Kisne kaha chalta hai?
Almost all the contestants, Shukla, Rashmi, Asim, Paras, Debo, Daljeet, Sana, Dey etc etc have used gender in one form or the other as a medium to insult or ridicule. Neither of it is right.
As far as I know some of the contestants have been called out each time they did it. By the host, guests and the audience as well Especially the audience. In fact a few contestant's comments have slipped under the radar too. For eg, Shukla calling Dey 'Aurat' as a term of abuse, or even Daljeet ka eviction interview mai she says that Auroto jaise nahi kheli, or Paras ka miss beautiful for Asim at the very beginning. These and quite a few comments have managed to pass through the radar of many outrages. Depends on one's affability/ non affability towards certain contestants.
Neither of it is right. But that is what you get when neither have their concepts clear or are ignorant about certain things. Urvashi as a guest did manage to throw some light on this aspect to both, guys and girls, but to no avail.
Forget them, even on the forum I have seen terms like janaanis or aunties used as a term of offense. Bhai, aunty log hi sirf gossip nahi karte. Should see uncles gossip someday. Aunties ko bhi peeche chodh denge.
To some it up, Iss hamam mai sabhi nange hai.