Jo Tera Hai Woh Mera, Aur Jo Mera Woh Tera - Aa Jao Saarey - Upd Pg 1 - Page 46

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But she herself through her writing terms these character traits as dumb.

Her 2 flawless characters, Mini and Mickey discusses other character flaws and names then immature. Mickey literally called Babita stupid.

So all the flaws are in elders and their youngsters are perfect.

Anyways, at this juncture, all these points falls flat with the way she has progressed the story!

Exactly. Youngsters's POV is always correct, whereas HS and Babita are flawed, immature, insensitive and pata nahi kya kaya. Also, she herself is so biased towards one character. I sense BS all over.

She might have started off showing all of that she's written in that status, but somewhere in the middle towards Imarti's track, she lost the direction and it never resurfaced after that. So, her preaching all this falls flat.

Originally posted by: Manasi_MD

These same characters existed at the beginning of the show too. This same social conditioning existed at the beginning of the show too. Achanak kyu problem aa gayi?

Problem?

Favoritism, biased towards one character, creating unnecessary drama for TRP, butchering every single character to glorify one, lost direction, not taking any constructive criticism, EGOISTIC, etc etc.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly. Youngsters's POV is always correct, whereas HS and Babita are flawed, immature, insensitive and pata nahi kya kaya. Also, she herself is so biased towards one character. I sense BS all over.

She might have started off showing all of that she's written in that status, but somewhere in the middle towards Imarti's track, she lost the direction and it never resurfaced after that. So, her preaching all this fell flat.

It seems like she made a narrative mistake during the Imarti track, but instead of accepting that mistake, she decided to change the entire storyline to suit that mistake.

Mom calls this "Gire toh bhi taang upar" 😆

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I think they eat chicken. It was mentioned once by Mini in earlier episodes.

And during Navratre, Babita told HS something like sirf veg banega.

.Nahi she said navaratron vala khana banega..Not veg..

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I am not saying she is ungrateful or she doesn't respect him. At this point I don't even want her to accept him as father. The problem lies in her dialogues ' wo mere father nahi ban sakte' - Why should he become her father in first place and what exactly he has to do to become one? Is that some post for which he should give some exam?

The other thing is she never seems to consider he could get hurt by her words or actions. For her he is some statue which would take anything thrown at it. There was no need to call his marriage a project to break social norms. She forgets he has invested his emotions in this marriage.

Yeah maybe she is unake to accept him.as father that is why she said vo father nhi ban sakte & yeah this whole.pressure to to become father daughter is stupid ..Let the bond grow naturally & he doesnt even need to her father what ever bond they shard is much ore beautiful if they want to name their relation as father daughter its fine if they dont want its fine too as long as beautiful bond is there...&

Regarding project thing she even consider Babita her project too not only HS ..She will learn with time ..

Originally posted by: Manasi_MD

It seems like she made a narrative mistake during the Imarti track, but instead of accepting that mistake, she decided to change the entire storyline to suit that mistake.

Mom calls this "Gire toh bhi taang upar" 😆

Exactly!! Its not Babita, its her who's egoistic, she can't seem to accept her mistakes

Also, I remember so many dialogues they said that clearly gave viewers the perception that HS-Mini will be true father-daughter:

Dadu - Babita ke alawa agar koi Mini ki chinta karta hai, toh woh hai HS, HS Mini ki dekhbhal karta hai bilkul ek Baap ki tarah, Baap ki jagah li hai usne

HS - Main hun uska father (during hospital track), and everything else that followed.

Dadu also talked about Rishte khoon se nahi bhawnaoon se bante hain... "khoon ka rishta" father Ashok vs. "Dil ka rishta" father HS.

Now writers wanna tell us that Khoon ka Rishta above all, that HS can never become Mini's father, that Mini will rather seek out Ashok rather than HS. Umm ok 🤔

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

Yeah maybe she is unake to accept him.as father that is why she said vo father nhi ban sakte & yeah this whole.pressure to to become father daughter is stupid ..Let the bond grow naturally & he doesnt even need to her father what ever bond they shard is much ore beautiful if they want to name their relation as father daughter its fine if they dont want its fine too as long as beautiful bond is there...&

Regarding project thing she even consider Babita her project too not only HS ..She will learn with time ..

I can give her some advice though ' agar itne time baad bhi woh HS ko nahi jaan payi toh use khud ki mann ko tatolna jyaada zaroori hai. Aur kisi ko hamare kuch banne ke liye hame bhi unka kuch banna padta hai. Koi makan ghar nahi hota jab tak ham use ghar nahi banate.'

Originally posted by: Jiarao

She may learn with time. But I have no patience left to watch it. 😆Whatever happens will be too little too late for me .

I can give her some advice though ' agar itne time baad bhi woh HS ko nahi jaan payi toh use khud ki mann ko tatolna jyaada zaroori hai. Aur kisi ko hamare kuch banne ke liye hame bhi unka kuch banna padta hai. Koi makan ghar nahi hota jab tak ham use ghar nahi banate.'

Well said. A lot of this comes from her sense of entitlement.

I just love how you all know what I'm up to. 😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I just love how you all know what I'm up to. 😆

Of course we know 😆. Waiting for it 😉