Even am copying my reply,
Also to add, his experiences are such that her image is formed that way. Credits, Salma to a major extent. He did call Roshni and even went to warn her but was intercepted by Salma both times, now he cannot imagine that Salma is playing games and information hasn't reached Roshni, cos she is her mom. He did make efforts to deliver. Also talking about Farishte ka dil, true but for him, his experiences coloured a picture. He judged her, but the same way even Roshni judged him in the first meeting, wherein she just made random accusations on his dad, without knowing anything and without letting him speak.
Main issue here is communication, first Roshni never allowed Aman to speak and now it's other way round. So they both have their flaws here, they need to understand the other person truly and listen, let the other speak and do some research.
For a person to make a judgement, the person needs to experience it himself. He has never seen Roshni being a person with farishte ka dil, her best friend has seen, so she often tells her. Aman saw a darker picture of her dancing and then doing a second marriage, though she knew reality, as Salma told..so from his perspective it's that way. Meanwhile Roshni also has seen only his bad side, so even she has judged him to be the worst person. Cos he was made to do such extreme things cos of his mom, like the Tabeezi mentioned, his love for his ammi is higher .. Roshni is yet to meet Aman who has good qualities, cares for his family and his insecurities. Same way he has to meet her who has a beautiful heart, and her bakery dream, finding her parents. They need to understand each other for journey to begin..
With way things went, both are justified in their situations...cos at end of the day both went to extreme way for their Ammis..
PS : Found it extremely odd that Roshni didn't ask her friend for help, for money...but then it's a show and they wanted to show marriage, so giving it a pass
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