Open letter to Devoleena: Fight like a woman, do not dilute #MeToo

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Posted: 6 years ago
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https://www.indiatvnews.com/entertainment/tv/bigg-boss-13-devoleena-bhattacharjee-sidharth-shukla-metoo-558746

Open letter to Devoleena: Fight like a woman, do not dilute #MeToo

Ms Devoleena Bhattacharjee, what Sidharth Shukla did to you, or might have done to you, was not a matter related to #MeToo. He is not your senior; nor is he misusing and abusing his power.

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If you want to play THE WOMAN CARD in physically demanding

If you want to play THE WOMAN CARD in physically demanding tasks, be India's guest and do it -- and desperately, but Ms Bhattacharjee, do not, and I repeat, DO NOT DARE TO DILUTE A MOVEMENT WHICH TOOK OVER TWO DECADES TO BUILD UP AND SHOW RESULTS.

Ms Devoleena Bhattacharjee

I am not an audience -- neither of your previous shows', nor of Bigg Boss', of which you are currently a part. But I am a responsible woman -- living in this patriarchal society, where women, and history has enough number of examples, have struggled to even speak about their harassers.

My Twitter timeline is filled with what you claimed could be a "#MeToo incident" inside the Bigg Boss house. I was left in a state of shock by the absurdity of your argument.

I had to check the feed on Voot, and watch for myself if your claim was a case of sexual harassment -- because #MeToo is clearly out of the question. AND BY MILES, out of the damned question.

And I want to bring this to your notice, Ms Bhattacharjee.

One of the most popular web encyclopediae explains #MeToo as: "a social movement that is against sexual violence and sexual assault. It advocates for females who survived sexual violence to speak out about their experience."

In October 2018, almost a year after the #MeToo movement erupted in the United States, more precisely, Hollywood, allegations of sexual harassment and assault flooded India's media industry.

Among the innumerable cases that were reported in India, there was a journalist who recounted a tale from over a decade and a script writer who detailed the series of events after two decades -- at a risk of being questioned about the delay.

An incident of sexual harassment leaves you shattered from within the core and only a victim can understand what it takes to even address a related topic -- and hence, the delay.

Picture the scenario where every word uttered by them was true... It would have taken them reserves of self assurance and confidence to come out in public and speak about what had transpired back then -- THAT'S WHAT SEXUAL HARASSMENT DOES TO YOUR SOUL!

Ms Devoleena Bhattacharjee, what Sidharth Shukla did to you or might have done to you was not a matter related to #MeToo. He is not your senior; nor is he misusing and abusing his power.

And I am not even commenting on if he is wrong or right -- that should be best left for your audience, and more importantly, the makers and the host of Bigg Boss, to decide.

You are a celebrity. And you, at best, know what goes in- and out- side the industry. How dare you then "threaten" to levy #MeToo charges against a man who might or might not have touched you inappropriately DURING A TASK IN THE REALITY SHOW KNOWN AS BIGG BOSS!?

You, at best, knew there would be tasks in the house asking you to physically fight with well-built men.

If you want to play THE WOMAN CARD in physically demanding tasks, be India's guest and do it -- and desperately, but Ms Bhattacharjee, do not, and I repeat, DO NOT DARE TO DILUTE A MOVEMENT THAT TOOK OVER TWO DECADES TO FOMENT, BUILD UP AND SHOW RESULTS.

And if you are woman enough, fight on your merits. DO NOT USE THE WOMAN CARD.

Sidharth Shukla is a well-built man; if you cannot compete with him, leave the task. But do not shame yourself, and the entire womanhood, by mouthing irresponsible statements. It is because of statements like this, and false and frivolous cases, that the movement lost its relevance...

Do not be Indian women's culprit. FIGHT LIKE A WOMAN, MS BHATTACHARJEE!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Really ?I don't remember her saying this .Sid Shukla is already a metoo accused. Maybe she was talking about that

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: subhs

Really ?I don't remember her saying this .Sid Shukla is already a metoo accused. Maybe she was talking about that

No, she literary said "Agar yaha aaya to me #MeToo laga dungi

And how would she know he has MeToo accusation? It happened after BB started.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree that It might not be a Me Too movement, but definitely he was intimidating her , Mahira and other women physically by Trying to push and shove them.

So in rage , she must have said about "me too" in the spur of the moment , yet so many articles are out bashing Devo abd other women for supposedly playing "women card" but not even one article says Shukla is wrong when he goes physically intimidating other women.

Hail Patriarchy There are so many Armaan Kohli & Aartis out there in our country 👏

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Of course uska woh matlab nh tha😳 That devil Shukla put those words in bichari lachaar pure and pious Gopi vahu’s mouth.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Lol this article is so far fetched, gosh.. making a big deal out of nothing. First focus on how Siddharth Shukla is behaving with women in the house rather than once again targeting a woman in a incident where the man clearly has more faults.

If this season was aired in the west, there would be protests against Shukla.. since this is airing in India, fingers are being pointed at the women more.

Edited by xNinalove - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Devo shouldn't have used #MeToo charges so lightly, it was absolutely wrong of her...

Us #MeToo victims are already fighting against society prejudices, we don't need celebrities diluting it and making a joke out of it in this way..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: dsptl

No, she literary said "Agar yaha aaya to me #MeToo laga dungi

And how would she know he has MeToo accusation? It happened after BB started.

She said if he touches me ...please stop spreading wrong information.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Oh lord. Whoever wrote this article is such a nincompoop. It’s women like these who are women’s enemies.

What is “Fighting like a woman” huh? According to this woman, it’s keeping quiet and leaving the task. God.

I’m so so glad that the girls fought back even when it was getting physical.

No wonder India is one of the worst places for women to live in. People will only find faults with the woman herself and not the perpetrator. For every support for a woman, there will be a hundred people defending the guy. A guy can push and shove the women but HOW DARE the women do or say anything against it. How dare they “play the woman card”!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: xNinalove

Lol this article is so far fetched, gosh.. making a big deal out of nothing. First focus on how Siddharth Shukla is behaving with women in the house rather than once again targeting a woman in a incident where the man clearly has more faults.

If this season was aired in the west, there would be protests against Shukla.. since this is airing in India, fingers are being pointed at the women more.

Unfortunately in our country, women are supposed to be soft spoken, vulnerable, shy and ever-sacrificing.

Anything other than this means she is not good, devil or even characterless.

Aggressive man who needs therapy is called Asli mard

#HailPatriarchy

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