions and throw away her dignity. She needs dignity and self respect really.

All that is very good and makes sense too and " still a stigma " is like the understatement of the year because it's still a HUGE and I mean enormous issue in our India , no matter which social strata you belong to . But still what about Ishani ?? Wasn't it rather reckless or should I say, senseless of Asha to not take care of proper contraceptions before embarking on her wild journey to pleasure of flesh ?? Why must Ishani have to suffer because of another woman's gross indiscretion ?? Sid has proved that he cares nothing about Ishani by this little stunt of his . Didn't it ever occur to him , how lonely and without any friends or family she is , and didn't he think that by taking away both her love and her friend would crush and emotionally cripple her ?? Did he care ?

He doesn't mind condemning one woman ( whom he claims to love even if only to himself .) for rescuing another. Shows clearly where his priorities lie.

I'm very disappointed that Ishani isn't holding it against him that this is the solution he came up with to rescue Asha and I hope she doens't run after a married man. And Sid should just leave her alone and not follow her around like a crestfallen puppy.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

If I were him instead of throwing Dr. Sid and Dr. Ishani; what i would do is try to make them as uncomfortable as possible that they choose to quit themselves.

That's exactly what he's trying to do I must guess. Divide and rule policy . The same that he'd been doing with Anjali , Shashank and Juhi.

Originally posted by: kavya1994

Yes it's Sid decision to get into this mess & become Mahaan which he has done. But now why he can't leave Ishani in her state, why he wants to talk to her now, when he himself avoided her when she comes to him to sort out things. If he loves Ishani so much, then what's the need to reveal her that he was coming to her that night & was planning something special for her while telling the truth. Can't he cut that part, can't he pretend the same as earlier,that he wasn't interested in her & took this decision only for Asha. Why to show others that he sacrificed his love just to save Asha's dignity. It will be better & helpful for Ishani to come out this phase if he don't tell her that things, as she thinks her love was one sided, which she misunderstands as two sided.

Today Ishani gives all Mahaanta wale looks to Sid & says that what he has done was right & give a clean pass to him, it feels like that makers are trying to encourage the act of Sid. If a unmarried man is having a traumatized past like Sid, & finds any girl in a situation exactly similar to Asha, then the perfect solution in that situation is to marry her😏 How much makers try but I can't digest this stupid decision of Sid in 2019 especially when they both are doctors of so great Hospital , if it's 80's or 90's or ekta's serial then it's a different thing.

What to say about Asha, why madam ji don't care about these things earlier before doing gulu-gulu with Aman, doesn't she know the possible consequences of her actions & what will happen if she becomes preggy without wedlock. If she is all ready for physical relationship on her own earlier, then she should be ready alone to face the consequences also, why to spoil other's life(even if they're insisting) for your actions. Now I m done with this character ✋.

Btw tell me who dies that quickly by cutting nerve, & madam has no bandage on wrist the next day when she comes all happily after marriage in hospital.

I agree that one is not obligated to marry whom he/she loves. But if one marries someone he/she must be completely loyal to their partners in every sense, moving on with the past if they have.

Even I want the same, that Ishani should maintain a distance from Sid now but I can too see the same that it's not going to happen😔

I agree with every word of this post. So much.

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

What do you think Vardhan is upto ?? We already know that he hates Dr. Sid and want to fire him from Sanjivani . But how he manage all this and is Asha involved in this conspiracy?? Are they planning to make Asha completely negative ( which I don't want because I really loved Asha - Ishani friend in the beginning. ) Or is Vardhan blackmailing her in some way ? How exactly is it going to help him throw out Sid from Sanjivani?? Being married is not a crime.

What more Vardhan is planning to do ?

~Earlier I thought Vardhan just wants professional benefits but he has motives to take revenge from Shashank. He wants to take away every emotional support from him.

~He is almost done with Anjali, now in process of removing Sid & Ishani. He knows very well they both are emotional & have a bad past, which are their weak point. Rishabh is already a puppet under him. Maybe from somewhere Vardhan comes to know about Asha-Aman relationship & her pregnancy, then he makes Aman scared & ask him to run away. Post that maybe he is the one who suggests Asha to trap Sid in this situation by counting them benefits of the situation, first her unborn baby will get father's name plus she will get saved from facing tauntrams of her community and second by removing Ishani from her way she can have better opportunities for being permanent resident in Sanjivani. Also he only asks Asha to do suicide drama & calls Sid for help & when he comes pretend as if the call was connected to him by mistake.

~I have strong feeling that makers are turning her negative. This could be the reason why Rashmi ( previous Asha) quits this show. Now they show her as insecure wife who wants her sauten out of her married life. Again sauten drama here

~I don't think Vardhan's main purpose is to fire Sid, he only wants him out of his way, which he can do by making Sid hate Shanky & go against him for some reasons so that when Shashank needs them to save Sanjivani, he isn't with Shanky.

~Sid's mom & Shashank's story is also there. Chances are there that he is some way related/ responsible that Sid is without father. Sid will go against Shanky same like Anjali if this is the case. Maybe this secret too Vardhan knows & will use it in future. So he broke Sid from both sides first by losing his love & second by revealing that the person whom he respect so much is responsible for his pain he suffers all these years.

~Ishani too in broken state because of heartbreak & other side busy in sauten play with Asha.So she will also be not in a state to stand by Shashank.

~Last Juhi is left, for that Dr Rahul is already there on Vardhan's side. Rahul's entry is enough to bring storm in Juhi's life plus revelation of actual reason for firing her will also broke her. So this support of Shanky will also leave him.

After that Vardhan can easily make his last move that will make Shashank lose the war & his revenge will be completed.

Originally posted by: kavya1994

Yeah! less crowded forum is better than forum having high toxicity😆But sometimes I feel every forum should have atleast some members spreading positivity all the time even if story has nothing.

Well the sad thing is , I'm yet to see a forum that is crowded as well as positive. 😆 It's like seeing a unicorn. Or a ghost. 😆

Nowadays , I value peace of my mind more than anything . So I'd rather go for a cozy little forum than one full of ... drama , to put it politely.

I'm quite new to watching this show, I confess . I saw a few clips in IG in SC's tag and loved their chemistry ( Sidisha ) and started watching from both ends . I'm now on episode 39 as well as watching the recent episodes. I believe I'd be done catching up with all the old episodes within this weekend.

Sounds like I missed out on quite a bit of fun discussing the show's earlier episodes.