Originally posted by: Cute_Virgo
Respect for this post mamma bear🤗
🤗 to you too for this CV.
Girls....please excuse me for this. After Parth's yesterday's tweet, i just wanted to share these lines here, especially if it may help some of our visitors.
Pride goes before a fall.
Admire your favorite; Adore him/her to any extent you want. But don't worship them. Because, they are not God. Just like you & me they too are human beings with their own flaws. It is when you forget this and start imagining your favorite to be a perfect person, that you will attempt to downgrade others & their favorites. By doing so, you are only bringing a bad image on your idol. So, please beware of such obsessiveness that will do no good neither to you nor your idol.
I am an Eri fan and so, i will talk from that perspective. I have been in this state of keeping her on a pedestal before. But my girl herself taught me to accept her as i accept any of my dear ones with their flaws. I am not her obsessive fan anymore and i will not always praise her for everything. Just like i treat my son, i will use admonishing words for her too when needed. She is a grownup girl with her parents & extended family to advise her if she goes wrong. She herself have many times warned directly & indirectly not to interfere in her personal matters, especially when it comes to judging her costars. She has also said that she can never be angry with anyone for a long time and believes in sorting out things asap. And we have seen lots of similar examples from her many times. So, if you love her, do it for whom she is; not for whom she is not and stop trying to force your expectations on her.
Sorry girls again for the essay. Tried a lot to control myself. But, felt like venting it out one last time.
Edited by grace4317 - 6 years ago